Chotsatira chimatsogolera kumvera ndi kukokera osamvera

Ngozi ndizowonetseratu zam'tsogolo. Izi ndi zokhazokha, poyamba, maganizo athu a mawonekedwewo ndiwotsiriza. Palinso mwambi wotero: Tsogolo limatsogolere kugonjera ndikukantha osamvera. Izi ndi za aliyense wa ife. Chisankho chosankha sikuti chimangoganizira moyo wathu wokha ayi, komanso chikhalidwe chathu. Izi zisanachitike, mayi akhoza kubereka ana, kuchita ntchito yonse kuzungulira nyumba komanso osaganizira za tsogolo lawo. Mkazi wa "kunyumba" sanalemekezedwe mofanana ndi "nambalaashashnuyu." Maphunziro, sayansi, "kuika buluu." Ntchito, ntchito, "wamkulu wansalu." Za ntchito ya usilikali kapena ndale ndipo sankayenera kunena. Tsopano chifukwa cha zochitika zokondweretsa, timafunikira maso ndi maso. Nthawi zina ndizokhazikitsa zomwe timachita m'zaka makumi angapo zikubwera, zomwe timakhulupirira.

Kotero, mwachitsanzo, kusasunthika kunanditsogolera kuti ndidzipange. Sizongopanda kanthu zomwe iwo amakamba za tsogolo: amatsogolera omvera ndi kuwakokera osamvera. Ngati chinachake chimasintha mmoyo wanu - mwina muzipereka, kapena "kukukoka". Zoonadi, izi sizikutanthauza kuti tiyenera kuvomereza zovuta. Monga lamulo, tsogolo lathu ndi lotani, lovuta kwambiri kuposa lomwe liripo tsopano.

Ching'onozing'ono - ndipo ziri kwa iwe kusankha, kusonkhanitsa mphamvu ndi "kulumpha", kapena kukhala pomwe iwe uli.

Nanga bwanji ngati ntchito yanga yomwe ndimakonda siibweretsa ndalama? Sungani ndi kuyembekezera "nyengo panyanja", kudandaula za abwenzi achilendo ndi achibale amene amavutika kupeza malumikizano abwino? Zomwe ndikukumana nazo zikusonyeza kuti nthawi zina ndibwino kukhulupirira dziko ndikuzindikira mwayi umene umapereka.

Katswiri wachinyamata ndi manyazi. Izi ndizoipa kuposa mtundu wa ng'ombe. Nyama, makamaka, ili ndi ntchito, yoperekedwa mwachilengedwe, yomwe idzachita. Ndipo munthu ndi wovuta kwambiri.

Ntchito ya amayi "yachibadwa" ndiyo kukwatira bwino, yunivesite (kwa amuna, ndithudi, yosalemekeza kwenikweni, koma mungapezenso mkazi wamasiye wolemera) si njira yabwino yopezera. Zimaphatikizapo kudzidalira, kutsika mwachindunji malo ofunira.

Monga katswiri wachinyamata, ndimatha kudalira malipiro a ndalama 100 pamwezi. Anadziwanso, kuti bwenzi langa lowala mwezi "kwinakwake, pa intaneti". Ndinapita kusinthanitsa kachitsulo ka freelance mu runet, ndikuyang'ana, sindinamvetse kalikonse ndipo ndatuluka.

Kenaka chinachake chinachitika kuti ndikanatcha "mwayi wabwino". Pamene ndinaganiza za komwe ndingapite kukamaliza ntchito yolemetsa kunyumba yosindikizira, ndinayankha mafunsowa ndipo ndinayankha mosangalala. Ndipo-pafupi chozizwitsa! - anandiitana ndipo anandiitana kuti ndifunse mafunso. Kusankha chomwecho sichidzaseka, ndikukumbukira kuti amatsogolere kugonjera, koma amakokera osamvera, ndinakonzekera ndi mzimu ndikupita kukafunsana.

Chifukwa chake, mayesero a chidziwitso changa ndi luso langa anachitidwa ndi mtsikana wa ku yunivesite, koma zaka ziwiri zachinyamata. Zinali zovuta pansi pa lamba, koma ndinapirira ndikudziwonetsa ndekha kuti ndine munthu wabwino. Zotsatira zake, ndinakhala mwezi umodzi ndikugwira ntchito ndalama zokwana 100, ndipo kwa sabata ndi theka ndimagwira ntchito yamagazini yofiira, ndikupeza katatu.

Kenaka ndinaganiza za ntchito yanga yabwino. Izi "zitsimikizo" pa malo apamwamba a ntchito ndi nthano. Palibe iwo kwenikweni. Ndipo ngati wina abwera yemwe akufuna kuchita ntchito yomweyo, koma ngakhale wotchipa kusiyana ndi ine - ndiyenera "kupita patsogolo." Komanso, pali dzina lotero - BDB. Nthawi zambiri matenda aakulu. Iwo samasungidwa kuntchito, kuwombera pa mwayi woyamba. Ndipo pali mwayi - padzakhala chikhumbo.

Chitsimikizo chokha chomwe munthu aliyense ali nacho ndi manja ake ndi mutu wake. Ndipo kutha, monga mukudziwira, kumatsogolera ndikugonjera osamvera. Choncho, nthawi zina palinso zovuta, zomwe zimakhala zosavuta "kudumpha" kuposa, Tsoka, kukoka pamodzi ndi kukokera ...

Ndi lingaliro lotani limene lingatenge kuchokera ku nkhaniyi? Inde, zilizonse.

Zomwe zimatsimikizira kuti zolondola ndi zoona. Pambuyo pake, nthawi zina zochitika zochepa kapena zovuta kuti munthu alandire ndi zokwanira kuti munthu awononge bulu kuchokera ku sofa ndikudzipangira yekha. Mwachitsanzo, iye anayamba freelancing, ndipo sanatenge madzulo pamaso pa TV, "kupumula" kuchokera ku ntchito za olungama.

Podziwa kuti ndiwe wofunikira, komabe, kuyesetsa zambiri ndi zabwino komanso zabwino. "Kupanga miyezi miyezi kumapeto kwa chaka" ndi nsonga. Ndipo phunzirani momwe mungapezereko theka kapena kawiri kawiri, dzipatseni malaya amoto, makina ochapa, kapena kuti mutha kukwanitsa olembetsa mu spa kwa chaka - izi ndi zoyenera kale. Ndikofunika kuzindikira "zinthu zochepa" izi zomwe sizikanakhala popanda khama lanu.

Mwinamwake, iyi ndi yankho lofunika kwambiri. Ndipo sipadzakhala loto lalikulu lopanga mawebusaiti ambiri, kulandira iwo, mosasamala makasitomala, ngati panalibe ntchito yoyambayo ...

Zambiri mwa moyo zimadalira kumvera kumapeto kwanu, ndi zochepa bwanji - kuchokera kupirira pakugonjetsa zopinga za konkire!