Ngakhale kuti anthu atha kusintha kwambiri, nthawi zambiri timathetsa mavuto omwe anthu ambiri amachititsa kuti azitha kukhala nawo. Ndicho chifukwa chake m'malingaliro a amayi ambiri amene anapulumuka chisudzulo, lingaliro la kubwezera kwa mwamuna wakale limakwera. Mu mafilimu zonse zimachita bwino komanso zopanda pake, chifukwa chake wolakwira amalanga, mkaziyo ndi wopambana ndipo palibe chodandaula nacho. Koma, mu mafilimu okha, mwatsoka, moyo umapereka chirichonse mu mitundu ina. Kulakalaka kubwezera kuli kovuta, mophweka, wina akhoza kuchoka chirichonse pamlingo wa chilakolako ndi malingaliro, ndipo wina ali wokonzeka kuchitapo kanthu, ndipo nthawi yomweyo ndi mosaganizira. Makamaka chikhumbochi chikuwonjezeka ndi kuwonjezeka kwa mkwiyo wokhazikika pazochitika pamene zikuwoneka kuti palibe china chosowa.
Pali njira zingapo zakale komanso zowonjezereka zomwe mungathe kubwezera kwa mwamuna wanu wakale. Koma musaiwale, kubwezera chifunikiranso njira yolenga, pokhapokha zidzakhala zapadera komanso zosiyana, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti zidzakupatsani chisangalalo chokwanira, ndipo musaiwale kutsatira malamulo.
Chabwino, kodi tikuyamba kuvulazidwa?
Mukuganiza poyamba - zothandiza.
Chinthu choyamba chimene chimabwera m'maganizo mwa amayi omwe ali ndi mawu akuti "kubwezera pa kale" ndi kusokoneza pa mtengo wapatali kwambiri. Inde, uwu ndi makina, ntchito kapena kompyuta. Tiyeni tiyambe muyambirira - galimoto iyi. Sinthani galimoto mu mulu wa zitsulo zokhala ndi zing'onozing'ono osati zofunikira, ngakhale kuti pokhapokha ndondomekoyi idzakupatsani chisangalalo chachikulu, ndikulolani kutaya mphamvu zowonongeka zonse. Mukhoza kusintha pang'ono mtundu, kapena kukonza mbalame podyetsa. Mulimonsemo, chirichonse chikhoza kutchulidwa ndi achifwamba, kapena ambuye-wachikondi-woyandikana naye. Kubwezera kuli kochitidwa ndipo palibe kuwonongeka kwakukulu.
Mfundo yachiwiri yomwe mungathe kubwezera kwa mwamuna wanu wakale ndi ntchito yake. Ngati muli ndi mwayi wopeza imelo yake yogwira ntchito, ndipo osachepera chimodzi chojambula chithunzi, agawana chikumbukiro ichi ndi anzake, ndikukhulupirira, chizindikiro ichi chidzayamikiridwa. Mukhozanso kumutumizira mapepala oyanjanitsa, ndi mavitamini okoma, ngakhale osakhala ovulaza. Mulimonsemo, ntchito yopangira ntchito idzasokonezedwa.
Chinthu chachitatu kuchokera mndandanda wa zinthu zomwe mumazikonda ndi kompyuta. Kawirikawiri kwa iye, amuna amathera nthawi yawo yambiri yaulere. Pano, kachilombo kamene kanatchulidwa kangathenso kuthandizira, kapena kuchotsa masewera omwe mumawakonda mukugawikana, kumene kunkafika nthawi yovuta kwambiri kufika pamapeto omaliza. Mwamuna wakale sangakonde chidwi choterocho.
Lingaliro lachiwiri ndilokulenga.
Ndipo sitimayendayenda ndi munthu wina woyera - zovala zawo. Sizowona kuti abambo amalephera kuyang'ana maonekedwe awo kusiyana ndi akazi, ndi nkhani ina momwe amachitira izo ndipo amavomereza. Panthawi yomwe mumakhala pamodzi, inu, mwachidziwikire, mwathandizira kuti munthu adziwe zovala zatsopano. Ino ndiyo nthawi yochotsa iwo kumeneko. Kuwonongeka kosavuta kwa mtundu umenewu ndi banal osati zosangalatsa, kuwonetsa malingaliro anu ndi chilengedwe. Ndithudi iye adzadabwa kwambiri kupeza pa bedi lake mtsamiro watsopano kapena pamene awoneka chowala mu chimbudzi. Ndipo tangoganizani kudabwa kwake ngati zinthu zonsezi zidzapangidwa kuchokera ku malaya opanga zovala, jekete yomwe mumakonda komanso tie yatsopano? Koma inu munayesa ndi moyo wanu wonse.
Lingaliro lachitatu ndilokwiyitsa.
Kuti akwaniritse ndondomeko yolakwikayi ayenera kupereka ulemu kwa kuyambitsidwa kwa mafoni a m'manja. Ikani funsolo, anu, kamodzi-mwamuna wokondedwa pa malo ochezera ndi chiyeso choyesa chomwe sichidzafotokozedwa kwa akazi okha. Kapena aloleni kuti agulitse katundu wake pa malonda ndi malonda pa malonda. Inde mitengo idzakhala yokongola kwambiri. Inde, mwa njira musaiŵale kusonyeza manambala onse omwe angatheke, kuphatikizapo mafoni, kunyumba ndi ntchito. Mwamuna wanu wakale adzakhala wosangalala kwambiri ndi chidwi chochuluka.
Azimayi ena amasankha kulemba choonadi chonse mu LiveJournal, kuwonjezerapo ndi zithunzi ndikuwonekera ku khoti la anthu. Izi, ndithudi, ndizomwe mungakonde, koma pakadali pano muyenera kufotokoza khalidwe lanu, komanso onse awiri ali ndi mlandu wokangana. Kotero ndibwino kuti musadziwonetse nokha.
Mukuganiza ndi chachinayi, chonyenga.
Anthu ambiri amawerenga nkhani ya dona wabwino amene, atachoka panyumba atatha kusudzulana, adaganiza kuti azikhala ndi chakudya chamadzulo. Ndipo ma prawns ambiri, ankatsanulira mitsempha yawo mwakachetechete mu chimanga cha tubular. Kuchotsa zochitikazi, iye nthawi yomweyo anasamuka. Koma patapita kanthawi, ndinagula nyumba yanga mobwerezabwereza, komanso mtengo wabwino. Chifukwa cha ichi chinali fungo loipa lomwe linawoneka mnyumbamo, monga mwamuna wake ankaganiza, kuchokera ponseponse. Ndi chifukwa chake iye ndi mkazi wake watsopano anasankha kuchokapo. Ndipo kuyambira pakhomo - kununkhira, palibe yemwe akufuna kugula, amayenera kugulitsa icho kwa yekhayo wokonzeka, pa mtengo womwe iye mwiniwake wasankha. Chinthu chokhumudwitsa kwambiri m'nkhaniyi ndi chakuti posakhalitsa mzimayi wakale adayima pakhomo la nyumba yake, ndikuyang'ana pamene antchito adasuntha chimanga chakale kupita kunyumba ya mwamuna watsopano.
Kotero, madona okondedwa, ichi ndi chidziwitso choti inu muganizire.
Mukuganiza ndi chachisanu, kutsimikiziridwa.
Kujambula munthu wowonongeka mwakuthupi pakubwezera kubwezera ndibwino, koma zimatha kufanizidwa ndi zizolowezi zopanda pake. Ngati mukufunadi kubwezera kwa mwamuna wanu wakale - gwiritsani ntchito zopanda pake. Amuna onse ali ndi chidaliro kuti atachoka, mumangoyamba kuphedwa kokha, kulira ndi kupemphera kuti mubwerere, kenako nkukhumudwa mu moyo komanso pansi pa mawu akuti "musatengere zomwezo kwa aliyense", pitani ku masisitere. Zidzakhala zodabwitsa kwa iye kukuwonani inu osangalala kwambiri, okondwa komanso osaganizira za iye. Ngati kuwonjezera muli ndi chibwenzi chatsopano, zotsatira zake ziposa zonse zomwe mukuyembekezera. Choyamba, izo zidzakuthandizani kuzindikira kuti moyo wonse uli patsogolo, ndikuti mukukongolabe monga kale. Chachiwiri, dongosolo ili la zinthu lidzakakamiza mwamuna wanu wakale kuti aganizire za kuyenerera kwa zochita zake ndikuyang'ana yemwe wataya.
Kotero amayi okondeka, momwe mungabwezere chobwezera, ndipo ngati mutabwezera konse - inu mumasankha. Chinthu chachikulu ndichochita ndi ulemu.