Nkhani yokondweretsa kwambiri yokhudzana ndi zolaula. M'nkhani ino tikambirana, kodi kuonerera zolaula pa banja kumakhudza bwanji, kodi ndibwino kuyika kanema koletsedwa ndikuyang'ana pamodzi?
Pano pali lingaliro loti: "Ndikuganiza kuti kuonera zolaula pamodzi - kwatha!" Ndipo madzi oyeretsa kwambiri, "Chifukwa chiyani anthu ambiri amachita chinyengo chotere, samandimvetsa?"
Kotero, tiyeni tiyambe ndi "zokambirana". Ndidzatchula mawu onsewo: "Zitha kunenedwa kuti izi ndizo lingaliro la zovutazo. Koma ndi ine amene sindikufuna kuti muck mukhale mutu wanga komanso mutu wanga panthawi ya kugonana! Kodi zimapereka chithunzithunzi cha kupita patsogolo mu kugonana ndi kudzidzimva okha "popanda zovuta"? Sindiri wokonzeka, koma kuchokera kukhutira kwathunthu, ndiyenera kupita kwinakwake! Ndipo musamamuphatikize mnyumba komanso makamaka pabedi! "
Pano muyenera kupanga popovodu erotica, zolaula ndi mtundu, mwachitsanzo, "kunyumba" (zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pokhapokha malo oponyera, khalidwe lake ndi kuikapo, inde, inde) - sizomwezo. Komabe, timatengera zofanana ndi zolaula ndi zolaula, chifukwa palibe kusiyana kwakukulu m'mafotokozedwe (makamaka pamene mukuwona kuti zolaula zimakhalanso zovuta komanso zovuta).
Bwanji inde?
Choyamba, tiyenera kunena kuti zolaula siziwopsya anthu omwe adakhazikitsa makhalidwe abwino, amafika pamtima. Choncho, ubwino ndi chisokonezo chidzangoganizira gulu lino la anthu.
Kotero, kwa anthu omwe ali pachibwenzi kapena pachibwenzi chotere amatsogolera ku mgwirizano, malingaliro ogwirizana a nkhani zimabweretsa piquancy yapadera, chimanga mu ubale ndi moyo wogonana. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, mafilimu owonetsa zolaula amachititsa kusintha kwa thupi ndi maganizo awo, mwa iwo:
- Kuchotseratu maofesi kwa iwo omwe ali nawobe pazifukwa zina, zomwe ndi zofunika kwambiri kulankhulana kwa nthawi yaitali. Nanga bwanji zokhudzana ndi kugonana ndi kupezeka kwa zosankha zina "zatsopano" kwa mnzako?
- Mafilimu a zolaula ndi chida chothandizira kugonana kwa anthu awiri, chifukwa malingaliro oyenera ku zipangizo zamaphunziro a mzinda wotero angathe kuukitsa moyo wa kugonana kwa anthu omwe akugwirizana nawo.
Kuchokera pamaganizo a kuwonjezera "kusokoneza" kotereku kumoyo wa kugonana kumapangitsa munthu kumverera ngati wokondedwa kapena wokonda magawo ake, kuti kunyada n'kofunika mu ubale wautali.
Zoonadi, anthu ambiri nthawi zina amayang'ana ndikuwonera filimuyi-ina (makamaka zochitika zolimbitsa thupi, zomwe "zozizwitsa" sizomwe zili zoyamba) kuti zithetse maganizo ndi kupeza mtundu wina wotsutsa zatsopano.
Ndiponso, chisangalalo cholandira kuchokera kuwona filimu yabwino ndizodabwitsa, ndipo zithunzi ndi zomveka pamutu zimangowonjezera chizungulire komanso maganizo abwino.
Ndani mwa malingaliro ake sanalota za kugonana kwa gulu limodzi (kungoyang'ana kuchokera kumbali, nayenso, akuganiziridwa!)? Kapena mu malingaliro anu mungathe kuchita chirichonse? Mofananamo, palibe cholakwika, zotsatira za kukhalapo (mwa njira yoyenera yofunikira kwa onse) ndipo akhoza kuwonjezera filimu ya zomwe zili XXX.
Apanso, mukhoza kuyang'ana ndi chisangalalo, kuyamikira nthawi zina komanso kuseka. Kodi ndi bwino kunena za zosangalatsa zomwe mwapeza poyang'ana limodzi, ngati chiwerengero cha mafilimu olaula ndi ofanana? Kuonerera zolaula pamodzi ndizokonzanso zomwe muyenera kuphunzira kuzigwiritsa ntchito.
Bwanji?
Komabe, ngakhale zilizonse zabwino pazochitikazi, palinso ziphuphu zomwe zimakupangitsani kulingalira musanachite izo.
Pamene mukuwonera vidiyo zomwe zili paziwirizi, pangakhale mavuto ndi kumvetsetsa: mgwirizano ndi zomwe mumawona ndikumva zingakhale zosiyana. Pano pali ndemanga ina: "Sindidzaonanso zolaula zomwe ndimakonda: Nthawi ina ndinaseka choncho, koma anasangalala ... ndipo sanamvetsetse nkomwe." Ndicho chimene chikhoza kuyembekezera anthu awiri, osinthidwa mosiyana kuti ayang'ane zomwezo.
Kapena kotero: "Mukayang'ana pa imodzi, zikuwoneka zosavuta, palibe amene akuwona kuti mukuyang'ana. Awvoyem, zachilendo mwanjira ina. " "Wachilendo" ndi nthawi ina yomwe singakulole kuti udzimasule nokha chifukwa choganiza zadyera kapena kupeza ... Kusamvetsetsana ndi wina kapena kukonda kudziwonetsera nokha, kuvumbulutsa chinsinsi chako, chomwe chingakhale chowonekera pa kugonana kwa anthu awiri, ndicho chimene mungatayike popanda kuyesera. Ngakhale muyenera kukhala osamala / o, kuti musamavulaze maganizo anu mnzanu / ru. Izi ndizoopsa kwambiri.
Kuwonjezera apo, musakhale achangu pa nkhaniyi, chifukwa mafilimu oterewa amakhala okhudzidwa kwambiri. Izi zingayambitse mavuto aakulu monga kusowa kwa chilakolako "chachilendo" kapena ndondomeko yokhayo "popanda kubwezeretsa."
Kapena, apa pali wina: "Ndizowona kuti nthawi zina zimakupangitsa iwe kukhala wovuta kuposa manja a wokondedwa ndi kumapereka kugonana komanso nthawi zina tanthauzo latsopano mu ubale wanu." Chilichonse ndi chabwino kwambiri, koma, monga tafotokozera pamwambapa, ndizovuta kwambiri, koma ngati simungakhale okonzeka pang'ono, zingayambitse moyo wa kugonana kukhala tsoka, osatchula kupsinjika maganizo kapena ngakhale kudalira.
Ngati muyang'ana, ndiye chiyani?
Zovuta kwambiri, mukalowa muyeso lofufuzira ngati "Zithunzi zojambula pamodzi", "Zithunzi zojambula zithunzi", "Wobadwira bwino" komanso "Erotica", "Kukongola Kwambiri", simungapeze kanema kanema zomwe mwafuna.
Zitenga nthawi yambiri ndi khama kuti musankhe (zenizeni) zosankha zomwe zingakuvomerezeni, ndi zokhutira, ndi zolinga, ndi ma stage, ndi khalidwe. Moona, ndikotheka kuchita izi. Ndipo musaganize kuti mukufunikira kuyang'ana kudzera mu nyimbo yonse kuti mumvetse: monga inu (chimodzi) kapena ayi.
Ngati, komabe, lingaliro la kuwonera mafilimu a mtundu uwu limabwera mwadzidzidzi (ndipo mobwerezabwereza osati, kupatula kulakalaka kudabwitsa munthu wanu, kumudabwa iye kapena kuyambitsa spoor pamene abwera kunyumba kuchokera ku ntchito kapena zina zotere), khalani okonzeka "kugwira" chikhumbo chanu pa malire kwa kanthawi, chifukwa idzayenera kuthera kupeza zowonongeka za kanema.
Kuonjezerapo, pali zipangizo zambiri, koma zowonjezera zowonjezera (pambuyo pa zonsezi, izi ndizo zomwe mukufunikira paziwiri) pazinthu zowonongeka.
Kodi pali njira ina?
Kugonana kapena dazhenakom kungakonzedwe mosavuta ndi mutu wafotokozedwa m'nkhaniyi. Kotero, tingatani kuti tisiyanitse moyo wa banja ndi njira zochepa?
- Mukhoza kuyika zipangizo zomwe zimapezeka pamasamba a osatsegula (ngati atasungidwa potseguka);
- Siyani chithunzi cha msungwana wamaliseche pa desktop, mwachitsanzo;
- Choyendetsa galimoto ndi foda yomwe idzafuula "Mundidziwitse ine, apa ndizodziwitsa anthu," ndipo izi zingakhale zonse kanema ndi zithunzi zithunzi;
- Siyani foni yomwe mumaikonda (pa imelo, kuitanitsa) chiwonetsero chogonana, chodziwika bwino chogonana, nyimbo kapena nyimbo. Nthawi yochititsa chidwi, ngati kuseketsa (!) Kuchiza;
- Tsekani kanema pamene munthu alowa m'nyumba ndikuyang'ana yekha;
- Tayang'anirani zowonongeka kapena zolaula zomwe mulibe zochitika zodziwika, zamkati ....
Kotero chimodzimodzi: Inde kapena ayi?
Funsoli ndilosavuta. Chilichonse chimagwirizana ndi mtundu uwu wamakono: aliyense amene amakonda. Koma ngati mumalongosola mwachidule, ndibwino kunena kuti palibe zopanda pake zomwe zikuchitika, komanso mosiyana ndi izi: kugonana kwabwino kumapindulitsa, kugonana kumakula, kukhulupilira kumawonjezeka, kukondwera kwambiri mwa mawu awa.
Koma kachiwiri, cholakwikacho chingakugwedezeni ngati simunakonzekere zomwe munthu angachite, ngati simukukhala pafupi kapena mulibe mwayi wochezeka mu ubale wanu ndi zikhumbo zanu.
Koma nchiyani chomwe chingakhale chopanda vuto komanso kugonana kupatula filimu yolaula?