Kutanthauzira kwa maloto: chifukwa chiyani imfa

Imfa ya munthu, makamaka wokondedwa kapena mwana, nthawi zonse imakhala yosasangalatsa. Ngakhale pamene mukukumana nawo sikuti kwenikweni, koma mumaloto. Koma mosiyana ndi zikhulupiliro zambiri, chidziwitso chathu panthaŵi ya tulo chimafuna, mwachitsanzo cha imfa, kukhala chosiyana ndi choopsya kwa moyo wanu kapena okondedwa anu.

Imfa m'maloto ndi malo osinthika, chithunzi chomwe chingasonyeze kukula kwaumwini, kubadwa mwatsopano, kusinthika kuchokera ku nthawi yosiyana. Nthaŵi zambiri, kusintha konseku kuli kolimbikitsa.

Kodi imfa ya munthu imalota chiyani?

• Ngati munthu wosadziwika akufa mu loto, tikuona kuti ino ndi nthawi yabwino kuti tikwaniritse zolinga kapena zolinga zatsopano. Pambuyo pa maloto amenewa ndibwino kuti tiyang'anenso momwe timaonera moyo kapena njira ya moyo wokha. Posachedwapa, zochitika zomwe zalemetsa iwe zidzawonongeka, ndipo malingaliro abwino ambiri adzabwera m'malo mwawo.
• Ngati munthu wapafupi anamwalira m'maloto, ndani adadwala kwambiri, izi zikutanthauzidwa ngati chithandizo cha maloto monga matenda.
• Ngati munthu wapafupi anamwalira mu loto, koma osati wachibale yemwe anali wathanzi, izi zikutanthauza kuti ubale pakati pa inu udzafika pamlingo watsopano. Mudzayamikizana kwambiri, padzakhala mikangano yochepa ndi mikangano.
• Ngati wokondedwa wamwalira m'maloto, nthawi zambiri amatanthauzira ngati chiyanjano cha maloto monga chidziwitso cha chiyanjano. Ngati pangakhale mikangano kapena kusamvetsetsana, posachedwapa zonsezi zidzapita kumbuyo ndipo zitseko zatsopano zomanga ubale wanu zidzatsegulidwa pamaso panu.

Ngati mwana wamwalira m'maloto

Ngati uyu ndi mwana wanu, izi zikutanthauza kuyamba kwa siteji yatsopano pa chitukuko chake. Ana amakula mwamsanga, mwamsanga kuzindikira dziko lowazungulira. Kuchita mantha sikuli koyenera, matenda kapena zovuta sizikuyimira. Kawirikawiri maloto amenewa amalota ndi amayi nthawi ya kusintha kwa mwanayo. Kotero izi ndi zachilendo.

Komabe, ngati mwanayo adadwala m'maloto, kenako amwalira, ndibwino kuonana ndi dokotala. Izi zingatanthauze mavuto aakulu a thanzi.

Ngati mwanayo sankakudziwani, maloto amenewa ali ndi chifukwa chodera nkhawa ndipo amatha kunena kuti anzanu kapena achibale anu akhoza kukukhumudwitsani. Komanso, mukhoza kupeza zolephera pa ntchito yanu komanso kunyumba kwanu.

Ndikofunika kukhala osamala pofotokozera maloto ngati amenewa. Ngakhale tsatanetsatane, osayang'anapo, amapanga chithunzi chosiyana, chimene sichingakhale chosangalatsa kwambiri.

Ngati mutenga, mwachitsanzo, imfa ya bambo mu maloto anu, ndiye kuti, ngakhale kuti wachibale, ali ndi nkhani zoipa, makamaka kwa anthu amalonda. Bambo amagwirizanitsidwa ndi mphamvu, mphamvu ndi mphamvu zoteteza. Akafa m'maloto, munthu amakhala wotseguka kuopseza kunja. Ochita malonda angagwiritse ntchito mwayi umenewu.

Mayi ndi chizindikiro cha chifundo, chikondi ndi chisamaliro. Amayi akamwalira m'maloto, otota amaopa mavuto pa chikondi chakumbuyo, komanso amakangana ndi anthu apamtima.

Imfa ya m'bale m'maloto ingasokoneze ubwenzi wanu ndi anzanu abwino kapena anthu apamtima. Ndibwino kuti mukhale osamala ndi anthu ochokera kumalo anu.

Monga tikuonera, musatenge zonse zomwe zimatichitikira tikamagona. Wolota sayenera kuopa imfa, chifukwa nthawi zambiri zimatibweretsera uthenga wabwino ndipo zimakhudza moyo weniweni. Komabe, ndi bwino kuyang'anitsitsa mwatsatanetsatane wa malotowo, kuti mupange chithunzi chonse cha zomwe zingakuyembekezereni mtsogolo.