Maukwati Otsatira

Njira yothetsera mavuto okhudzidwa, kudalirana wina ndi mzake, banja lachibale, maubwenzi ochezeka - onse awiri akufuna kuti ubale umenewu ukhalepo mu miyoyo yawo. Nkhaniyi ikugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa mabungwe onse ogonana ndi osamalidwa a maukwati apamtima, popeza si onse omwe akuyimira anthu amtunduwu amayankha bwino za maukwati awo. Pogwiritsa ntchito mawu akuti "kutha kwa banja," aliyense wa ife ali ndi tanthauzo lake lenileni pamutu, zikuwoneka kuti wina ali ndi zaka 37 zatha kukwatira, ndipo munthu wina amakhulupirira kuti zaka 43 sizikhala mochedwa kwambiri kuyambitsa banja. Ndicho chifukwa chake sitidzakhala ndi malire a zaka, tikukambilana nkhaniyi, koma timangoganizira zokhudzana ndi zabwino ndi zovuta za m'banja.

Nthawi zabwino

Azimayi ndi abambo omwe adutsa zaka 30 amakhala akudziwa kuti ndi anthu otani omwe angafune kukhala malo okhala. Ndipo kupanga chisankho chawo pakati pa anthu ambiri, iwo amawona kuti banja la mtsogolo lidzakhala lolimba ndi lamphamvu, popanda zozizwitsa zosasangalatsa zomwe zikuyembekezera iwo mtsogolomu.

Zowoneka bwino. Poyerekeza, tiyeni titenge anthu awiri omwe adziyika okha pa banja ali ndi zaka makumi awiri. Mwachitsanzo, banja nthawi zambiri limayang'anizana ndi mavuto azachuma, chifukwa aang'ono okwatirana angathe kumanga ntchito yawo. Ndipo ndithudi, popanda kuthandizidwa ndi makolo kuti azikhala osadulidwa, ngati zili ndi kugula kwakukulu, monga galimoto yolipira. Koma anthu omwe akwatirana pambuyo pa zaka makumi atatu, ndiye monga lamulo, mafunso akhala atakhazikitsidwa ndi nyumba zawo zokha ndipo adzidziŵika okha pa ntchito ya ntchito. Pokumbukira mfundo zofunika izi, tikhoza kunena kuti atadzizindikira okha mu ntchito zawo ndipo atapambana bwino, okwatirana adzasamalira kwambiri banja komanso kutenga moyamikira nthawi zonse zokhudzana ndi moyo wawo.

Kugwirizana kwa maphunziro a ana. Kukonzekera, chikhumbo chenicheni ndi chikhumbo chokhala ndi ana kumathandiza makolo kukonzekera kubadwa kwa mwana, ndipo zochitika pamoyo ndi kukula kumamulola kuti amvetsetse, komanso kumudziwa bwino komanso moyenera.

Kuthetsa nkhani za banja ndi nzeru. Kukhwima ndi zochitika za okwatirana zimatheketsa kuti asamachite zinthu mofulumira komanso mofulumizitsa zomwe zingabweretse mikangano ndi kusagwirizana. Komabe, mosakayikira, sizikutanthauza kuti atakwatirana ali ndi zaka makumi anayi, anthu sangawonongeke. Komabe, muukwati wotereko padzakhalanso kunyozedwa, ulemu, chikhumbo chachikulu chopeza malo apakati ndipo mwinamwake kuthetsa mkangano.

Zinthu zolakwika za maukwati otsiriza

Kutchula za zinthu zabwino, musamatsatire zovuta zomwe zingachitike m'maukwati otsiriza.

Nthawi yamoyo ndi kubadwa kwa ana. Kawirikawiri, kukwatirana, pokhala kumapeto kwaukwati, kumafuna kwambiri mwana, koma mwatsoka, pali mavuto a thanzi, zomwe zimalepheretsanso njira yogonana ndi vynashashivaniya zinyenyeswazi. Zomwe anganene, zakhala zikudziwika kuti zaka zabwino kwambiri zakubadwa kwa mwana ndi zaka 20 mpaka 30, pamene thupi laumunthu silingakhudzidwe makamaka ndi matenda osiyanasiyana. Chifukwa chake, monga mkazi, komabe mwamuna, samakhala ndi malingaliro abwino pamene sangathe kukwaniritsa ntchito yawo yautali - kutenga pakati pazing'ono.

Chinthu chinanso chosokonekera chokwatirana ndizochita zokhudzana ndi zaka. Ndipotu, mwamuna ndi mkazi wake, asanalolere kugwirizana kwawo, akhala akudziŵa maziko enieni m'moyo, kuchita zomwe akufuna komanso nthawi yomwe akufuna popanda malire ndi malipoti kwa wina chifukwa cha khalidwe lake. Ndizo pa foni ndipo pangakhale mavuto ena, mpaka banja lidutsa phazi loponyera.