Pezani maphikidwe a chisangalalo cha amayi

Mtsikana aliyense amalota kuti akhale ndi moyo wosangalala. Koma chifukwa cha ichi muyenera kudziwa malamulo oyambirira ndi malamulo ofunika. Kodi angamvetsetse bwanji? Kodi mungasangalale bwanji? Poyamba ndi funso lafilosofi. Ndipo yankho liyenera kukhala lofanana. Koma izi siziri choncho. Yankho la funsoli ndi lalifupi komanso losavuta. Chimwemwe mu moyo wa munthu sichichokera kunja, koma kuchokera mkati. Munthu wokondwa akhoza kuchita yekha, osati makhalidwe ena abwino. Galimoto yokhayokha, chakudya chamadzulo pa lesitilanti, chovala, zisumbu za Caribbean sizidzakuthandizani kukhala osangalala.
Moyo wapamwamba - izi, ndithudi, ziri bwino, koma zimangotanthauza gulu lazinthu. Ndipo chimwemwe chiri cha gulu la kulumikiza konse. Chuma chidzayamba kukhala chizoloŵezi, koma sichidzabweretsa mtendere wamumtima. Nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta. Pakati pa akazi olemera pali anthu ambiri osauka, oposa osauka. Musasirire chuma chawo. Kumbukirani kuti nokha ndiwe amene amachititsa kuti mukhale osangalala, osati zinthu zomwe zikukuzungulirani kapena anthu oyandikana nawo. Ndipo kukutetezani kuti musakhale wosangalala, palibe ndipo palibe chomwe chingathe.

Kodi ndi njira iti yomwe chimwemwe chimabwera kwa ife?
Njira yaikulu ndi ntchito mkati. Mkhalidwe "chirichonse chiri choipa" kapena "chirichonse chiri chabwino" ndi chipatso cha ntchito ya chidziwitso chanu, ndipo chiripo mumutu mwanu. Pazovuta zonse pamoyo, nthawizonse mumakhala njira yotuluka. Ndipo kuthetsa ntchito kudzakuthandizani kuti mukule bwino. Nthaŵi zambiri, zoipa zimatembenuka kukhala zabwino. Ndipo ndani adanena kuti ndinu wolephera? Ndi malingaliro anga okha. Ngakhale mawu a alendo angakukhudzeni ngati muwafotokozera tanthawuzo.

Sungani malingaliro anu. Ndiwo fungulo limene lingatsegule zitseko za kulemera kwanu m'mbali zonse za moyo. Muyenera kugwiritsira ntchito malingaliro anu, chifukwa ichi ndi chida chodabwitsa kwambiri! Nthawi zonse dzidziwe nokha kuti ndiwe wopambana, wanzeru, wokongola komanso wokondwa. Ndipo mwamsanga mudzawona zotsatira zabwino.

Koma malingaliro amodzi okha omwe angapeze mgwirizano m'moyo sali okwanira. Ndikofunika kulimbikitsa maganizo anu pa inu nokha ndi chikondi. Apo ayi, palibe chomwe chidzabwere. Chikondi chosayenerera ndi mphamvu yomwe ingakuthandizeni kuona chuma chanu chamkati. Kutsutsa chikondi kungangowononga.

Dziyang'anire nokha mosamala, usadzifanizire nokha ndi ena, musapikisane. Pambuyo pa zonse, aliyense amayenda m'njira yake ya moyo. Pitani ndi ulemu. Kumbukirani kuti ndinu osiyana. Simuli oipitsitsa kuposa ena, koma osati bwino.

Nthawi zonse muziganiza moyenera. Izi zidzasunga moyo wabwino. Ganizirani pa nthawi zosangalatsa, mosasamala kanthu zomwe zikuchitika kuzungulira. Fufuzani mtengo wanu wowala, chifukwa palibe mdima wamtheradi.

Mu nthawi zovuta, aitaneni anzanu, ganizirani za maloto anu, mvetserani nyimbo zabwino - ndizo zonse zomwe mungasangalale nazo. Kanthawi, kukhumudwa kudzatha ngati simukuganiza za izo. Kukhazikitsa ndi kusangalala ndi cholinga chachikulu! Pamene abadwa, anthu onse amasangalala. Koma aliyense amasankha njira yowonjezera payekha. Ena amafuna chuma, ndipo ena samatero. Amene angakhale ali kwa inu.

Zikomo
Panjira yopita ku chimwemwe, sitiyenera kuiwala za kuyamikira. Ndi amphamvu. Aliyense adzapeza chifukwa cha kuyamikira. Zindikirani zinthu zazing'ono ndikuwathokoza chifukwa cha moyo. Posachedwapa mudzatha kunena mawu oyamikira komanso zinthu zabwino. Anthu okondwa nthawi zonse amasangalala ndi chilichonse.

Nthawi zazikulu za moyo wachimwemwe:
Kusunga malangizowo kudzakuthandizani kuti mukwaniritse maloto okondedwa ndi chimwemwe chokhutira:

• Ndiwe mbuye wa moyo wanu, kutanthauza chimwemwe.
• Chithunzi chanu ndi zotsatira za ntchito ya chidziwitso. Mothandizidwa ndi zikhulupiliro zatsopano, mukhoza kusintha izo nthawi iliyonse.
• Dzikondeni nokha popanda zoletsedwa.
• Musadzifanizire nokha ndi anthu oyandikana nawo ndi kupambana kwawo m'moyo.
• Khalani ndi chisangalalo chabwino komanso mzimu wolimbikitsidwa. Chimwemwe chimabwera kwa anthu abwino okha.
  

Thokozani moyo ngakhale mphatso zazing'ono, kuti mupindule kwambiri. Ngati mumvetsetsa moyo, ndiye kuti adzakuyankhani chimodzimodzi. Kukhala wosangalala kapena wosasangalala ndi kusankha kwanu, osati chiwonongeko kapena chiwonongeko.

Inde, njirayi ndi yovuta kwambiri. Amafuna ntchito yodalirika komanso yaikulu. Koma ntchitoyi idzabweretsa chimwemwe chanu!