Mavuto ovuta, pamene ana okalamba amakakamizika kukhala pamodzi ndi makolo awo, amapanga zovuta zofanana. Ndipo pamene "magazi akusewera", mukufuna zosiyana, nthawi zina simungayang'ane kuti makolo ali mu chipinda chotsatira ... Kodi sichoncho?
Zosankha zogonana, ngati makolo ali panyumba, zambiri. Koma onse amachititsa mantha. Ndipo khulupirirani ine, ngakhale "mutakhala chete" ndi kumbuyo zitseko zatsekedwa, simungathe kubisa "chimwemwe choletsedwa".
Inde, pali njira zochepa zowonetsera moyo waumwini, ngakhale kuti amakhala ndi makolo awo pansi pa denga limodzi. Koma osati oimira onse a m'badwo wakale ndi omvera komanso omvera kugwiritsa ntchito mtundu wa "chizindikiro". Mwachitsanzo, "ine ndi mwamuna wanga tinatenga matikiti a kanema, Lachitatu" - ndipo ana achikulire amadziwa kuti ndi madzulo ano kuti mutha kukonza chinthu china ...
Koma nthawi zambiri ndikofunika kukhutira ndi izi. Ndipo izi, ngakhale zambiri kapena zazing'ono, kugonana mwakachetechete pansi pa bulangete, pamene makolo ali bwino - mu chipinda chotsatira. Ndipo ngati tinyalanyaza kuti kukhutira koteroko kumakhala kovulaza, ndiye kuti tikhoza kukhala ndi njira zambiri.
Njira zachidule:
Kwa kugonana kotereku, chipinda chosiyana, ndi khonde, ndi bafa ndizoyenera. Njira yosavuta yothetsera kuyimitsa, ndi zovuta kwambiri - chinthu chachilendo. Onetsetsani njira zopezera chitetezo - Mwachitsanzo, khonde lingakhale lozizira, ndipo mu chipinda chosambira - chimangoyenda kwambiri. Ndipo kufotokozera kwa madokotala a ambulansi omwe anafika momwe ndondomekoyo inalandiridwira, ndi momwe angavere ozunzidwa, zidzakhala zochititsa manyazi kwambiri.
Mbiri ya moyo:
Natalia anali ndi mwamuna wina yemwe ankakhala ndi amayi ake. Ndipo zikuwoneka ngati chipinda chotsekedwa chomwe chimatseka pa fungulo, ndipo munthu mwiniwake - mbali zonse ndi zabwino ... Kotero, kudutsa "kugona" nthawi ya 10 koloko madzulo, banjali likupita ku chipinda chake "," makandulo amayatsa ndi kuyambanso kumayamba ...
... Ndi kulira kwa siren kulowa m'chipindamo, kuchotsa chitseko kuchokera kumakolo ake, Amayi akudumpha. Msungwanayo sakhala ndi nthawi yokweza bulangeti ku chinkhuni chake ndikutulutsa "hello". Ndipo amayi anga amatsenga: "Tolya, galimoto yanu inagwidwa!"
Iye sanaziike pamalo pomwe, koma amayi anga anayang'ana kunja pawindo ndipo sanawone galimotoyo m'malo mwake ...
- Pa nthawi imeneyi amakhulupirira kuti kugonana kuli bwino kuposa makolo ...
Zovuta Kwambiri
M'chipinda choyambira kapena ku khitchini; atakhala patebulo; muyendetsedwe ka wokwerapo, pamene iye ali pa chophimba, malingaliro ophatikizana a kukondera - iwe sudziwa china chomwe iwe ungakhoze kupanga ...
Mbiri ya moyo:
Kawirikawiri Nastya anakhala ndi Aromani, pamene makolo ake anachoka kudzikoli. Ndipo nthawiyi banjali, omwe adabwerera kunyumba mochedwa, anakumana ndi makolo awo. Ndipo iwo anafotokoza kuti iwo anabweretsa nawo agogo awo akale. Aromani, monga mwamuna weniweni, sanachotse bwenzi usiku, ndipo adasiya m'chipinda chake. Tsopano iwo ankagona palimodzi - agogo aakazi pafupi ndi zenera ndipo awiriwo ali pa khoma losiyana.
Agogo anga agona mokwanira, ndipo adalimba kwambiri. Ndipo, ataganiza za momwe angagwirire ndi kugonana ngati makolo ali pakhomo, banjali silinapezepo kanthu kabwino ...
Iwo anayesa kukhala chete. Koma m'mawa, Nastia, akupita ku sukulu, adalandira ndemanga kuchokera kwa agogo ake aakazi: "Iwe wayamba kale, kusewera, ndikugona!". Pambuyo pa vumbulutso lotero, ine ndinkafuna kuti ndigwere pa dziko lapansi. Nastya sanakhalenso ...
- Ndipo popanda zimenezo, kugwirizana kosalekeza ndi achibale kungakhale koipitsitsa ngati mutasankha kukhala "munthu wopanda zovuta"
Kugonana msanga
Funso la momwe angachitire kugonana, ngati makolo ali pakhomo, zimakhala zosavuta kuthetsa ngati makolo akupita ku sitolo, atenge nyuzipepala kapena miseche ndi anansi awo. Ndiyeno awiriwo amasangalala ndi "ulemu" woperekedwa. Koma nthawi zonse muyenera kumvetsera - kodi chotsekacho sichidzakani? Kodi fungulo silinasinthe? Kodi mungamve mapazi ake m'konde?
Ndipo, ndithudi, zochitika zopusa ndi kubwerera kwa makolo kumachuluka. Ndipo ngati mukukumbukira kachiwiri kuti pambuyo poti onse akufuna kusamba, ndiye kubisa "chisangalalo" chanu sichigwira ntchito.
Mbiri ya moyo:
Mzanga wanga miyezi isanu ndi umodzi atachoka ndi chibwenzi chake pakhomo, amamvetsera masitepe, akuwongolera, akukambirana pamsewu.
- Kuti kunena kuti kugonana koteroko kuli bwino kusiyana ndi ayi, kungangokhala ndi kukwezera kwakukulu.
Kupumula ndi kusangalala
Mwachibadwa, lonjezo la kugonana koyenera, lomwe lingakhale losangalatsa kukumbukira, ndilokhazikika mtima ndi chibwenzi chokwanira. Mwa njira iyi munthu akhoza kutsegula miyoyo ndikudzipereka yekha ndikumverera, mwachidziwitso, mogwirizana.
Choncho, funso "momwe mungagwirire, ngati makolo ali pakhomo", pali yankho limodzi lokha - musamachite nawo kunyumba.
Ngakhale usiku wakuya, kapena kutsekemera kwabwino kwa mawu sangathe kupereka mphamvu yotetezekayi ndi kubwereranso kugonana, zomwe zimapatsa khomo lotsekedwa ndi nyumba. Kapena, poipa kwambiri, galimoto yake, nyumba ya tsiku kapena nkhalango yowirira ...