Munasiya kusangalala ndi mndandanda wanu wa pa TV, chinthu chatsopano kapena chakudya chokoma pa malo odyera mtengo? Kodi mumachita nawo nthabwala zonse za abwenzi ndi kumwetulira kwachisoni? Kodi sabata la sabata silikubweretsa chimwemwe? Chilichonse chimakhala ngati inu munagwidwa ndi "HIV" ya oldonia: ili ndilo mawu mu psychology omwe amafuna kuchepa kwa kuthekera kusangalala ndi moyo.
Mwa njira, ichi sichidziwika kwa ife kuvutika maganizo, pamene chirichonse chimakhala chodzaza kwathunthu mu zingwe zakuda, ndipo mitambo ya mabingu ikuwonekera patsogolo. Pankhani iyi, iyo sinali gulu lakuda, koma ndi mdima. Yiwu iwe chifukwa cha izi pali zifukwa!
Ganizirani chimodzi: eto!
Malingaliro anu omwe mumakhala nawo nthawi zonse a kupeza zabwino, monga lamulo, amachititsa manyazi. Ndipo mumapanda "kumenyana ngati nsomba pa ayezi" poyesera kusintha chinachake kuti muwongolere chinachake chomwe chiri kutali kwambiri ndi chithunzi cholakalaka.
Matendawa : "chimanga" chimwemwe.
Zizindikiro : "Ngakhale pang'ono, komabe pang'ono!"
Chifukwa chachikulu, chomwe chimatchedwa, chosasangalala inu ndinu nokha: angwiro omwe amasangalala ndi moyo palibe. Mukamayesa kupondereza chimwemwe chanu kuti chiwonekere, moyo wanu umakula kwambiri kusakhutira ndi kutopa. Chotsatira chake, malo onse okondweretsa amachotsedwa, ndipo panthawi imodzimodzi, osati nyumba yokha yabwino, komanso kukoma kwa moyo.
Kuchiza : Pezani paradaiso wotayika (kumene chirichonse ndi chirichonse chinali changwiro), anthu ambiri amayesera kutambasula kwa zaka zopitirira khumi. Koma zonse sizinapindule. Musataye mphamvu zanu pa izo! Tiyeni ndikuuzeni chinsinsi, pokhala pafupi ndi mnzanu wabwino (mwadzidzidzi muli ndi mwayi wokwaniritsa malotowo), mumangokhala osokonezeka kwambiri!
Chifukwa chachiwiri: masts onse !
Nthawi zonse mumaganiza kuti pokhala munthu wopambana, mukwaniritse maloto anu onse. Ndipo tsopano mwakwaniritsa izo ndipo tsopano chiyani? Momwe mungakhalire ndi kumene mungapeze tanthauzo latsopano la kukhala kwanu?
Kuzindikira : "tetanasi" pamapeto pake.
Zizindikiro : "Zonsezi ndizotani?"
Maloto a ana onse ayenera kukhazikitsidwa mofulumira mokwanira: ali ofikirika komanso konkrete. Koma ngati "mdima wakuda wakuda wakuda" ukugwedezeka kutsogolo kwa nyumbayo (mwina: Barbie ndi Ken ali ndi nyumba yosungirako bwino), ndi chiyani chinanso chomwe mungalota? Ngati munthu adakali wamng'ono, zimakhala zovuta kuti avomereze zokhumba zatsopano. Pano inu ndi zotsatira za mkhalidwe uwu - kudzikweza, kusasangalala, kusakhutira ndi moyo.
Chithandizo . Njira imodzi yochiritsira ikhoza kutchedwa mankhwala oopsya. Mwachitsanzo, kumadzulo, wodwala woteroyo amamangidwa m'ndende kwa sabata imodzi, ndipo kuyang'ana mlengalenga pogwiritsa ntchito grating, amayamba kumvetsetsa zonse zomwe zimamuzungulira.
Ngati zokondweretsa zanu zonse zikuyesedwa, bweretsa chimwemwe kwa wina. Ndipo ndithudi mumamva kudzikonda nokha.
Chifukwa chachitatu: mawu oopsya ...
Chirichonse chachitika kwa inu, chomwe inu munalota, koma nkhawa ikusiya inu pamtunda wofanana ndipo chifukwa cha ichi palibe tsiku limodzi losangalatsa m'moyo wanu.
Kuzindikira : "Kutentha" chifukwa chotheka.
Zizindikiro : "Tili poizoni, galimoto yabedwa, galu ali poizoni, nyumba imabedwa ..."
Chifukwa cha nkhaŵa zotero, malinga ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo, ndikuti tikukhala m'dziko lomwe liri ndi chidziwitso chowonjezeka, chomwe, monga lamulo, chimapanga psychosis yaikulu. Mwa njira, yemwe ali ndi chinachake choyenera kutaya, wamantha kwambiri. Ndipo ngati mumakhala nthawi zonse ndikudikirira mawa kuti "mapeto a dziko lapansi", ndiye mumapeza kuti, chimwemwe ndi chisangalalo kuchokera patsogolo?
Chithandizo . Inde, kuti mukhale mtendere mu dziko lonse lapansi, sitingathe kuyankha, ziribe kanthu momwe akufunira. Zili zotheka kukhazikitsa malo athu otetezeka, chifukwa nthawizonse n'zotheka kutsimikizira nyumba, galimoto, kuika ndalama ku banki yodalirika, etc. Yesetsani kuchita izi, ndipo mwachiwonekere mudzamasula "kuzunzika" kwanu!
Chifukwa chachinayi: bodza!
Ntchito yanu ikufanana ndi filimu yosangalatsa kwambiri ya galimoto imene mumachita mbali yaikulu. Koma mukangoyamba kuyamika ndi kupambana, mumangokhalira kumvetsa chisoni: "Kodi mukusangalala ndi chiyani? Ena mwa zaka zanga ali kale mtsogoleri! Ndi pamene iwo andilera ine, ndiye ine ndidzakhala wokondwa ... "
Kuzindikira : "kuchedwa" chimwemwe.
Zisonyezo : "Chabwino, munthu angasangalale bwanji pa moyo pamene mbale sizikusambidwa (lipoti silinaperekedwe, osati lokonzeka, maphunziro, ndi zina zotero)? Pano ndiye ... "
"Ndiye zonsezo" ndi mawu omwe amapereka chiyembekezo ndikuthetsedwa ku ngodya yayikulu pamodzi ndi chimwemwe kuchokera pa zomwe zilipo tsopano. Mwa njira, zikhoza kuchitika kuti "thukuta" lotereli silikuthandizani.
Chithandizo . Lingaliro lachinyengo pakati pa anthu omwe ali ndi udindo akhoza kukokera kwa zaka zambiri. Mwa njirayi, mwanayo samalota kuti amusangalatse mu "ngodya yayitali" kufikira atapanga zoseweretsa zonse mmalo mwake ndikupeza zisanu ndi zilakolako za masamu, ndipo ali ndi chitamando kuchokera kwa makolo ake.
"Tsopano ndi pano!" - mottoyi nthawi zonse wakhala maziko a ubwana wokondwa. Ndikofunika kwambiri kupyolera mu moyo wonse mwayi wokhala ndi mphindi zochepa za moyo wanu: kukondwera tsiku lotsatira, kukumana ndi anzanu, pamapeto a sabata ndi zina zonse zomwe zingabweretse mtendere kwa inu nokha. Ndipo kuyembekezera pa "nyanja ya nyengo" ndithudi sikudzakubweretsani chimwemwe chochuluka.
Kulingalira zisanu: ululu
Inu mumakhala mukuzoloŵera kudandaula za "kuti musakhale pamwamba pa inu". Simudzakhala ndi galimoto ngati Olga, malo osungiramo zinthu ngati Svetlana ... Mwa kulankhula kwina, okhawo omwe mumadziwana nawo ali ndi ufulu wokondwera ndi moyo, koma siwe munthu woyenera!
Kuzindikira : kusangalala "kulephera".
Zizindikiro : "Ndi mwayi kwa ena kukhala monga chonchi ..."
Zokongola ngati zikhoza kuoneka, cholinga chachikulu cha umbombo wa jivas chimaonedwa kukhala chopweteka nthawi zonse pa kukula kwa chimwemwe chenicheni poyerekeza ndi chimwemwe cha anthu ena. Monga lamulo, umbombo nthawizonse umakhala ndi bulimia ya moyo, ndipo anthu achisoni nthawi zonse amalota kukhala moyo wabwino kuposa wina.
Chithandizo . Zimadziwika bwino kwa onse kuti ndizovuta kukhala osangalala kuposa wina. Kotero, pambuyo pa zonse, simukusowa kuchita izi, ndipo muyenera kukhala moyo wanu popanda kuyang'ana kupambana kwa ena?
Ndipo potsiriza, ine ndikufuna kuwonjezera, misala chotero si kanthu kabwino, kupatula kuti chitukuko cha kusanza kwachisokonezo sichingathe. Choncho, kuonetsetsa kuti swamis sizichitika, mumalimbikitsidwa kuti mupite ku "chakudya chokondweretsa": kuchepetsa kuchuluka kwa magawo a zosangalatsa, ndi chochitika chilichonse chomwe chimapangitsa chisangalalo ndi chimwemwe "kutafuna" mosamala komanso kwa nthawi yaitali! Sizodabwitsa kukumbukiranso mau amodzi a Bernard Shaw, amene amanena kuti chiyembekezo chimakhala chokwaniritsidwa, koma anthu osowa mtendere amakhala ndi maloto okhaokha!