Mosasamala kanthu za chikhumbo chathu, ntchito yoyamba yogonana ndi mnzanu watsopano nthawi zambiri imamva ngati "kuganizira za kugonana", ndiko kuti, palibe lingaliro limodzi m'mutu, mawondo akugwedezeka ndi owopsya mokwanira. Ngakhale ngati mkazi akuzindikira kuti kwa mwamuna zinthu zili zofanana, izi sizikuthandiza nthawi zonse. Zomwe mungakambirane, momwe mungakhalire, zomwe mungathe kukhala chete - pali mafunso ambiri kuposa mayankho.
Nambala ya nambala 1. Mwamunayo akufulumira kupita kwa a
Nthawi zina zimawoneka kuti amuna ambiri sanamvepo kuti ndizofunika kuti mkazi azikhalapo nthawi yaitali, kuti pakhale mwayi wokhala ndi zovuta kwambiri. Kodi mnzanuyo akufulumira kukayandikira popanda kuika chidwi choyambirira? Ziri bwino.
Mukungoyenera kuthetsa chilakolako mwamsanga. Ngati izi zikuthamanga, ndiye kuti pang'onopang'ono mukhoza kutsogoleredwa ndi munthu, kumusonyeza chitsanzo. Ndikofunika kwambiri pa nkhaniyi kuti zochita zanu zisagwirizane naye ndi kukana, ndikugwirizana ndi chilakolako choonjezera chisangalalo kwa onse awiri. Ngati chilakolako chimenechi chiri chotheka, ndibwino kuti mukakumane nawo - kukakamiza kugonana, kukhumudwa, kudzidzidzimutsa ndi malo osadziwika kuti agone nawo akhoza kugonana kwambiri ndikumbukira komanso kosangalatsa kusiyana ndi kuchitapo kanthu mwamantha, molondola komanso mopepuka.
Chiwerengero cha nambala 2. Ukulu wa ulemu wake kukudabwitsani inu
Ndibwino kuti mukhale ndi chidziwitso chochuluka chomwe mwamuna wanu ali nacho. Ngakhale pali zizindikiro zambiri zomwe mungathe kuzindikira kukula kwake mwa kuyang'ana kukula kwa mphuno, kutalika kwa zala zanu, ndi zina zotero. - palibe ngakhale mmodzi mwa iwo omwe adzapereke zotsatira zolondola. Usiku woyamba, makamaka nthawi yomwe munthu amachotsa zovala zake, amawoneka ngati loti. Kodi ndingadziwe momwe ndingapambane? N'zotheka ndithu.
Pano, cholinga chanu ndi kusintha, kusankha malo abwino ndikuyamika nthawi zonse. Ngati kukula kwa mbolo kukulirapo kusiyana ndi zomwe mukuyembekeza, chitani kuyamika pa izi, kuwopsyezani monga nthabwala, ndi zina zotero. Ngati zikuwoneka kuti "pakhoza kukhala zambiri" - zilizonse, musadandaule izi ndipo musatchulepo konse - nthawi zambiri bamboyo ali ndi zovuta pazifukwa izi. Ndipo kungotamandiranso. Osati kukula kwake, koma luso lake. Yesetsani kumutsimikizira kuti iye ndi wabwino kwambiri, chifukwa nthawi zambiri iye mwiniwake amakayikira izi.
Nambala ya nambala 3. Iye anafika pachimake, ndipo iwe unakhalabe "pa bowo losweka"
Ndani wa ife amadziwa kuti nthawi zina munthu "amatha" pamaso pa wokondedwa wake. Koma sizikukhumudwitsa kuti zikhomerere milomo ndi kumenyetsa, kusonyeza kusakhutira kwawo. Yesetsani kumunyengerera kugonana kachiwiri, mwinamwake pogonana.
Nambala ya nambala 4. Zonse zinayenda bwino, koma zamasewera
Munali wabwino kwambiri, mnzanuyo anali pamwamba, mukufuna kuti mupitirizebe kukhala ndi chibwenzi mtsogolo, koma nthawi ino simunayambe kupeza zovuta. Mukudzifunsa ngati ndibwino kudziyesa ngati akusowa? Zotheka, ndizofunika.
Ngati ndizofunika, ndiye kuti ndiyese. Taganizirani izi ngati kuyamika kwa mwamuna wanu Komabe, ngati izi zikuchitika nthawi zonse, ndiye kuti ndibwino kuti mutembenukire kwa munthu wogonana pogonana. Zifukwa za zovutazi sizing'onozing'ono - kuyambira zomwe mnzanu sangathe kudziwa za malo osokoneza bongo komanso momwe mungawathandizire, zolepheretsa maganizo. Ndipo musaganize kuti ndi vuto laling'ono - pokhala ndi chilakolako chogonana nthawi zonse popanda kutuluka kwa thupi, zochitika zapakati paziwalo zing'onoting'ono zingayambe, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti kutaya kwa mazira ndi ma fibroids kutheke.
Nambala ya nambala 5. Mwamunayo anali ndi vuto ndi kupenya
Inde, pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe palibe chifukwa chokhalira. Ndipo pa nthawi yotere, chifukwa chake, makamaka, ndi chosafunikira, chinthu chachikulu - chomwe chiyenera kuchitidwa.
Yesetsani kumuthandiza mnzanuyo kuti asamasuke komanso musamamulole nkhawa. Ndikoyenera kuyesa kubwezeretsa kugonana m'mawa, kunena kuti muli ndi nthawi yochulukira wina ndi mzake, mwaphiphiritsira komanso kwenikweni.
Ndipo chinthu chofunika kwambiri - dziwani kuti munthu pakalipano alibe mwayi woyerekeza zamakono ndi zomwe mudali kale. Iye sakudziwa chimene iwe uti udzakhale, kotero iwe ukhoza kukhala wokwanira chirichonse chimene iwe ukuchifuna.