Kotero, kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani, momwe mungakhalire ndi momwe mungachitire?
Pafupipafupi, nkhani zotere zimayambira ndi kukambirana za maonekedwe. Zoonadi, kwa amuna izi zimagwira ntchito yofunika kwambiri. Koma, komabe, tsopano tidzakambirana za zomwe, popanda ngakhale kukongola kolembedwa kudzakhala mthunzi wa mnyamata.
Ndi za kudzidalira. Palibe munthu amene amamvera mtsikana amene amadana naye. Mnyamata akusowa wina yemwe angakhale wonyada. Ndipo zingatheke bwanji kukondwera ndi mayi yemwe amadziona kuti ndi wovuta? Ndiko kulondola, ndi chabe chabe.
Ndicho chifukwa, pakati pa njira zingapo zomwe mungapambane ndi mnyamata, choyamba ndi chofunika kwambiri ndicho: kukhulupirira nokha.
Dzifunseni nokha, mwangoyang'ana kamodzi kokha, mutangothamanga mkazi wa bulu pamsewu, ndipo potsatira pali munthu wochepa bwino komanso wokongola? Kodi izo zinali? Icho chinali. Mukuona, mkazi uyu amangokhulupirira mwa iyemwini, amakhulupirira kwambiri kotero kuti mosakayikira amakhulupirira kuti mwamuna ali wokongola.
Kodi ndingatani kuti ndikhale wotsimikiza komanso womasuka? Nthawi zonse ndifunika kuganizira zinthu zabwino. Kodi simukuyamikila? Pano kumbukilani izi, ndipo mubwereze nokha pa nthawi yomwe mwaganiza kugwa, kuchepetsa mapewa anu ndi kubisala padziko lonse lapansi. Muyenera kukhala ndi maso m'maso mwanu, muyenera kumverera ngati mfumu yachifumu kapena mfumukazi mukayenda mumsewu. Mukuyenera kudzipangitsa nokha kuti amuna akukuyang'anani. Inu simungakhulupirire izo, koma, pakapita nthawi, zidzakhala choncho. Mukayamba kukhulupirira, achinyamata amamva mphamvu zanu ndipo amayamba kugwedezeka. Mudzatha kukondweretsa ndi kumalankhula aliyense amene akukumana ndi ulendo wanu, ngati mumadzikongoletsa.
Kambiranani nokha. Izi sizingakhale khalidwe la munthu yemwe adathawa kuchipatala cha maganizo. Zoonadi, sindikutanthauza kukambirana maola ndi nthawi za kutentha kwa nyengo ndi kufalikira kwa mapaje. Phunzirani kudziyang'ana pagalasi ndi kunena kuti ndinu wokongola, wokongola, muli ndi miyendo yokongola komanso yochepa. Ngakhale ubongo ndi mtima ukana kukhulupilira, mukufunikira kudzipangitsa nokha, nthawi zonse komanso mwachizolowezi. Mwa njira iyi mungathe kugonjetsa zovuta zanu ndikumva mphamvu zanu zazimayi.
Pali zambiri zamaphunziro apadera, koma musaiwale kuti psyche ndi psychology ya munthu aliyense ndiyekha. Choncho, pangani ndi maphunziro anu omwe. Gwiritsani ntchito mawu omwe adzakulimbikitsani. Zingakhale zotamanda, kutamanda, chirichonse, chirichonse. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti chiyenera kukuchitirani inu, kukukakamizani kuti mutukulire mutu wanu ndikupita patsogolo, osakhala ndi mantha ndi wina aliyense.
Mukadzuka m'mawa ndi kunena mau awa: "Lero, ndi ine, padzakhala zozizwitsa zitatu! - Ndiloleza! Zoletsa zonse - pezani! "Kuti muthe kuchitapo kanthu, mutatha" kuvomereza "ndi" kotsitsa "mukhoza kudinkhani zala zanu. Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi uku kumathandiza kuti anthu azikhala ndi maganizo abwino komanso abwino kwa tsiku lonse.
Kuwonjezera apo, yesetsani kukhala mu bwalo la anthu abwino. Inde, izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kubwezeretsa abwenzi omwe ali ndi mavuto kapena chisoni. Koma, ngati munthu nthawi zonse amakhala wodandaula tsiku ndi tsiku, zinthu zoipa bwanji, nthawi zonse akulira ndipo sakhala ndi chiyembekezo chochepa, mumagwiritsa ntchito mwachindunji mphamvu ya mphamvu zoipa kuchokera kwa iye ndikuyamba kuona zonse muzithunzi zakuda. Choncho, ngati kuli kotheka, yesetsani kupewa anthu oterowo.
Ngati mumaphunzira kudzikonda nokha, ndiye kuti mungathe kupitilira malangizo onse okhudza maonekedwe ndi khalidwe.
Apa chirichonse chiri chosavuta. Posankha zovala, muyenera kutenga zovala zomwe nthawi zonse zimatsindika ubwino. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, zithunzi zanu ziyenera kukhala zokongola komanso zodzaza. Ndipo ziribe kanthu kuti mumagula zovala, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti zinthu zonse zimagwirizanitsa bwino komanso zimagwirizana mogwirizana ndi mtundu wa mtundu. Komanso, ndizofunika kuvala zidendene nthawi zambiri. Amuna amakonda kuyang'ana miyendo yaing'ono, yolimba yaimuna. Nsalu ndi madiresi alandiridwa. Nthawi zonse kumbukirani kuti pakati pa kuunika kwa kuwala ndi choipa pali kusiyana kwakukulu. Choncho, yesetsani kusankha zovala kuti ziwoneke ngati mayi wodetsa nkhawa, osati ngati PTU-shnitsa wamba.
Inde, amuna samakonda maso okha, komanso makutu. Choncho, werengani zambiri, yang'anani kwambiri, khalani ndi chidwi ndi luso. Kuti mumve chidwi ndi mnyamata, muyenera kumakhala naye nthawi zonse. Ndikuganiza kuti simuli ndi chidwi ndi achinyamata omwe alibe maphunziro apamwamba, ndipo sasamala zomwe mumanena kumeneko. Koma kwa anyamata achilendo, mfundo yakuti mkazi sakondwera ndi zovala komanso zodzoladzola zokha, komanso kumaseĊµera, cinema, luso ndi zolemba ndizofunikira kwambiri.
Kwa mnyamata, ndizofunika kuti mayi amvetsere ndi kumumvetsa. Choncho, nthawi zonse ndibwino kuti mukhale ndi chidwi ndi ntchito ya mnyamata, zosangalatsa zake, komanso, mavuto. Koma, muzonse muyenera kudziwa chiyeso. Musamamvetsere zabodza kuti ndinu wokhumudwitsa. Musati mukwere mowirikiza mu solo, kuyesa ndikuyendetsa. Mukungofuna kusonyeza kuti simulibe chidwi, ndipo mwakonzeka kumvetsera ndi kuthandizira nthawi iliyonse.
Ndipo omalizira - asonyeze ufulu. Inde, munthu safunikira kusankha chilichonse ndikunyalanyaza maganizo a mnyamata. Koma, kukhala wosasamala komanso msungwana, nayenso, ndi wosayenera kwambiri. Mwamuna ayenera kumvetsetsa kuti nthawi zonse amavomereza chisamaliro ndi chitetezo ndi chimwemwe ndi ulemu, koma ngati palibe, simudzasowa. Ndipotu, anyamata ngati atsikana amphamvu, koma osati amphamvu kuposa iwowo.
Nazi njira zochepa zomwe zingathandize msungwana aliyense kuti apambane pafupifupi munthu aliyense. Komabe, moyo ndi chinthu chovuta komanso chosadziwika ...
Zonsezi ziri zowonjezera, nthawi yapadera. Munthu aliyense amafunikira zake, zoyenera. Ndicho chifukwa chake, pofuna kumuthandiza munthuyo, muyenera kumusunga, kumvetsera ndi kukumbukira zinthu zing'onozing'ono. Ndiye inu mukhoza kumvetsa zokhumba zake ndi zokonda zake, ndi kumachita mogwirizana ndi chidziwitso chake.