Lingaliro lakuti "amuna amangogonana okha" ndilolakwika. Malingana ndi kafukufuku, ndikofunika kuti iwo akhale ndi ubale wabwino m'banja. Amuna, omwe amatsimikizira kuti mgwirizano wa uzimu ndi wofunika kwa iwo kuposa kugonana, sizikutanthawuza kanthu.
Akatswiri a zachikhalidwe cha anthu anafunsa anthu pafupifupi 28,000 ogonana kwambiri kuyambira zaka 20 mpaka 75 m'mayiko 6. Iwo anafunsidwa mafunso okhudza moyo wawo, kugonana ndi ubale m'banja.
Zotsatira zomwe zafalitsidwa mu nyuzipepala yakuti "Medicine in Sexual Medicine" zasonyeza kuti kwa ambiri, oyankha amakhulupirira kuti munthu angatchedwe wolimba ngati ali woona mtima, amalemekeza abwenzi ndipo apambana ndi amayi.
Pa mafunso okhudza maubwenzi apabanja, gawo limodzi mwa atatu la amunawo linayankha kuti thanzi labwino ndi abwenzi ndilo chinthu chachikulu chogwirizana mgwirizano. 19% amakhulupirira kuti ndi ubale wabwino m'banja, ulemu ndi chikondi zomwe zimathandiza kwambiri pa moyo wa banja. Ndipo 2% mwa ophunzirawo adanena kuti amaika patsogolo kugonana.
Zotsatira za maphunzirowa zikuwonetsa kuchuluka kwake, kutembenuka, amuna amaganizira za maganizo, osati kugonana.