Nchifukwa chiyani amayi amavomereza kugonana kotero ?
Ife pakati pa odziwa oterewa ndi kugonana kwa usiku umodzi tinapanga zifukwa zinayi zazikulu zomwe zimapangitsa atsikana kukhala m'manja mwa mwamuna pa nthawi yoyamba kumudziwa naye.
Kuyamikira kwa nthawi yomwe yathera. Anakhala usiku wonse wa mnzanu akuchita zonse zomwe zingatheke kuti mumve bwino: Ananditengera ku cinema, malo odyera mtengo, komwe anandidyetsa zokoma ndi zakumwa zokoma. Zonsezi zinakupangitsani kumva kuti mukuyenera.
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Pangani chinthu chimodzi momveka bwino kuti mulibe ngongole kwa wina aliyense. Pambuyo pake, palibe amene adafunsa mwamuna kuti azigwiritsa ntchito ndalama, ndipo mochuluka kwambiri. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, mwamuyamika kale pokhapokha mutagwirizana ndi mnzanuyo komanso nthawi yomwe mumagwirizanitsa pamodzi, koma kugonana mu nkhani ya menyu, monga lamulo, sichiphatikizidwa. Chabwino, pokhapokha ngati simukufuna kugona usiku ndi nsonga iyi.
Chikondi poyang'ana poyamba. Nthawi zina zimakhala zokwanira kuti mukumva kumverera uku mphindi zisanu, ndipo nthawi zina maola awiri. Kotero, iwe umayamba kukonda ndi chiyanjano choyamba mwa munthu wodziwika kwambiri uyu, ndipo iwe mosakayikira iwe ukufuna kuti ukhale naye usiku uno.
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Yesani nthawi yomwe mumadziwana kuti mudziwe zambiri za iye mwini. Mwinamwake, mu zojambula zake zimadza ndi mfundo zotere kuti mukhale oganiza bwino.
Randomness. Pakali pano muli omasuka ndipo mukungotenthedwa, ndipo ndinu ovomerezeka kuvomereza usiku umodzi wogonana ndi anzanu atsopano. Chabwino, kapena musanadziwe bwino, munakangana ndi chibwenzi chanu ndipo, mwa njira iliyonse, mukufuna kubwezera. Ndiyeno munavomereza kuti mumudziwe bwino munthu wokongola, mumamwa mochuluka ndi ... Mwenzi wanu wamba unayamba kukhala usiku wamkuntho. Koma m'mawa mumadziwa kuti mukuchita zopanda pake.
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Zikakhala choncho, njira yabwino kwambiri yoti mutulukemo ndiyo kuchoka mwamsanga komanso osasiya manotsi kapena foni. Koma ngati mnzanu watsopano atadzuka, nthawi yomweyo tsatirani kuti mukuchita manyazi ndikusiya gawo lake!
Chikhumbo chachikulu. Inu mwachiwonekere mulibe chisamaliro chokwanira, ndipo pano pambali panu munali njonda yabwino yomwe inapereka kuti mupitilirebe mnzanu kunyumba kwake. Ndipo munaganiza zopindula ndi izi.
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Ngati mukufuna kutero, musataye mutu wanu ndipo musamangoganizira za kuti izi zikuchitika. Kumbukirani, izi ndi kugonana kwa usiku umodzi, ndipo chomwe chidzachitike chidzaweruzidwa kokha ndi nthawi.
Chibwenzi ndicho chachikulu chimene chimayambitsa kukayika kwanu .
Monga mukudziwira, akazi amakayikira kwambiri. Mwa mawu, aloleni iwo amangopereka chifukwa choti iwo akhale amantha ndi nkhawa. Kotero chochita chosasangalatsa chotere, monga chiyanjano pachidziwitso choyamba, sichikakamiza mkazi kuti amve ndikumva zowawa chifukwa cha kusinkhasinkha kwake pa nkhaniyi. Tikukupatsani malingaliro a amayi omwe ali othandiza kwambiri omwe amatha kuyendera maganizo awo pambuyo pa usiku wachisoni pa tsiku loyamba.
"Muzhiks onse amafunikira imodzi yokha! ". Palibe amene amatsutsa, koma palibe cholakwika ndi izo mwina. Mwa iwe, mwamuna anawona mkazi wokongola ndi wachigololo, kotero amamuimba mlandu chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito vutoli, palibe chifukwa. Pambuyo pake, inuyo nokha, poyamba, munavomereza kuti kuwonjezeka kwa madzulo. Kotero tiyeni tiganizire mozindikira ndikuyankha funso lovuta: ndi ndani wina?
"O ayi! Ananditengera ine kuti ndikhale mkazi wamphongo komanso wamphepo, yemwe amagonana naye mumtima mwake! ". Mfundo yakuti mkazi akufuna kuti azikonda mwamuna, palibe chigawenga. Kuphatikizana, kugwirizana pakati pa kugonana, kumanena kuti mumamvera wina ndi mzake. Choncho musamachite mantha kuti bwana wanu wokhoza kuganiza molakwika. Kumbukirani kuti aliyense amayesa munthu wina malinga ndi momwe akuonera. Ndicho chifukwa chake, ngati munthu akufuna kukudziwani, iye sangakuweruzeni moyenera chifukwa cha kubwezera kwanu.
"Mwinamwake, ine sindiri mu kukoma kwake muzochitika zonse za mawu ...". Kawirikawiri, maganizowa amabwera kwa atsikana atatha kukhala usiku umodzi ndi mnyamata, ndikumusiya nambala yake ya foni kotero sanayembekezere kuitana. Apa ndikuyenera kuzindikira kuti kugonana ndi kugonana kwa usiku umodzi, kungathe kukhalabe usiku uno wokha. Ndipo mwa njira, ichi si chifukwa chokayika nokha. Mnyamata chabe, amawerengedwa kamodzi kokha ndipo amadziimba mlandu yekha pa izi palibe chifukwa chilichonse.
"Ife tikanati timukane iye ndipo ndiye chirichonse chikanakhala chosiyana ndi ife! ". Amuna ndi osaka. Choncho, atalandira "zofunkha" zawo, amachedwa kuzizira, ndipo izi sizidalira pa misonkhano yomwe mumamupatsa. Mwa njira, amuna amakopeka osati povuta, koma ndi ufulu wa amayi. Ndicho chifukwa chake, mutatha naye usiku, simuyenera kufunsa mafunso awa: "Kodi tidzawonananso?" "," Kodi iwe undiyitana ine? "Ndi zina zotero. Ingolankhulani ndi kuchoka ndipo mudzakhala nawo mwayi uliwonse womva mawu ake pa foni. Mwa njira, ngakhale simunasiyepo nambala, angapeze njira zambiri kuti akuwonenso.
"Ndithudi iye ankaganiza kuti ndine wosungulumwa! ". Ndizoona zenizeni, ndiko kungoziwona pano chifukwa cha chiyani? Koma, akhoza kuganiza kuti mukufufuza chinthu chokha chimene angakhale nacho kwa inu.
Mumamuuza "ayi" pazomwe mumadziwana naye poyamba ?
Zomwe sitinganene, koma ndife tonse amai, zolengedwa zimakhala zovuta komanso zovuta. Ndipo ngakhale pa nthawi yoyamba kumudziwa ndi mwamuna timamulola kumvetsetsa kuti sipadzakhala kupitiriza, timayamba kuda nkhaŵa ndikuganiza momwe angaganizire za inu tsopano. Ndipo mwadzidzidzi akuganiza kuti:
Simukudziwa zogonana. Kusayenerera sikutsika. Choncho, ngati adaganiza choncho, adzakhala ndi chilakolako chofuna kukufikitsani.
Simunamufune konse. Izi ndi zimene anthu amaganiza kawirikawiri pamene mkazi amakana. Chabwino, ndithudi osati pa chiyanjano choyamba. Choncho, ngati mupitilira kumukana iye, ndiye kuti adzatsimikizira izi. Kotero ngati inu mukuzikonda izo, yesani kumamvetsera pa izo.
Ndipo chinthu chotsiriza, pa nthawi ya chibwenzi usiku, ndi pambuyo pake, musaganize za mutu uwu ndipo musadandaule zomwe zinachitika!