Iwo ndi ndani?
Choncho, mwamsanga muvomereze: ubale wa mkazi mmodzi wa iodine, sitidzawunika. Chifukwa Pankhani imeneyi, mwamuna sali wokonda, koma chibwenzi, bwenzi lam'tsogolo kapenanso wokondedwa basi. Chinthu chodziwika kwambiri cha wokonda ndikuti iye ali wokwatira. Mkazi wosadziwika, monga lamulo, ndi mkazi waulere. Zina mwa izo sizikudziwika bwino zomwe zingakhoze kukankhira izo mmanja mwa munthu wina. Kodi sakukhutira ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wawo kotero kuti adasankha kukhala wokondedwa? Iyi si njira yathu. Mwamuna yemwe samakukhutitsani inu mukhoza kusintha), b) kusintha. Koma kuti asinthe iye akadali wosakhulupirika.
Njira ina: ndinu mayi wamfulu, koma mukufuna kusintha udindo wanu. Koma pali imodzi yokha "koma": Oimira onse ochepa kapena ochepa omwe ali ndi mphamvu zogonana pakati pa zojambula ndi zokongola zanu ndi omwe amanyamula mphete yagolidi pamphepete mwa dzanja lamanja ndi sitampu pa pasipoti pa tsamba "ukwati", chabwino, wokonda ndi kuyembekezera chakudya chamadzulo mkazi (ndipo mwina mmodzi kapena awiri ena ana). Kudzinena nokha "okondedwa angapo" pafupi ndi dziko lokongola komanso kupanda chilungamo komwe ukulamulira mmenemo, mukufunafuna mmodzi mwa amunawa pamsewu wamtunduwu: mulole akhale wokonda kwa nthawi yoyamba, kenako muyang'ane pazomwezo. Ndipo pano tiyenera kuyima, chifukwa mwayi woti pamapeto pake zonse zidzakhala chimodzimodzi momwe mukufunira ndi zomwe mudzalota, ndithudi, pali, koma chiŵerengero chawo chiri pafupifupi chimodzi kapena zana! Kapena zikwi! Tiyenera kutchula chitsanzo chodziwikiratu chomwe chimachokera pa choonadi chosavuta: mkazi yemwe ali wokonzeka kuyembekezera atakhala pawindo, pamene wokondedwa wake abwera ndi amene amaika moyo wake pa guwa lachepa, sangakhale wokonda kwambiri. Ndipo simungathe kukangana ndi izi.
Pachifukwa ichi, ziyembekezo zonse zimayikidwa pamapeto omaliza: ndinu mkazi waulere amene samayesetsa kukwatirana, koma motsutsana ndi chiwerengero cha caress komanso chikondi sichimaganizira. Ndipo poyang'ana pozungulira, kuchokera kwa anthu omwe akuzungulirani, mumasankha yemwe, ngakhale ali ndi katundu yense kuchokera kumbuyo, ali wokongola, wodalirika, wokongola ndipo m'thumba lake ali ndi chidziwitso chosadziwika komanso chikondi chomwe angakupatseni ntchito mwamsanga. Pano mungathe kukuthokozani inu ndi iye! Muli ndi mwayi wonse woti mukhale mbuye wabwino, ndipo, motero, ali ndi njira zonse zowunikira ndondomeko yaumtundu wa banja ndi holide yolankhulana nanu. Ndi kwa inu kuti code yathu inalembedwa. Malingana ndi malamulo onse a mtunduwo, umaphatikizapo ufulu ndi maudindo. Phunzirani - ndi chifukwa chake!
Ufulu wogwira ntchito ndi kupumula
Mwa njira, ntchito ndi mpumulo, zomwe mudzakonza mogwirizana ndi zofuna zanu. Kukhala mochedwa kuntchito kapena kugwira ntchito panyumba panthawi yaulere, kuwuluka paulendo uliwonse wa bizinesi kapena kugona usiku mu chikwama ndi abwenzi - osankha ngakhale akukonzekera. Choyamba, iye sakuyerekezera ndi ndondomeko yanu pamene abwera ndikupita popanda chenjezo. Chachiwiri, mundikhulupirire, iye ayamba kuyamikira ndi kukulemekezani kwambiri ngati akuwona kuti simunakonzekerere pazinthu zosangalatsa komanso m'moyo mwanu muli zinthu zina zomwe mumakonda nazo. Chachitatu, kukhala mbuye wabwino sikutanthauza kupereka zopereka za munthu. Okonda amabwera ndikupita, koma inu nokha. Kuwonjezera apo, simukuyenera kuphimba tebulo kuti abwere (chifukwa chaichi iye ali ndi mkazi, apongozi ake, amayi). Bzinesi yanu ndi nthawi yabwino naye.
Udindo : sikofunikira mu ubale wake ndi mkazi wake kuti ayendetse galimoto. Pamapeto pake, ndi iye amene amanga moyo wake pansi pa kuyang'aniridwa kolimba kwa mwamuna wake, ndipo mwakonzeka. Kuonjezerapo, simukufuna kuti misonkhano yanu ikhale yokhudzana ndi mavuto a m'banja? Mwamuna wokondwa ndiye wokonda kwambiri!
Ufulu kwa wokonda
Apo ayi, tanthauzo la moyo ndi chiyani? Iye sangakupatseni chidwi choyenera? Njira yochotsera izi ndi yophweka: kupeza wina wokonda. Taganizirani izi: Wokondedwa wanu samakukondani - mwina amagona ndi mkazi wake (amati iye samachita? Amanyenga!). Ndipo n'chifukwa chiyani muyenera kuchepetsa chikhalidwe chanu, chokhutira ndi ang'ono?
Otsatira awiriwa ali ofanana ndi mwamuna mmodzi ndipo izi zikuwunika!
Udindo : wokondedwa wabwino ayenera kudziwitsa wokondedwa woyamba kuti akukonzekera kukhazikitsa wina. Pa nthawi yomweyi, kugogomezera kuyenera kuikidwa pa ntchito yake ndi kusasamala kwake. Zimayamba kutuluka - kumumbutsa kuti si mwamuna kapena mkazi, ndipo siinu nokha. Kotero, ndondomeko ya miyezo iwiri ya ndondomeko - ndizotheka kwa iye, ndipo simukutero, apa ikuzungulira.
Tembenukani ndi kumanzere - musamve chisoni. Ine sindinayamikire izo-wolakwa.
Ufulu wa mphatso
Kodi mukufuna chinachake kuti mupatse mwamuna? Mkulu! Koma musaganize kuti izi zimapereka udindo uliwonse pa inu. Komabe, mukufunikira kutenga kuchokera kwa munthu mphatso zomwe mungakwanitse ngati mungathe kutembenuka popanda kuperewera, i.e. - zinthu zamtengo wapatali ndi zonse zomwe sizingatheke, koma chowonjezera chowonjezera. Chofufumitsa, madiresi, zodzikongoletsera-chonde. Ndalama yobweza ngongole, ayi. Muzovuta kwambiri, mwamsanga mutembenuke kuchoka kwa mayi kupita kwa mayi wotetezedwa. Kukhumudwa pa mutu wakuti "Iye amachotsa chidutswa cha mkate kuchokera ku banja" ayenera kukankhidwa kumbuyo. Mkazi - wokondedwa-wokondedwa, ndipo mwamuna amene asankha kukhala ndi mkazi kumbali, sayenera kupereka banja, komanso ambuye.
Ntchito : sikofunika kusuntha mavuto a moyo kwa wokonda. Afuna kugunda chithunzi-nyundo m'dzanja lake, koma kuti amunyoze chifukwa ndi udindo wa mkazi wake.
Ufulu kwa banja
Tsiku lina mumazindikira kuti mukufuna kupeza banja limene mwamuna wokhala wokhulupirika adzakuthandizani ndi kuthandizira, ndipo ana - moyo weniweni wokhutira. Pa nthawi ino, ndi nthawi yolankhula ndi wokondedwa za zolinga zake za tsogolo ndi kukhalabe mabwenzi abwino, ndikuyang'ana kufufuza. Inde, mukhoza kuyang'ana mwamuna ndi wokondedwa, koma ndife akazi oona mtima komanso zotsatira za kufufuza mu nkhaniyi. Sikoyenera kukhumudwa, chifukwa kuti ndikupatseni ichi, sangathe. Ndipo kukhulupirira kuti iye amusudzula mkazi wake, sitidakulangizeni! Pali amuna ochuluka padziko lapansi, ndipo udindo wa wokondedwa pafupi ndi mkazi wotero ndi wamtali ndipo ulibe kanthu.
Ntchito : ngati atsimikiza kuthetsa ubale wanu, musamuletse. Mwinamwake iye ankadziwa kuti mkazi wake ali chimodzimodzi! Ndi ulemu, zikomo, kusunga kukumbukira nthawi zabwino zomwe munali nazo. Komabe, ngati muli mbuye wamkazi wa buditidealnoy, pita ku chinthu ichi mosakayikira muyenera!