Chiwerengero cha zosangalatsa
Malinga ndi anthu ogonana, amuna 7 okha pa khumi aliwonse amakhala ndi vuto. Zinthu zokondweretsa munthu zomwe zimakhudza kugonana zingagawidwe m'magulu awiri: zoonekeratu ndi zodabwitsa. Zoonekeratu ndizoperewera, chiwerewere - chimadziwika kukhala champhamvu, chamkati komanso chofooka, - chikhalidwe cha thanzi, chikhalidwe cha m'banja. Zimadziwikanso kuti kugonana kwa amayi kumadalira nthawi ya tsiku ndi kusamba. M'mawa amagona, amadzuka madzulo. Chidule cha kugonana, ndi "mbewa imvi" komanso "vampu yaikazi", imagwera pakati pa msambo.
Ena amasangalala kwambiri masiku awiri asanayambe masiku ovuta komanso nthawi ya kusamba.
Zinthu zosangalatsa, pakuyang'ana koyamba, ndi moyo wapamtima sagwirizana konse - mwachitsanzo, ndiwe mwana wa mtundu wanji m'banja! Akatswiri owona za kugonana a ku America amanena kuti obadwa woyamba samawoneka ndi chiwawa chogonana, chifukwa ali ndi cholinga cha ntchito. Iwo ali okhutira ndi olimbikira kwambiri kuti asokonezedwe ndi zamtundu uliwonse zamatsenga monga masewera a kugonana. Kodi simungakhoze kunena chiyani za ana aang'ono: iwo sakhala ochepa kwambiri, amakhala osangalala komanso amalingalira, chifukwa akhala akukondedwa ndi chilengedwe kuyambira ali mwana, omwe ankakumbatiridwa ndikupsompsona. Ndipotu, chikondi cha makolo ndi chofunikira kwambiri kuti chikhalidwe chikhale chonchi.
Akatswiri ambiri amapeza ubale pakati pa kugonana ndi gulu la magazi. Malingaliro awo, chikhalidwe champhamvu kwambiri cha kugonana kwa anthu omwe ali ndi gulu la magazi: iwo amakhala ndi malingaliro okhwima okhudzidwa ndi chilakolako chokhumba ndi chikhumbo chowatsatira mwamsanga. Otsatira a gulu la magazi a IV ali ndi chilakolako chokhumba: amadzipereka okha kumaganizo m'malo moganiza.
Kugonana ndi chinthu chosangalatsa kwa munthu yemwe ali ndi gulu lachitatu la magazi. Munthu wotero amakafika kumalo osasunthika, ngati wokondedwa womasuka amalingaliridwa ndi chikondi chake ndi chiopsezo chake. Koma iwo omwe ali ndi gulu lachiwiri la magazi, mwakhama akulowetsa mu chipinda chawo chidziwitso chokhudzana ndi kugonana, koma nthawizina opanda moyo. Kugonana kwawo nthawi zambiri kumakhala ndi maofesi ambiri: "Amayi owona mtima sachita zimenezi!"
Ofufuza kuchokera ku yunivesite ya Melbourne adapeza kuti kugonana m'njira zambiri kumadalira ... kukula kwa dera la ubongo lomwe limayambitsa kugonana.
Chirichonse chiri m'manja mwanu
Komabe, asayansi ambiri amaona kuti mphamvu ya gulu la magazi ndi malo a ubongo pa moyo wokhudzana ndi kugonana zimakhala zowonjezereka. Mutha kusintha zambiri pazomwe mukugonana kuti zikhale bwino. Kodi mwamuna akufuna "ichi" m'mawa? Tumizani kugonana kwa nthawi yabwino ya tsiku lanu. Kodi mumadziona nokha, mafuta? Mwa njira, nthawi zambiri amalingalira za iwo okha, makolo awo omwe kuyambira ali ana adalimbikitsidwa kugonana. Kulankhulana kwa wogonana, angakuthandizeni kusintha maganizo oipa kapena kugwirizana.
Ndipo yesani kachiwiri ...
1.Tengani kafukufuku wa zovala zanu. Kugonana sikungatheke popanda kuzindikira za kugonana. Kutalika kukhala umayi! Pansi ndi jeans opanda shasi ndi jekete za anyamata. Valani madiresi, zidendene zapamwamba, zodzikongoletsera zapamwamba. Amuna ali achikale kwambiri ndipo amafuna kuti tiwone ngati amayi a Turgenev, osati mazinthu omwe amawoneka ngati osakanikirana.
2. Nthawi ndi nthawi "muiwale" kuvala zovala zamkati - zidzatembenuza mutu wanu osati kwa munthu, koma ... nokha. Kuzindikira kuti mwavala "mosayenera" kudzakondweretsa maganizo anu. Inde, ndi zinthu za pheromone, zokongola kwa kugonana kolimba - zidzakhala zosavuta kuchoka pansi pa mzere.
3. Lowani ku masewera olimbitsa thupi - zochitika zolimbitsa thupi zimalimbitsa maganizo, zimatipatsa mphamvu komanso yogwira ntchito, kuphatikizapo pabedi. Koma maphunziro sayenera kukhala otopetsa: thupi lotopa limachepetsa kugonana.
4. Phunzirani njira yogwira ntchito. Simungakhudze mnzanuyo, koma ... nokha. Tengani chidutswa cha silika, velvet, pompom kuchokera pachimake, chidutswa cha ayezi - kwambiri mapulogalamu, bwino - ndipo mwinamwake amawakhudza khungu. Gwiritsani ntchito kukhudza, kuchotsani malingaliro kuchokera mndandandawu: "Posakhalitsa mwanayo adzabwerera kuchokera ku sukulu, muyenera kutentha msuzi wake" kapena "Zimene ndikuchita pano - mu bafa ndi phiri losambitsuka zovala." Kuyambula kuyenera kukhala kofatsa komanso kopepuka. Muzimva thupi lanu lonse.
Zochita zochepa - ndipo mudzadabwa kuona kuti muli ndi madera osiyana siyana, komanso m'malo osiyana: pamphepete mwa chigoba, kumbuyo kwa khutu, pamutu ... Sikofunika kuti mudziwe nokha, ndikofunika kuphunzira kuika maganizo anu pamtima wanu. Ndipo ngati kukhuta kumadza - chabwino! Ndipotu, kugonana ndikumatha kusangalala ndi zinthu zina zamkati.