Osangoganizira lingaliro limodzi kapena njira yeniyeni yopezera anthu atsopano. Kupeza anzanu ambiri sikovuta monga momwe kungawonekere poyamba. Nanga mungapange bwanji anzanu ambiri? Yesani njira zosiyana zogonana pachimodzimodzi:
- Pitani ku zochitika zosiyanasiyana za masewera, kupita kumaseŵera, mawonetsero, masewera, kupita kuzipinda zowerenga, mabungwe a anthu, lembani maphunziro pazofuna.
- Khalani odzipereka mu bungwe kwa achinyamata. Kawirikawiri, maubwenzi olimbikitsa amayamba pokonza mgwirizano. Kuwonjezera apo, mudzakhala ndi mwayi weniweni wodziwa anthu omwe ali ndi zofanana.
- Khalani membala wa gulu (ngati mukufuna, angapo) omwe mumakonda. Potero, mudzakhala ndi abwenzi ambiri atsopano.
- Pezani bwenzi kapena chibwenzi, ndipo mudzakhala ndi mwayi wodziwa anzanu, ndipo motero bwalo la anzanu lidzakula kwambiri
- Nthaŵi zambiri amapita ku maphwando, pali mwayi weniweni wopanga anzanu.
- Khalani ndi maphwando osiyana nokha.
- Ngati mukuphunzira ku yunivesite, khalani mwachitsanzo mtsogoleri wa gulu lanu kapena mtsogoleri wa Youth Council.
- Musanyalanyaze Intaneti.
Kumbukiraninso komwe munakumanapo kale, yang'anirani nyuzipepala ndikupeza zomwe zakonzedweratu mumzinda wanu, ndikutsatirani zokondweretsa kwambiri kwa inu! Kumeneko mukhoza kupanga anzanu ambiri.
Musaiwale kuti anthu ena omwe amakhala okondwa kwa maola ochulukirapo amakhala "m" macheza, kotero kuti akwaniritse njira yeniyeni yeniyeni yodziŵira, kapena, kwa kanthawi kuti athetse kusungulumwa kosautsa. Mudzakhalanso ndi mwayi wosankha masewera okondedwa, kugawana malingaliro anu, ndipo pamapeto pake mudziwe bwino ndikupanga anzanu ambiri!
Kodi mukufunikira chiyani kuti muyambe kukambirana? Chabwino, ndi chofunika kwambiri kuyambitsa kukambirana:
1. Choyamba, kumwetulira komanso kusangalala. Mukakhala ndi kumwetulira, anthu amaganiza kuti ndinu ovuta kulankhulana ndi munthu wochezeka.
2. Njira yofunikira kwambiri yothetsera ubale ndi munthu ndikutchula chinthu chosangalatsa mu adilesi yake kapena kungomuthandiza.
3. Funsani anzanu atsopano zokhudzana ndi miyoyo yawo, zosangalatsa, zilakolako, zosangalatsa, komwe amagwira ntchito / moyo, ndi zina zotero.
4. Pakukambirana simukusowa kukhala chete. Ngati wina akukufunsani, onetsetsani kuti muyankhe, makamaka mwachinsinsi, kuti mum'patse mnzanuyo.
5. Ngati mutakhala m'tauni ya achinyamata, yesani kugwirizana ndi gulu la achinyamata (mwachibadwa, pemphani chilolezo chawo). Kapena ngati mwakumana kale ndi munthu wina, mukhoza kumupempha kuti akulowereni mu cafe (kapena kupita ku kanema, ndi zina zotero)
6. Tumizani uthenga waubwenzi kwa anzanu atsopano ndi e-mail, ndipo muwone ngati ayankha kapena ayi.
7. Pitirizani kuyankhulana ndi anzanu atsopano muzokambirana kapena ICQ. Mwa njira, mukhoza kupanga amzanga ambiri kumeneko.
8. Ngati pali mwayi wotere, perekani anzanu atsopano thandizo lawo pazochitika zilizonse.
9. Musamangokhalira kulemberana mabwenzi anu ndi mayina anu ndi mauthenga anu. Musaiwale kuti palibe amene amakonda pamene ayamba "kupeza" nthawi zonse ndi mayitanidwe.
Pemphani anzanu atsopano kuti ayende pang'ono pamsewu, penyani mawindo a masitolo kapena zinthu zina!
Ndikhulupirire, kupanga anzanga ambiri ndizosavuta. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kukhala wachifundo ndi munthu wotseguka, ndiyeno anthu adzakufikira.