Akatswiri a zamaganizo amavutika kuti aweruzire zachiwerewere, ndipo ambiri akudzifunsa momwe angadzitetezere ku zotsatira za kugonana kosagonana.
Koma palibe ngakhale mmodzi wa ife amene amadziwa kuti kugonana kosayenera kungakhale kothandiza kwa thupi. Inde, nayenso amachititsa ngozi, koma izi sizowopsya, monga, mwachitsanzo, kuti adziwe nthendayi, kapena kuipira, kachilombo ka HIV.
Ngati mukuganiza kuti mungadziteteze mukamachita zachiwerewere ndi kondomu kapena mapiritsi kuchokera pachiberekero - mukulakwitsa kwambiri. Kuti mudziwe zotsatira zake, tithandizeni, ndipo mudzadzipezera zambiri.
Kotero, ife, mwina, tidzayamba. Pano pali-mtsikana wa maloto anu, munakumana naye, osakumanana, ndipo tsiku lotsatira adayitana kukongola mu cafe, kusangalalira mnzanu. Madzulo amatha msanga kwambiri, ndipo munasankha kusangalala wina ndi mnzake ku hotelo. Mwa njirayi, kudziwana kwanu kungatchedwenso kugonana kosayenera, chifukwa simukudziwa bwino mnzanuyo (wokondedwa), ndipo mukukonzekera kugona naye. Inde, tsopano anyamata oterewa apita, chirichonse chimene anganene, koma izi zimachitika kawirikawiri.
Muzochita zachiwerewere, zidzakhala zopusa ngati mwadzidzidzi mufunseni mnzanuyo ngati ali ndi kondomu kapena ngati mnzanuyo akuwombera mkazi. Ndi zopusa, ndipo ngakhale apo, si zachilendo kuti msungwana akhale woyenera. Koma chimodzimodzi, tiyeni tiwone ngati kugonana kotetezeka kotere kungatchedwe kugonana kosayenera, ngati simudziwa munthu.
Kugonana kuyenera nthawi zonse kukhala chikondi, ndipo izi ndi zofunika - ambiri amakhulupirira. Koma chochita chiyani kwa iwo omwe sanakumanepo ndi chikondi chawo, ndipo akufuna kugonana kochuluka? Awa ndiwo anthu omwe amapita kukagonana ndi omwe sakudziwa. Izi si zabwino, monga tinanenera.
Pali nthawi zambiri pamene kugonana kwachiwerewere kumawononga "wogwidwa" onse moyo, ndi thanzi. Kodi zimenezo ndi zabwino? Mukagona pabedi ndi mlendo, simungatsimikizire kuti ali ndi thanzi labwino. Ndipo kuti mufunse za omwe kale anali anzake naye komanso ngati ali wotetezedwa, ndinu wamanyazi. Pasanapite nthawi inu mukuvutika ndi izo nokha.
Kodi anthu awo omwe achita kale "umbanda" woterewa amachita chiani? Ndipotu, nthawi zambiri kugonana kwachiwerewere kumachitika ngakhale pamene anthu awiri achikondi amakangana ndipo mnzanuyo / mnzawo akufuna kuti wokondedwa wake abwezere. Ndipo adabwezera powasintha ndi kubweretsa matenda a mitsempha ku banja. Chotsatira chake, banja linasokonezeka, banjali linasokoneza thanzi lake lonse, ndipo ngati m'banja muli mwana kuyambira pachiyambi pomwepo, mwatsoka, nayenso anavutika kwambiri.
Pofuna kupewa izi, ngakhale mutayesetsa kugonana kumbali, nthawizonse mutetezedwe! Ili ndilo lamulo lofunika kwambiri komanso lofunika kwambiri kuti musapeze matenda opatsirana pogonana.
Pambuyo pa kugonana, ndi pamaso pake, musambitseni bwino zitsamba ndi sopo. Monga mukudziwira, alkali amawononga tizilombo toyambitsa matenda kuposa njira zina, choncho amalingalira kuti ndi njira yabwino yothetsera vutoli. Ngati inu mulibe chifukwa mwamsanga musanayambe kugonana ndipo mutatha kuchira, mugwiritseni ntchito kupopera tizilombo toyambitsa matenda. Iwo, makamaka, adzachotsa majeremusi onse.
Maulendo obwereza kwa amayi amodzi ndi a urologist amavomerezedwe, komanso nthawi zonse mankhwala amkati. Choncho, tikukulimbikitsani kuti nthawi zonse muziyezetsa kaye, zomwe zingakupulumutseni ku matenda ambiri, ndipo azimayi adzapereka malangizo othandizira kupewa.
Dzikondeni nokha ndikusamalira thanzi lanu, mwinamwake thanzi lanu silidzakhoza kusunga umphumphu wanu kwa inu. Nthawi zonse muzisamba, chitetezeni, ndipo, kawirikawiri, muiwale kosatha za kugonana kosagonana. Ndipotu palibe amene amafunikira. Ubwino wabwino ndi kuleka kwanthawi yaitali kugonana kusiyana ndi kugonana kosasangalatsa, komweko, kudzakuchititsani kukhala osalinso. Choncho, kuti muteteze nokha, monga akunena, muyenera kukhala aang'ono.
Ndipotu, monga mwana, tinaphunzitsidwa kuti tisabvala zipewa za wina, osati kuvala nsapato za wina, ndipo ngati mukufuna kuchita izi, pemphani chilolezo kwa makolo anu. Kotero apa: musangogona ndi munthu yemwe simumudziwa, chifukwa simukudziwa, koma bwanji ngati akuledzera? Anthu ambiri amanyalanyaza kunena izi, komanso kuvomereza. Chifukwa cha kugonana iwo ali okonzeka kupita ku zambiri, ngati wokondedwayo ali wabwino, ndipo amakhalabe wokhutira. Chabwino, chimachitika ndi chiani atatha kugonana, izi, kale, sizikukhudza aliyense.
Pambuyo pa mgwirizano wapamtima kuti ana asanakwane, osadziwika, komanso ngakhale ana amabadwa ndi kachirombo ka HIV. Ndi ana angati lero? Zambiri. Ndipo kodi izi zikuwoneka kuti ndi chizindikiro chabwino kwa nthawi yonseyo? Mwanjira iliyonse, izi sizingatheke. Choncho, timalimbikitsa kwambiri kuti nthawi zonse mugwire makondomu mu thumba lanu, chifukwa chinachake, ndipo tili ndi mafereti okwanira m'dziko lathu. Inde, ndithudi, ndipo mitengo, inanso, ingalume. Koma pa zomwe simungapite chifukwa cha thanzi! Tonsefe timafuna kukhala amphamvu kwambiri, okongola, athanzi. Kuti tisadwale, timadya ascorbic m'mawa, kulimbikitsa chitetezo chokwanira ndi zosiyanasiyana broths, mafuta, amaika ndi serums. Koma izi sizingakwanire, inde, mwinamwake mudzakhala wathanzi, komabe muyenera kukhala wathanzi pa gawo la kugonana.
Pamene anthu adakali aang'ono, nthawi zambiri amaganiza kuti ali ndi thanzi labwino padziko lonse lapansi, motero, posachedwapa adzayenera kukhazikitsa banja ndikubala ana. Nthawiyi ikafika, anthu amaganizira za izi. Chabwino, pakalipano, ndikufuna kunena kuti munthu aliyense ali wapadera m'njira yake ndipo aliyense ali ndi zizoloŵezi zake, komabe ngakhale ali ndi udindo, moyo wake ndi chuma chake, aliyense wa ife ayenera kusamalira thanzi lake ndi achinyamata. Kodi mumalangiza chiyani?