Vuto la khalidwe la mwanayo

Nthaŵi zina angelo athu ang'onoang'ono amakonza zochitika zoterezi!
Ankagwiritsidwa ntchito kuti chokhumba chilichonse chikwaniritsidwa mwamsanga, koma mosiyana - kulira, kuyimirira pamaso pa misonzi ndi misozi komanso achibale owonongeka. Nkhani yanu? Tiyamikireni: muli ndi wogulitsa ochepa komanso wosokoneza. Mwinamwake, mukangolola kutaya, kapena mutakhala ndi zochitika, mwakhala osamala - ndipo mwapatseni mphindi khumi ndi imodzi musanatenge TV kuti mukhale ndi maola awiri abwino (muyenera kutenga chochita ndi mwana mukamalankhula ndi mnzanu), zipsu zoletsedwa zimagulidwa nthawi zonse (zomwe mungakondweretse mwanayo, pamene mukuyenera kugwira ntchito), kuvala kalonga wamng'ono kapena mwana wamkazi wamkazi kumakhala nkhawa zanu zokha (chabwino, nthawizonse mumachedwa!). Pang'onopang'ono mumachepetsa malire a zomwe zimaloledwa, ndipo scion wanzeru amasangalala nazo. Malingana ndi momwe mumachitira ndi zochita zake, mwana wanu amakhalanso ndi khalidwe lake. Iye amadziwa bwino kwambiri luso lachinyengo, akugwiritsa ntchito nthawi iliyonse pamene akufuna kuti akwaniritse chinachake.

Kodi izo zimachokera kuti?
Mitundu yowala kwambiri ya "anyamata" omwe ali pansipa akufotokozedwa pansipa. Kodi mumadziwa "sweetie" yanu? Tiyenera kuganizira momwe tingayikidwire.

Napoleoni waumitsa
Wovuta, wolamulira wamphamvu, mwiniwake. Zigwiritsiro zonse ndizo zake, kuti azigawana ndi winawake maswiti - osokoneza, koma kuti azigwirizana ndi wina - ngati palibe chochita, kusasunga malamulo omwe amachokera ndikumenyedwa. Chotsani zonena za utsogoleri ndi mphamvu. Monga lamulo, iye alibe mabwenzi, chifukwa cha zomwe amakwiya, akuyesera kuti apangitse anthu ake. Mtundu ndi wofala kwambiri pakati pa anyamata, koma "girlish" version sivuta. Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Fotokozerani mwanayo kuti mungathe kukwaniritsa zomwe mukufuna ngati mutaphunzira. Pepani kuti mugawane zidole? Lolani kuti lizindikire omwe angathe kuperekedwa kuti agwiritse ntchito. Kodi mukufuna pokomandovat? Ganizirani za masewera omwe "wamkulu" wachinyamata adzalamulira - komanso ena onsewo. Mwanayo amvetsetsa kuti ubale wabwino ndi ana ena umalimbitsa ulamuliro wake, ndipo amaukonda.

Ng'ombe ya ng'ombe
Zikuwoneka kuti ndizodalira komanso zopanda phindu: kugwedeza mu chopingacho, ndi mawu omveka, akupemphani thandizo. Iye akufuna kutonthozedwa, kukonza chinachake chomwe chingamusangalatse iye. Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Sikoyenera kugwirizana ndi zifukwa zowonjezereka chifukwa amisozi akutsanulira. Potero, inu nokha mukulimbikitsani mu crypt infantile ndi passive. Vomerezani: mumayesa nokha, koma pano ndikuthandizani. Ndipo matamando chifukwa cha kupambana kulikonse.
Chameleon
Kunyumba, mwanayo ali yekhayekha, m'banjamo wina, poyenda mu paki yachitatu ... Iye amadziwa kukhala mwana wabwino ngati akufuna kukwaniritsa chinachake, ndipo amakhala msilikali wangwiro ngati chilango chingapewe.

The blackmailer
Makhalidwe ake ndi ntchito yambiri yotchedwa "Ndidzachita chiyani?". Chotsani zidole - kokha ngati mupatsa chokoleti, tsambulani mano - ngati mutalola theka la ola kusewera makompyuta.
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Lakhazikitsa malamulo omveka bwino ndikuwatsata mwamphamvu. Palibe mgwirizano! Mukhoza kulemba mndandanda wa zilango zomwe zingakhalepo ngati osamvera.

Kapolo
Amagwirizana kwambiri ndi mmodzi mwa achibale ake ndipo sakuvomereza kumulola kuti apite sitepe. Izi zimawoneka ngati chiwonetsero cha chikondi, zedi - kunyengerera kopambana. Kawirikawiri ana amachitira zinthu mofanana ndi agogo aamuna, ndipo awo "osatetezedwa" ndi zidzukulu-amodzimodzi, onse amavomereza.

Mfumu ndikubweranso
Makolo, atatopa ndi zizoloŵezi za wozunza wamng'ono, amadzipeputsa okha udindo wa kulera mwana: "Sitinaphunzire ndakatulo, sitinapite kukamaphunzitsa, chifukwa ankakonda ..." Mwanayo sangathe kulingalira zotsatira za zochita zake, ntchito ya akulu ndi kumuwonetsa pa iwo. Akhazikitseni otsogolera oyenera mu banja lanu, ndipo ngati mwasankha chinachake, ndiye kuti mukulimbikira nokha. Poyamba, "kugonjetsedwa mfumu" kumenyera mphamvu. Khalani olimba! Ngati mwanayo, akufuna kuti akwaniritse, adzikonzekeretsa, musayese kumukakamiza - izi zimangopangitsa munthu wachifwamba wamng'ono. Fotokozerani kuti sichikufuna kukwaniritsa zofuna zake, ndi kuchoka m'chipinda (ndibwino "kugonjetsa" malo popanda mboni, kuti zinyenyesedwe zisakhale ndi chiyeso chogwira ntchito kwa anthu). Kulankhulana ndi mwana wamkazi sonolili pa mapazi ofanana, pewani malamulo, koma osati syusyukai. Mumupatse ufulu wosankha: zomwe mungadye, chobvala, buku lomwe mukuliwerenga. Mwanayo ayenera kumverera: malingaliro ake ndi ofunikira kwa inu. Kwa mawu anu, adzachitanso ulemu waukulu.

Ndikanizeni!
Mwana wokwiya kwambiri ayenera kuimitsidwa. Iye amasangalala ndi chilolezo ndipo nthawi yomweyo amavutika ndi mfundo yakuti aliyense amatsitsa mkwiyo. Iye sakudziwa momwe angamvere malamulo onse, chifukwa cha zomwe amamva ngati wotayika mu sukulu ya sukulu kapena sukulu, amapeza anzake ake movutikira. Muthandizeni kusintha asanathe.

Nthawi yoimba sizosangalatsa
Posachedwapa, mwana wanga wamwamuna womvera komanso wokonda kwambiri ankawoneka m'malo mwake! Ndinawerenga uphungu wa katswiri wa zamaganizo kuti pamene "kupsa mtima" mumayenera kusamalira mwanayo kuti achite chinachake chabwino. Nenani, mmalo mwawopseza, koma mafoloko a "bwino "a khitchini ku khitchini, ndimapereka mapepala, momwe mungagowetse ndi kuwapindikiza. Njira ina yochepetsera kuyimba kosasunthika kwa mwanayo ndi katundu wotsitsa-makina ochapira. Pogwiritsa ntchito, timaphunzira mayina a zovala, mtundu wawo, kukula kwake. Njirayi imathandizanso: mwanayo amalira ndi kupondaponda mapazi ake, ndipo ndimakhala pansi pansi ndikuyamba kumanga nsanja ndi zitsulo, nsanja ndi madaraja omwe ndimayendetsa magalimoto. Mwanayo amasiya ndikugwirizanitsa.

M'badwo waumauma
"Vuto la Nyenyezi Zisanu ndi ziwiri la Zaka zitatu" ndi zizindikiro zosiyana ndi khalidwe la ana a m'badwo uno.
Nthawiyi banja liyenera kukhala ndi moyo: izi zimachitikira pafupifupi aliyense.
1. Kusayera. Mwanayo samakhutitsidwa ndi chinachake.
2. Kusakanikirana. Imaimirira payekha mpaka chinthu chotsirizira.
3. Kuuma. Zomwe anthu akulu amakhulupirira zimadziwika ndi chidani.
4. Kudzikonda. "Ine ndekha!", Osati ayi, ngakhale kuti nkhaniyo sitingakwanitse.
5. Chipolowe chachipulotesitanti. Kusamala kumabweretsa mikangano.
6. Kuchulukira. Akukana chirichonse, ngakhale zomwe iye ankakonda kale, kungoti achite chinachake motsutsa winawake.
7. Kusokoneza. Akuyesa kutsogolera ndi kulamulira m'banja.