N'zosatheka kusunga m'nyumba monga kukumbukira tsitsi la mwana - malo okhalako amakopeka ndi matenda. Ndipo zikhulupiliro zoterozo ndizochuluka kwambiri. Maloto okhudza iwo amachitanso nzeru sizinadutse. Tanthauzo lalikulu la maloto molingana ndi kufotokozera kofanana kudzatenga, koma pofuna kufufuza mwatsatanetsatane wa maloto anu, tikulimbikitsani kuwerenga m'munsimu.
Kodi tsitsi langa limawoneka bwanji?
Zambiri zimadalira mtundu wa munthu amene amawona tsitsi. Zikhoza kukhala zokongola ndi zowopsya tsitsi, zomwe zidzasonyezeratu kuti tsogolo lanu lidzasintha m'mbali zambiri. Zingakhale zokhudzana ndi moyo wa munthu, ntchito komanso kusintha kwake. Makamaka malotowo adzachita ngati m'moyo weniweni tsitsi lanu ndi lalifupi komanso lochepa kwambiri kuposa momwe mumalota m'maloto.
Momwemonso amachitira bwino tsitsi lotooka lotoola. Otanthauzira amasonkhanitsa ichi chimbudzi ndi chiyeretso ndi chiyero. Mukadziona nokha mu maloto, simungathe kudandaula - zolinga zanu ndi malingaliro anu zidzakwaniritsidwa, ndi momwe mudzakhalira ndi anthu abwino komanso abwino.
Tsitsi lofiira - chizindikiro chakuti mu ubale wanu ndi banja lanu kapena wokondedwa wanu ndi wosasamala komanso osatetezeka, anthu apamtima sakukondwera ndi zochita zanu mu khalidwe. Otanthauzira amasonyezanso kuti, mwinamwake, mwakhala mukukumana ndi miseche ndi kukambirana. Sikoyenera kulankhulana ndi wina aliyense ndikudziwulula zinsinsi m'miyezi itatu, izi zingakuvulazeni.
Ngati mu tsitsi la loto linadulidwa
Choncho, musayembekezere chilichonse chabwino. Monga momwe zinalembedwera pamwambapa, ichi ndi chizindikiro cha kukongola, thanzi ndi zochitika pamoyo. Kuwachepetsa iwo mu maloto (kaya inu munachita kapena munthu wina) kumatanthauza kudzipindula nokha ndi thanzi labwino kapena ngakhale matenda, ndi zoyipa kuyang'ana panja, kupanga zolakwitsa mu zinthu zofunika. Ena amalota mabuku kutanthauzira zomwe adaziwona ngakhale ngati matenda osakayika posachedwa. Njira yokha yomwe mungadzitetezere ku zotsatira za malotowo ndiyo kusamba ndi madzi. Muuzeni madzi omwe amalota ndipo amachotsa mphamvu zonse zoipa.
Kodi tsitsi lakuda limawoneka bwanji?
Komanso sikuti wagona bwino. Zimatsimikizira kuti posachedwapa mudzavutika kwambiri, zomwe mukuzifuna sizigwirizana ndi zenizeni, chitetezo chidzafooka, zomwe zingayambitse matenda osiyanasiyana. Komanso, muyenera kuganizira, chifukwa kawirikawiri malotowa ndi zotsatira za moyo wanu weniweni. Mwinamwake mukuchita chinachake cholakwika, ganizirani zopweteka, kanizani anthu, musayang'ane thanzi lanu. Yesani kuganizira zomwe zingakhale zolakwika ndipo, mwinamwake, izi ndizo zothetsera vutolo, ndipo maloto ngati amenewo sadzakusokonezani kwambiri.
Ngati wolota akuwona njira yowonongeka, ichi ndi chizindikiro choyamba cha kusintha. Khalani okonzeka kusintha njira yamoyo, khalani mumzinda wina kapena kusintha mtundu wa ntchito. Ndizosafunikira kwenikweni, ndi mtundu wanji umene umatha kumapeto - ichi chikutengedwa ngati kutanthauzira maloto monga kusintha kwakukulu mkhalidwe.
Ndikuganiza kutanthauzira uku kukuthandizani kuti mumvetse bwino zomwe mwaona usiku uno. Tiyenera kumvetsetsa kuti maloto nthawi zambiri amakhala mafilimu ang'onoang'ono a malingaliro anu, koma osati nthawi zonse. Nthawi zina maganizo osamvetsetsa, amayesera kukufotokozerani chinthu chofunikira, kuchenjeza ndi kuteteza ku mavuto omwe angathe.