Pamene tinali ana, sizinalibe kanthu kwa ife kuti mnyamata wabwino pakhomo angakhale loya kapena dipatimenti ndi zomwe akuphunzira mufizikiki amatha kutenga kotala. Pokhala okhwima, takhala ndi malo omveka bwino.
Pamene kuli kofunikira kwambiri maganizo a wina ndikusowa kulimba mtima kuti avomereze kupanda ungwiro kwawo, ndizofunika kwambiri. Timagwiritsa ntchito zikhulupiliro monga mask, kubisala kumbuyo mantha, mantha, kusakhulupirika kwa ena.
Timaiwala kuti mfundo za moyo zimangokhala zosiyana pazochita zathu. Mukagwiritsidwa ntchito moyenera, amathandizira kukwaniritsa zofunikirako, kupirira zolakwa, ndipo ngati kugwiritsidwa ntchito mopitirira muyeso kungayambitse kuwonongeka ngakhale kukulumikizana kwambiri.
Ndi cholowa
Makolo ndi omwe akuyamba kutikonzekeretsa kuti tikwaniritse maganizo osadziwika, kuti tidziwe chomwe maubwenzi pakati pa anthu ali ndi. Amalongosola zabwino, zoipa, kuyesa kuumiriza zikhulupiriro zawo.
Chirichonse chomwe timaphunzitsidwa tili ana chimayesedwa ngati chokhacho, chifukwa panthawiyi, makolo ali ndi ulamuliro waukulu kwa ife. Timakhulupirira kuti mwa kuumiriza khalidwe linalake pa mwanayo, nthawi zambiri akulu amamupatsa zikhulupiliro, zomwe zimachokera kwa makolo ake. Zimakhala zozungulira - zochitika za m'banja zikubwerezedwa mobwerezabwereza.
Koma ziribe kanthu momwe zingakhalire zabwino, ngakhalenso chikhalidwe choloŵa cha chiyanjano pakati pa anthu chimakhala, muli ndi ufulu wosatsatira izo ndikuchita mogwirizana ndi zilakolako zanu. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kukumbukira kuti pano ndi pano ndi mwamuna uyu kuti muli ndi mwapadera komanso malamulo oyankhulana omwe mumakhazikitsa pamodzi.
Zotsatira za theka lachiwiri
Pamene tili m'chikondi, timakonda kukonda mnzathu, mosamala kapena mosadziŵa, kuti tisamazindikire zolephera zake. Muli wokondwa naye nthawi, zikuwoneka, momwe mukufunira kumuwona. Timanyalanyaza mfundo yakuti iye ndi munthu wosiyana ndi zizoloŵezi zake, zosowa zake ndi malingaliro ake. Zotsatira zake, pamene kuwala koyamba kochoka, kusakhutira, kukhumudwa kumachitika.
Timakhulupirira kuti kumayambiriro kwa chiyanjano zotsatira za theka lachiwiri zimagwira ntchito, pamene zikuwoneka kuti wokondedwa ali ngati ife m'zonse ndipo amagawana nawo zomwe timakhulupirira. Ndipo pamene zikutanthawuza kuti izi siziri chomwecho, timapitirizabe kuumirira payekha, chifukwa timaganiza kuti ndikosavuta kusintha wokondedwa kusiyana ndi inuyo ndi maganizo anu kwa munthu.
Ogwira ntchito za chikumbumtima
Kumbali imodzi, sizingatheke kulola mnzanu mwamtheradi chirichonse mu chiyanjano ndi kuwononga zokhudzidwa kwanu. Kumbali inayi, kutsata mwakachetechete maganizo omwe saganizira kwenikweni zofuna za wokondedwa, timadziona kuti ndife omvera ku mfundo zathu.
Pogwiritsa ntchito udindo woterewu, timamuyika mnzanuyo zisanachitike: Sindidzakukhululukirani chifukwa cha zolakwa zanu. Ndipo timachita izi osati chifukwa chakuti sitingakwanitse kukhululukira, koma chifukwa ndi zovuta kuti tisiyane ndi mfundo (tikuopa kuwoneka ofooka ndi odalira ena). Zimene munthu wapafupi amachita pomvera kwambiri mfundo zingakhale chilakolako chochita zinthu mopanda pake, chifukwa kwenikweni amakakamizika kukhala momwe timafunira.
Chitani kafukufuku
Choyamba, muyenera kumvetsetsa chifukwa chake mfundo iyi ndi yofunika muukwati, ndipo ndi zotsatira zotani zomwe mukufuna kuzikwaniritsa pozigwiritsa ntchito. Yesani kuyankha funsoli: "Ndichifukwa chiyani ndikufunikira izi?" Lembani mndandanda wa zinthu zingapo papepala, lembani zomwe chikhulupilirochi chili chothandiza kwa inu komanso chomwe chingakuvulazeni kwambiri. Sitiyenera kukhazikitsa magetsi (omwe nthawi zambiri sudziwa) omwe mumagwiritsa ntchito, koma mayankho omveka bwino, omveka omwe angamuthandize mdani wanu. Ngati zotsutsana zikuoneka zosasokoneza, taganizirani momwe mfundoyi ilili yofunikira kwa inu.
Sula malamulo
Ganizirani moona kuti mwaphwanya malamulo omwe mwakhazikitsa mu chiyanjano, onani kuti ndi inu omwe mumamverera nthawi yomweyo momwe mulili omasuka. Yesetsani kufufuza zotsatira zomwe zingadzapangitse kukanidwa kwa zikhulupiliro komanso ngati zingakhale zoipa.
Perekani ufulu wosankha
Ngati nthawi zonse mumalimbikitsanso kuti wokondedwa wanu akakumana ndi anzanu pamasiku a sabata, ndipo pitiliza kumapeto kwa mlungu, musinthe malamulo - mutumizeni kumsonkhano ndipo mutha kumapeto kwa mlungu wokha. Mudabwa kudabwa komwe mungapeze poyankhula ndi anzanu, kuwerenga mabuku ndi zosavuta. Ndipo mwamsanga mudzaphunzira kusintha mzinthu zovuta kwambiri.
Imani pambali pake
Kuti mumvetsetse kuti munthu wina alipo padera, n'zotheka, poyesera kuti akhale ndi khungu la wina. Pambuyo pa mkangano wina woopsa ndi okondedwa anu, muzichita masewera olimbitsa thupi, omwe mumakhala nawo wotsutsa. Bweretsani pamasomaso ake zomwe zingakutsutseni, ndipo yesetsani kumvetsa zomwe zimapangitsa munthu wanu kuti atsutsane.