Banja lachikondi, limene mulibe kusagwirizana ndi zochitika zilizonse, palibe. Mavuto kwa ena ndi achibale osangalatsa komanso osakhalitsa, umboni wa chikondi ndi chikhulupiliro. Pali lingaliro lakuti chikondi chenicheni sichikhoza kuyang'ana zolimbikitsa zilizonse. Ngakhale pali kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa kusagwirizana ndi nkhondo yovuta. Kwa chisokonezo sichikhala chamagazi, muyenera kuyesetsa kuthetsa iwo mwamtendere. Malangizo osamvetsetseka a momwe mungayanjanitsire ndi mnyamata wokondedwa wanu angathandize kumanga ubale weniweni, weniweni ndi wachimwemwe ndi iye.
Kusamvana 1 - pempho losakwaniritsidwe.
Mavuto omwe ali m'banja amawombana amakangana pakati pa mabanja omwe amakhala pamodzi. Kawirikawiri, pempho la halves anu okonda kusamba mbale, kapena kugula mphatso kwa makolo ake, kapena kudyetsa ziweta kuti zisakwaniritsidwebe. Apa ndi pamene milandu imayambitsa kusagwirizana, kusasamala, kutsatiridwa ndi zochititsa manyazi zosiyanasiyana ndikunyozedwa. Kuyanjana ndi wokondedwa wanu muzovutazi sikophweka. Choyamba, muyenera kuyesa kuchotsa zolembera zamakono zomwe mumalankhula. Kulankhulana ndi munthu mwadzidzidzi, angakhale ndi chosowa chokhazikika, chofunika kwambiri kwa wolakwira. Ndi bwino kupepesa koyamba ndikuvomereza kuti iye amachititsa chidani chachikulu mu adilesi yanu.
Mtsutso 2 - mkwiyo wochuluka.
Chisokonezo chikhoza kuchitika chifukwa cha alendo. Patsiku lonse, mwamuna amayesetsa kukhala ndi moyo wabwino, kenako amachotsa mkwiyo umene amapeza tsiku ndi achibale ake. Zochita zoterezi zingapangitse kuti mfundoyi isathe. Musamadzudzule wokondedwa wanu, ndi bwino kumupatsa nthawi yokhala chete. Mu kupitiriza kwa "amatsenga" ake muyenera kukhala ndi nyimbo zosangalatsa, koma musamve mokweza. Njira yabwino kwambiri, yothetsera mgwirizano ndi mnyamata muzochitika izi, zidzatanthauzira chidwi chake pazochita zomwe amakonda. Mnyamata aliyense amakonda nthawi yomwe ntchito zomwe amamukonda amachitira nawo mbali.
Kusamvana 3 ndi mkazi wina.
Maganizo a nsanje, ndithudi, ndi omwe amachititsa kuti pakhale chisokonezo pakati pa awiriawiri. Pa nthawi yomweyi, atsikana ambiri achinyamata amasonyeza nsanje pafupi ndi kusakhulupirika. Pankhaniyi pamene theka lina likufuna kupita kumsonkhano wina ndi mnzake - sizingatanthauze kuti akufuna kusintha. Nsanje yopanda malire anyamata achichepere akungokakamiza anthu kuti achite chiwembu. Nchifukwa chiyani mukukonzekera zosafunika za nsanje ndi misonzi, ngakhale ngakhale mkwiyo, mwamunayo amatha kuchita mwanjira yake? Kodi cholakwikacho chachitika kale? Ndiye tikusowa kupeza njira yothetsera chiyanjano. Ndi mwana wanu wokondedwa ndibwino kuti mukhale mwamtendere atabwerera kunyumba. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kusiya uthenga pagalasi ndi uthenga wa chikhululukiro ndi chikondi, ndipo koposa zonse, yesani kugona. Kupepesa kotere ndi kukongola kwa kugona kumakhala kovuta kwambiri ndi mnyamata wokondedwayo.
Kusamvana 4 - Kuukira achibale.
Guy amakhumudwitsa kwambiri mawu a banja lake. Kuchokera ku zizoloŵezi zoipa, kusamutsidwa pa jini, mzake wokondedwa amayamba kusuntha kuntchito yake yamtengo wapatali. Kodi mukufuna kusintha chifukwa chokunyoza amayi anu ndi abambo kapena abambo anu? Muyenera kusonyeza ulemu wanu kwa iwo. Yesetsani kuti mnyamatayo amve zotsutsa ndi zifukwa, ndiye kukhudza mwachikondi kungathandize. Pamapeto pa mgonero muyenera kusisita khosi lake kuti athetse mavuto. Pakati pa minofu mungayambe kukambirana za zifukwa zosagwirizana. Kulimbikira, koma kugwira mwamphamvu ndi kosavuta kumutu kumakhala njira yosangalatsa, chifukwa iyi ndi imodzi mwa magawo ovuta kwambiri a amuna. Mikangano ya mitundu yonse idzaiwalika. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kuyesa mwakhama.
Kusamvana 5 - machimo akale.
Theka labwino amakonda kugwiritsira ntchito zida zake, zonse ndi kunja. Ngati wokonda sangathe kukhala ndi chilakolako cha chirichonse, zilakolako zakale ndi machimo zimayamba kukumbukiridwa. Nkhosa zambiri zimakhala madzulo madzulo amatha kugwira ntchito tsiku lonse. Kupepesa, kukopa ndi misonzi sikuthandiza? Ndi bwino kusiya chisankho cha chisokonezo m'mawa. Chakudya chokoma chophika chidzakhala njira yabwino yopangira zolakwa zanu. Kapena mungamuukitse ndi kumpsompsona mwachikondi ndi kuvomereza chikondi. Vomerezani bwino mwa kung'ung'udza, ngati mukuwopa kuti wokondedwa akhoza kumva. Kuvomereza koteroko kumawoneka moona mtima. Kodi pali nthawi? Ndiye mukhoza kugona ndi kukhudza ndi kupuma kwanu. Milandu ingakhoze kuyembekezera.
Kusamvana 6 - kuopseza kugawidwa.
Zaka ziwiri zoyambirira za kugonana pakati pa banja zimadzaza ndi mikangano kawirikawiri, zomwe zimabweretsa zotsatira - kugawanitsa. Kawirikawiri iyi ndi njira yothetsera mpweya. Sizothandiza kuti tiyese, ndi bwino kupanga mtendere pa nthawi. Posakhalitsa, mnyamata akhoza kutopa ndi kuimbidwa nthawi zonse ndi zikwapu, kuchititsa khalidwe la atsikana ake. Pofuna kupewa izi, ndibwino kupirira bwino. Pa nthawi yachisokonezo komanso chisangalalo, munthu amachotsa nkhawa ndi ndudu. M'malo mwa ndudu, ndi bwino kupereka kukoma. Zakudya zokoma zingathandize pakukula kwa mahomoni mu thupi la zosangalatsa. Ndipo ndi bwino kukonzekeretsa chokoleti chokoleti kwa iye, kotero adzadabwa.
Kusamvana 7 - Nsanje yamphongo.
Kumverera kwa nsanje wamunthu ndibwino, kumangokhalira kunyoza, koma nthawi zina kumabweretsa zoopsa kwambiri. Atsikana achichepere amadziwotha bwino kuti amve poyankha kuvomereza, kapena kuyamika. M'malo mwake, ziopsezo zambiri zimayamba. Panthawi ya chisokonezo sichidafike pamsampha, ndibwino kupepesa. Komabe ndilo vuto lake. Kupepesa, sikoyenera kuseka, kumangokhalira kunyoza, kapena kuseka. Sichidziwika mu chikondi pano, sichingamukakamize. Ndi bwino kuyesa kukumbatira, kumpsompsona wokonda. Kuyesera kuyandikira kuli bwino pamene mnyamatayo wachepetsa pang'ono. Mukhoza kumukonzera chinachake chokoma, kapena kulembera pa mbale ya kuzindikira mukumverera.
Kawirikawiri, yesetsani kuti musayambe kukangana ndi zina, mikangano yovuta komanso yosafunikira. Ndi bwino kutenga mpweya wozama ndi kutuluka, pumula ndi kungokumbatira wokondedwa wanu. Muuzeni kuti mukufuna kulumbira kuposa zonse.