Kusintha kwa kugonana kwachita ntchito yake, ndipo tsopano sizowonjezetsanso kulankhula za zilakolako zanu mu malo apamtima. Palibe amene adzadabwa ndi nkhani yokhudza kugonana kosagwirizana, zachiwerewere zosiyana siyana, zomwe tsopano zimatengedwa kuti ndi "zokopa zambiri". Kuonjezera apo, anthu adadyetsedwa ndi kugonana ndikuyamba kuchita mitundu ina, pogwiritsa ntchito ziwalo za thupi, osati kugonana.
Ngati mupempha amuna amakono za zomwe amakonda pa bedi, ndiye ambiri amakonda, osamvetsetseka, kugonana. Ndipo iwo omwe sankachita maloto pa izi. Kodi ndi chiani chomwe chimakopa amuna amtundu umenewu? Musanayankhe funso lofunika ili, ndizothandiza kumvetsa zomwe nthawi zambiri zimatanthauza "kugonana koyamba".
Mawu kwa anthu ogonana
Mawu oti "kugonana kwa ana" ayenera kumvekedwa ngati kugonana poyambitsa chiwalo chogonana kapena chamuna chogonana. Monga mitundu ina ya kugonana, mtundu uwu wapangidwa kuti ukhale wokhutira ndi kugonana.
Poyamba, chodabwitsa ichi chinachitika kokha pakati pa awiri awiri awiri awiriawiri. Kuyankhula pa ntchito ya kugonana kotereku kunkagwirizana ndi kuchotsedwa kwa lingaliro la kugonana monga gawo la chiyanjano cha chikondi. M'kupita kwa nthawi, malire aphwanyika, ndipo tsopano munthu aliyense wachitatu amakhala "kumbuyo" kwa wokondedwa wake.
Monga nthawi zonse, ili ndi othandizira komanso otsutsa. Choyamba, tiyeneranso kulingalira chifukwa chake amuna amakonda kugonana kwa abambo. Pakati pawo, tifunika kusiyanitsa magulu akulu awiri-thupi ndi maganizo.
Zomwe zimagwira ntchito
Poyerekezera ndi kugonana kwa abambo, anal alibe ubwino wambiri wa thupi.
Choyamba mwa izi ndikuti malo opapatiza amatsimikiziridwa kuti amupatsa munthuyo chisangalalo. Mkazi wazimayi amatha kutambasula pakapita nthawi, ndipo atatha kutenga pakati, amatha kuphimba "ndodo yachifumu" yamwamuna. Zoonadi, izi zonse ndizolondola mothandizidwa ndi machitidwe apadera a minofu yamkati. Koma bwanji kuyembekezera kuti mkaziyo akuponyera minofu ya abambo, ngati inu mungakhoze kulowa kumbuyo kwa ndime yochepa?
Ndiponso, mabowo awiriwa amasiyana mofanana ndi mkatikatikati. Pachifukwa ichi, nthawi yachisangalalo cha nthawi yogonana imangokhala pa "khomo", ndipo ndi mnzanu wina yemwe amayamba kukondana amapeza chisangalalo, amangosunthira kutalika kwa kutalika kwa kachilomboka.
Kwa wina, kupindula kopanda pake ndikuti kutsegulira kwachitika mkati, zomwe zimakupangitsani kuti musasokoneze zokoma pamutu wawo. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, palibe chiopsezo kuti mnzako atatha kutenga mimba.
N'zachidziwikire kuti malinga ndi momwe thupi limagwirira ntchito, sizomwe zimakhala zochepa kwambiri. Komabe chikondi cha mtundu umenewu wa zosangalatsa ndi chakuya kwambiri - pamsinkhu wa maganizo.
Lingaliro la maganizo pa zochitikazo
Zomwe zimagwirizanitsa maganizo a anal vidasseksa zimapereka munthu wokhutira ndikukhutira mwauzimu.
Ngati mkazi asankha kukhala ndi chilakolako chamagulu, izi zimawonetsedwa ndi munthu ngati chizindikiro chapamwamba kwambiri cha chikhulupiliro. Izi ziri ngati siteji yatsopano mu chiyanjano ndi chitsimikizo chowonjezerapo kuti wokondedwayo wakonzekera zambiri chifukwa cha okondedwa ake.
Koma kulingalira pa kuyesayesa kwa an anal pa gawo la mwamuna kumaonedwa ngati chizindikiro cha chikondi cholimba kwa mkazi. Amakonda, ndichifukwa chake selo lililonse la thupi lake.
Kuonjezera apo, ena oimira amuna kapena akazi ogonana ndi abambo ali ndi mphamvu pa mkazi. Inde, mumzinda winawake munthu adzakhala wamkulu pa nkhaniyi, koma ndiyenera kuganizira ngati chisokonezo, monga chisoni. Masewera achilendo angakhale opweteka kwa amayi, panthawi imodzimodziyo ngati wokondedwa akhoza kukhala okondweretsa kupereka ku "zowawa" zawo. Muyenera kukhala tcheru.
Pali amuna otere monga "anal dandians". Kwa iwo, izo zidzakhala zosangalatsa osati mochuluka kwambiri pokhapokha pokhapokha ndondomeko yokha, kuphatikizapo kukopa kwa mkazi kuvomereza kuchitapo kanthu molimbika chotero. N'zachidziŵikire kuti cholingacho chikangowonjezereka, bulu wina wamkazi wogonjetsedwa adzawonongeke. Ndipo adzapita kukafunafuna "okondedwa" atsopano.
Chifukwa china choganiza m'maganizo chimakhala ndi zokondweretsa zokondweretsa. Kwa amuna, kumbuyo komweko kumaperekanso zosangalatsa.
Chabwino, potsiriza, kugonana kwa abambo - njira yabwino yowatengera moyo wapamtima kwa iwo omwe akhalapo kale muwiri ndipo amatha kukhala ndi zovuta zambiri.
Adani adzayankha chiyani?
Okonda kugonana kwa abambo m'dziko lamakono, ndithudi, ochuluka kuposa omwe akutsutsana nawo. Koma osadziwika ndi othandiza ndi omwe amadziwa chifukwa chake ena sagonana.
Pano, nawonso zifukwa zamaganizo zathandiza. Anthu, motero, "kupsa mtima" sikungatheke kuti ayambe kuyesa chikondi choterocho. N'zosadabwitsa kuti zaka zingapo zapitazo zonsezi zinkaonedwa kuti ndizochepa kwambiri.
Zovuta kugonana ndi abambo ndizoti mnzanuyo akhoza kumva zovuta panthawi yolowera. N'zoona kuti kutsegula kwa chikazi ndi chimodzi mwa magawo osokoneza bongo, koma mosiyana ndi ma vagina pamafunika mafuta owonjezera. Ululu ukhoza kuchepetsedwa mothandizidwa ndi magetsi apadera ogulitsidwa ku pharmacy, kugulitsa kugonana kapena zonona za ana.
Ndipo, mwinamwake, chinthu chosaipitsa kwambiri chodziwika chifukwa cha anthu ochita zosangalatsa za anal ndiye kuti kachilomboka, monga chiwalo china chamkati cha thupi, chimakhala ndi tizilombo toyambitsa matenda ndipo mwina chikhoza kuyesa kufalitsa matenda opatsirana pogonana. Nthawi zonsezi zikhoza kupeŵedwa, pogwiritsa ntchito njira zoyambirira za chitetezo. Koma palibe anthu omwe angasinthanitse mpata woti amve momwe minofu ya mkati ya mkazi imagwira thunthu lawo, zowonetsetsa kuti zikoka pakondomu.
Makamaka squeamish, nayenso, sizingatheke kuti "amangirire" pamalo oterowo, chifukwa chitsimikizo chakuti wokondedwayo akukonzekera bwino kukonza kanjira ndipo mwamunayo adzakoka "bwenzi" lake, ndilopang'ono.
Zonsezi, ngakhale zing'onozing'ono, koma zosangalatsa kwambiri, zikhoza kupewedwa, kutsatira malangizo awa. Ndiyeno okonda akhoza kuyamikira kukongola kwa kugonana kwa anal.
Kumbukirani za mavuto. Motani?
Malamulo oyambirira a ukhondo adziteteze ku zinthu zonyansa, makamaka atsikana omwe safuna kuti okondedwa awo adzipeza mwachangu phulusa lake. Zomwe zingatheke kuyeretsa kachilomboka, pali nkhani zambiri pa intaneti. Njira yowonjezereka ndi imema ndi madzi ofunda. Kuyesera kuchita zonse ndi manja anu - njira ndizoipa, koma zodabwitsa komanso zosasangalatsa.
Mfundo yachiwiri ndiyo kusamalira muzhchinam.Daby kuti musapereke malingaliro anu omwe mumakonda kwambiri, ndi bwino kupeza mafuta apadera. Pamwamba tidatchula kumene mungagule mafuta. Muzikonzedwe ndikugwiritsa ntchito zonona zokhazikika.
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