Kodi tisowa chiyani kuti tikhale osangalala?

Chimene tikusowa kuti tikhale osangalala ndi nkhani yodetsa nkhaŵa kwa onse popanda kupatulapo. Aliyense wa ife ali ndi lingaliro lake lachimwemwe. Wina wa chisangalalo amafunika nyumba yaikulu pagombe, ndipo wina amangoganizira zazing'ono koma nyumba yabwino. Wina amafunikira mlonda wokongola ndi diamondi, ndipo wina akufuna chabe kuwonjezeka kwa malipiro awo. Mwamuna wolemera ndi wokondedwa, ntchito yabwino ndi yodalirika, thanzi labwino, malaya amoto kuchokera ku chinchilla kupita ku zidendene, maulendo 2 kuti apite ku malo otsogoleredwa a padziko lonse a zosangalatsa - zonsezi ndizo zimakhala za moyo wachimwemwe.
Kafukufuku anachitidwa, malinga ndi zomwe amayi oposa theka anayankha funsoli: "Kodi tifunikira chiyani kuti tikhale osangalala?" Choncho: chimwemwe ndi pamene abwana akuwonjezera malipiro anu ndipo moyo wa akaziwa umakhala wosangalatsa komanso wosangalala. Achitatu mwa amayi a dzikoli amakhulupirira kuti ngati ali ndi chiwerengero chokwanira, akanakhala osangalala kwambiri. Azimayi awiri pa asanu adayankha kuti chisangalalo m'nyumba zawo kunja kwa mzinda ndipo chiwerengero chomwe amakhulupirira kuti chisangalalo sichitha popanda chikondi. Komanso, amayi ambiri amavomereza kuti moyo wa banja ndi wofunika kwambiri kuposa chitsimikizo cha ukalamba kusiyana ndi chilakolako chogonana, ndipo kugula mkanjo wamtengo wapatali n'kofunika kwambiri kwa iwo kuposa kukondwerera dzuwa kwambiri ndi mwamuna wake. Kodi ndalama zimatibweretsera chimwemwe?

Mwina izi ndi zoona, chifukwa kukhala ndi ndalama munthu amakhala ndi chidaliro m'tsogolo. Ngakhale ngati mumapempha anzanu ndi anzanu ndikukumbukira nthawi yosangalatsa, ndiye gawo laling'ono lazo likugwirizana ndi ndalama. Anthu awa adzakuuzani za nthawi zosangalatsa zotere pamoyo wawo monga kukupsompsona koyamba, kubadwa kwa mwana, tchuthi chosakumbukika ku Canary. Mwachidule, nthawi ina mwazindikira kuti moyo ndi wabwino - chifukwa cha tsatanetsatane. Chifukwa chake tingathe kunena kuti munthu ayenera kukhalapo pakalipano ndikudzikana nokha zinthu zochepa zokondweretsa, kukhala muchisangalalo, komanso osathamangitsa zomwe zikuchitika padziko lonse lapansi.

Pali lingaliro lakuti zolinga zochepa zimene mumakhala nazo pamoyo, mumakhala osangalala kwambiri. Mkhalidwe wa mpikisano wothamanga, yemwe ali mofulumira, wamphamvu, wochenjera, wopepuka, wochenjera ndipo yemwe amapita ku masewera olimbitsa thupi nthawi zambiri amapulumuka. Chifukwa cha kulimbana kumeneku kwanthaŵi zonse, asayansi atsimikiza kuti kuchokera pa izi, akaziwo sakhala osangalala kwambiri. Mungalandire ndalama zambiri kuposa abwenzi anu aakazi, koma simungakhale olemera kwa mkazi wa oligarch ndipo izi zimapangitsa mkazi kuvutika maganizo.

Ngati nthawi zonse mutha kukwaniritsa zolinga zakumwamba ndikukhalabe osasangalala ndi zotsatira, ndiye kuti sangathe kukhala wosangalala. Khama ili pa zolinga zake ndilo khalidwe losangalatsa, koma likulepheretsa kusangalala ndi zomwe zilipo. Anthu okondwa kwambiri ndi omwe ali mu bizinesi yawo yomwe amalikonda kwambiri ndipo amalandira zokhutira ndi bizinesi ili.

Akatswiri ambiri amalingaliro a zamaganizo amalangiza, ngakhale kamodzi pa mwezi kukhala tsiku limodzi ndipo musayese kudzikana nokha zosangalatsa, chifukwa ndiye mudzadandaula. Amalangizanso kuti asachite nsanje ndi nyenyezi zosiyana, chifukwa anthu akuyang'ana nyenyezi ndikudzifanizira okha, amatha kukhala ngati opemphapempha, mafuta komanso osasangalala. Ndi chifukwa chake ife tiri ndi chidwi ndi moyo wa nyenyezi, kuti titsimikizire kuti nyenyezi zonse ziwiri ziri ndi zofooka ndipo potero zimakhala zokhutira.

Pali malamulo 4 kuti akhale osangalala:

1. Muzichitira bwino abwenzi anu ndi banja lanu ndipo musawaletse;
2. Yesetsani kupeza ntchito yomwe imakupatsani chisangalalo;
3. Thandizani omwe ali m'mavuto;
4. Musaiwale kuti anthu osangalala alibe kanthu.

Julia Sobolevskaya , makamaka pa malowa