Kawirikawiri makolo achichepere akuchenjezedwa: Amati, ndiwe wopepuka kwambiri, phunzitsani mwana wanu kuti atenge zida. Koma kwenikweni, kodi pangakhale kusamalidwa kwambiri ndi chifundo? Kodi n'zotheka "kuwononga" mwana motere?
Pali malingaliro osiyanasiyana okhudza kulera ana. Mwachikhalidwechi iwo akhoza kugawidwa mu dongosolo la zovuta ndi dongosolo kuti akwaniritse zosowa za zinyenyeswazi. Mtundu woyamba umanena kuti mwanayo ayenera kukhala woletsedwa kuti asagwiritsidwe ntchito kupeza chilichonse chimene amachikonda. Chachiwiri ndi chakuti munthu ayenera kukwanitsa zosowa zake zonse, mwinamwake iye adzataya chikondi chochepa.
Choonadi, monga mwachizolowezi, kwinakwake pakati
Mwana wakhanda sangathe kuwononga: amadziwa chabe dziko lapansi. Zimatsegula momwe dziko limakhudzira zosowa zake, momwe amachitira iye. Kukhutira zopempha za zinyenyeswa panthawiyi, timamuuza kuti chinthu chofunika kwambiri, chinthu chofunikira kwambiri chomwe ali nacho komanso chomwe adzakhale nacho. Kulepheretsa, timabweretsa makhalidwe omenyana, kukhala tcheru ndi tcheru.
Ponena za momwe kuyambira kwa unyamata ndi chikondi cha mwana wamng'ono kumakhudza mapangidwe a umunthu, malinga ndi ofufuza omwe anaphunzira miyambo ya mafuko osiyanasiyana a ku India. Choncho, asayansi omwe akhala akuwonetsa moyo wa mitundu iyi kwa nthawi yayitali, onani kuti mwambo wokwaniritsa zokhumba zonse za mwanayo ndi khalidwe la mafuko omwe sanachite nawo nkhondo, ankakhala mogwirizana ndi chilengedwe. Zolinga pakudyetsa, kulumikizana ndi amayi zinali zofanana ndi mafuko ovuta kwambiri omwe anakweza asilikali.
Zomwe sizichitika mochuluka kwambiri?
Choncho, masiku ano maganizo okhudzana ndi zaka zapitazo amasonyeza kuti kukwaniritsa zosowa za mwana akhanda kumathandiza kumakula munthu wochezeka, wochezeka komanso wokoma mtima yemwe ali wodalirika komanso wokonda kuthetsa mavuto mwa kufunafuna zinthu zina. Pali lingaliro lakuti ana otero m'tsogolomu akugwirizana kwambiri ndi kuyankhulana kwaubwenzi, kudera achibale ndi zachilengedwe.
Kotero ndi chiyani chomwe ana akusowa, chokhutiritsa chomwe, tikufotokozera mwana wathu kuti dziko lapansi ndi labwino, lotetezeka komanso lotseguka? Kodi nkhuku sizichitika mochuluka bwanji?
Amayi a manja
M'mawu ena, kuyanjana kwa amayi anga. Amanena kuti mwanayo akhoza kuwonongeka: ngati mupitirira, mwanayo adzafunanso kukhala wachifundo ndi chikondi kwa mwana wamng'ono. Zoona, mwanayo ayenera kukhala pafupi ndi amayi ake momwe amafunira. Kwa ichi pali zipangizo zabwino ngati phokoso ndi kangaroo. Mvula imakhala yodekha pamene mayi ali pafupi, amakula bwino, pamene sasamala kuti mayi ake amuthawa. Ndipo simukusowa kuda nkhaŵa kuti sangachoke manja ake. Kudalira mwa iye yekha ndi amayi ake, mwanayo ali wokonzeka ku chirichonse chokondweretsa, ndipo adzakhala wodziimira pamene ali wokonzeka.
Kuponyera pansi kumalimbikitsidwa kwambiri kuti ana omwe amalephera, omwe amapatsidwa nthawi yovuta kwambiri atabadwa. Palinso njira yothandizira ana oyamwitsa asanakwane, osati mu chofungatira. Mwamsanga madokotala atasiya kuopa ntchito ya kupuma nyenyeswa, imaperekedwa kwa mayiyo. Kuyanjana ndi mawere ndi kuyamwitsa kumateteza kutuluka kwa hypothermia ndi matenda, kuthandizira kulimbikitsa kayendedwe kake ka mantha.
Kulumikizana kwa thupi kumawathandiza ana kuti asatengeke ndi zovuta zosiyana ndi amayi awo, ngati atabereka iwo sangakhale pamodzi: mayi amatha kuchoka ku anesthesia, mwanayo amafunika kuyamwitsidwa mu chipinda chowombera kapena kunyumba ya amayi. Kwa zinyenyeswazi - izi ndizopanikizika kwambiri, ndipo zimakhala zosavuta kuti apeze bwino pamene mayi ali pafupi.
Chenjerani
Kaŵirikaŵiri amapereka malangizo kuti asathamangire kwa mwanayo panthawi yoyamba, amati, ayenera kukhala wozoloŵera kukhala yekha, mwinamwake pasanapite nthawi amayamba kuyesa makolo ake! Ndipotu, phokoso lidali laling'ono kwambiri kuti lisawononge munthu mwadala. Amangoganiza chabe zomwe zochita zake zimapangitsa. Zikudziwika kuti ana omwe adatsalira amayi omwe ali ndi kachilomboka atangobereka sali ovuta kwambiri ndipo samangonena zovuta pang'ono pothandizira kulira. Amawoneka mosasuka komanso "omasuka." Komabe, ubwino uwu umaphatikizidwa ndi kuchepa nzeru ndi chitukuko chakuthupi, komanso kukula kwa chizoloŵezi chosamvera zizindikiro zoopsa za thupi ndi thupi lanu.Kodi omwe amalandira mwamsanga nthawi zambiri amasiya "kusewera" ngati iwo osati kungokwanira zoyambirira, koma samverani pamene sapereka chizindikiro. Ndi mmenenso mwana amaphunzirira kuti asalekerere popanda chifukwa.
Kugona mokwanira
Mbadwo wakale sukumvetsa lingaliro la kugona ndi mwana. Komabe, ndizovuta usiku kudyetsa, kuwonjezera, ndi amayi, ndipo mwanayo amakhala chete palimodzi. Mfundo yakuti "mwanayo sadzachotsedwa pabedi pambuyo pa bedi" ndi nthano, pamene mwanayo amapeza mphamvu, pamene safunikira kulandira mkaka usiku, amayamba kawirikawiri kukhala mu chifuwa chake. Ana safuna kulekanitsa ndi amayi, koma izi ndi zokonzeka.
Mkaka wa m'mawere
Mpaka tsopano, pali lingaliro lakuti kudyetsa mwana pa chofunidwa n'kovulaza. Ndipotu, sizingatheke kudyetsedwa ndi mkaka wa m'mawere, ndipo kufunika kwa mkaka wa amayi kuti zinyama zisamakhale bwino kwambiri. Choncho, ndizomveka kudyetsa mwanayo pofuna, podziwa kuti nthawi zovuta adzadya nthawi zambiri, koma zochepa. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mano akudutsamo, ngati kachilombo kamenyedwa, etc. Koma chisakanizocho chingakhale chochuluka kwambiri. Ndikosalake, ndipo amayi nthawi zonse samasakaniza zosakaniza, pofuna kuti azidya bwino. Ndi chifukwa chake nthawi zambiri anthu opanga mavitamini amavutika ndi kulemera kwakukulu.
Kusuntha
Makanda otha msinkhu nthawi zina amachititsa mantha: makolo, poopa, kuti phokoso lidzatopa, yesetsani kuchepetsa ndi makapu, makombero a kapu, ndi zina zotero. Ndipotu, ngati mwana watopa, adzagona. Inde, pamaso pa ana omwe ali ndi dongosolo lautsi lachithupi amatha kufuula, koma chisangalalo cha mantha pano sichinayambidwe ndi zochitika zolimbitsa thupi, koma mosiyana, wamng'onoyo amayesera "kuthetsa" nkhawa mwa kuthandizidwa ndi "chikhalidwe". Ana oda nkhaŵa nthawi zina amalephera kusunthira pa nthawi yogona ndi "thumba la kugona" ndi zipper, pomwe manjawo amayamba atakulungidwa mkati. Mu thumba lachimake, crumb imamva ngati m'mimba: ndi yabwino, ndipo ndi yosavuta amachepetsa.
Kukambirana
Ngati mwanayo amamva mawu omwe amamuuza, amatha kulankhulana, ndipo kumvetsera kwake pamasom'pamaso (kumayankhula kumvetsetsa) kumakula bwino. Muyenera kumva chilankhulo mu kapu. Choyamba, amamudziwa, kenako amaphunzira kusiyanitsa pakati pa mawu kapena mawu onse, ndiye kuti zidzakhala zosavuta kuti adziwe bwino galamala ndi kubwezeretsa mawu ake.
Musaope kupatsa mwana wanu chikondi chochuluka! Posachedwapa, ayamba kupatukana ndi amayi ake ndikuchita zinthu zosangalatsa. Lolani ndi mphindi ino adzalimba ndi kukhulupilirana.