Tsiku lililonse mumabwera kunyumba kuchokera kuntchito ndipo, mutsegula chitseko cha nyumba yanu, mumangokhala ndi manja osiyanasiyana. Kwenikweni, nthawi zonse ndi chinthu chomwecho: chisokonezo chonse chiri pafupi, chirichonse chimabalalitsidwa, paliponse palibe phulusa laling'ono, komanso kuchokera ku vase yomwe mukuyang'ana maluwa owuma, omwe kwa nthawi yaitali sangathe kutulutsidwa kunja kwa nyumbayo. Mu mau, ndibwino kuti musayang'ane kwina kulikonse. Ndipo mulibe mphamvu kuti mupite ku bwalo lamapando, mutayang'ana pozungulira popanda kuyang'ana mosangalatsa chipinda chonsecho, mosadziwa muzindikira kuti muyenera kumvetsa zonsezi. Koma, mwatsoka, izi zonse zikubwereza tsiku ndi tsiku ndipo sizibweretsa zotsatira. Chithunzi cha moyo chimenechi ndi chodziwika kwa amayi ambiri omwe samatha kumvetsa chifukwa chake izi zili choncho. Koma muzochitika izi musayambe osati ndi kuyeretsa nyumba, koma ndi nokha. Tiyeni tiyesere kuyankha funsoli: "Momwe mungadziwire nokha, mumvetse zomwe ndikufuna? ".
Ngati mukufuna dongosolo lathunthu, yambani nokha
Ngati nyumbayo ili nyansi, kumbukirani zomwe zimatanthauza mu moyo wanu chimodzimodzi. Chirichonse chimachokera kumeneko. Choncho, kumvetsetsa ndi kumvetsetsa zomwe zikuchitika, choyamba, ndi moyo wanu. Apa, pokha ndi wekha ndi dziko lanu lamkati tidzayamba.
Nthawi zambiri, timataya mtendere wamumtima chifukwa chokangana ndi munthu wapamtima (bwenzi, wachibale, wokondedwa). Kapena chifukwa cha mikangano yosiyanasiyana, kuntchito komanso m'banja. Komanso, chirichonse pano, mungathe kukhala osasinthasintha nthawi zonse. Ndipotu, mukufuna kusintha chirichonse, koma osati mwa mphamvu. Tsopano, inu mukuyang'ana pa chirichonse chimene chikuchitika ndi kunyansi, nthawizonse mumadzilanga nokha chifukwa cha izo. Matenda mu thumba la ndalama, kunyumba, pa desktop, apa ndilo, chizindikiro chachikulu chomwe chimanena kuti simuyenera kudzikonda nokha. Koma pano, siziri za inu nkomwe. Muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti kuponderezana maganizo ndi kusowa mphamvu, kumaphatikizapo kusowa kwa thupi, kuphatikizapo, komanso. Choncho, kuika zonse pamalo ake, muyenera kumvetsetsa nokha ndikudziyankhira funso ili: "Kodi ndimvetsetsa bwanji zomwe ndikufuna pamoyo wanga? ". Kuyeretsa m'nyumba kulibe kanthu, poyerekeza ndi kudziyesa mkati mwako.
Perekani ngongole zanu - ndipo moyo udzasintha
Ngati simupereka kwa mnansi wanu mkati mwa miyezi iwiri, munabwereka ruble 100, ndizo zabwino. Pano iwe umangopatsa mphindi imodzi ndikubweretsa ku ndalama. Koma pali ngongole zomwe ife timapanga. Ngongole zimenezi zimatha kuwonjezeka ndi kutikakamiza kuti tikhale ndi makhalidwe abwino. Chitsanzo cha ngongoleyo ikhoza kukhala, mwachitsanzo, kukhumba kwanu kwa miyezi ingapo kuti mukachezere wachibale wanu wakutali kapena muitane mnzanu. Ndipo, monga mwayi ukanakhala nawo, simungathe kupereka nthawi ya bizinesi ili. Koma amayembekezera kuti ndikukuyembekezerani. Ndipo simunapezepo zifukwa zoti musamachite. Ndipo mwa njira, ngati mutasungidwa ndi chikumbutso, inunso muli ndi chifukwa chotero. Woganiza, koma osati woona. Pambuyo pake, zimakuluma kwambiri ndipo zimakupangitsani kukhala osakayikira, chifukwa mumawalemekeza ndi kuwakonda, koma simungasinthe chilichonse, kapena kuti simukuchifuna. Ndipo pano mu moyo wa aliyense wa ife, kuphatikiza pa chirichonse, pali malo omwe ngakhale "mapazi okhawo samapita," koma, ndi koyenera kupita. Mwachitsanzo, ofesi ya pasipoti kapena ofesi yothandizira. Mabungwe awa samabweretsa zochitika zamtundu uliwonse kuchokera ku ulendo wawo, koma kubwezeretsa ulendowu kumbali yakutali sizothandiza. Apo ayi, izo zingabweretse mavuto ambiri ndikusautsa m'tsogolomu.
Choyamba khalani pansi ndikuganiziranso chifukwa chake simunachite kale. Ngati ndi nkhani ya kusokonekera kwanu, khalani ndi ndondomeko ya tsiku ndi tsiku, koma ngati simukufuna, fufuzani chifukwa chake ndi chifukwa chake. Kenaka mutengere nokha kulamulira.
Koma ngati simukufuna kuchita chinachake osati chofunikira kwambiri, ndipo "chinachake" ichi chimakuyenderani ngati ngolo, motero ndikulemetsa moyo wanu, yesetsani kuchotsa "miyeso" yotereyi. Kumbukirani, ngati simukufuna kuchita chirichonse kapena kuchita chinachake, musamatsutse chifuniro chanu.
Musati mupite mawa kuti zichitike lero
Pali anthu omwe amachita ntchito inayake, nthawi zonse azibweretsa pamapeto. Anthu oterowo, monga lamulo, savutika ndi chikumbumtima, ndipo amakhala osowa kwambiri kuposa ena. Nanga bwanji ngati simuli a iwo? Ndipo nkhanizi, ngati "goli pamutu pako" kuti lifike kwa iwe? Ndi malonda oterewa "osathetsedwa" sakhala omasuka kwambiri kukhala ndi moyo, nthawi zonse amakokera pansi, ndipo pakapita nthawi, amawonjezerapo zambiri. Ndi mtendere wanji wa malingaliro ndi ungwiro womwe ukhoza kukhalapo wamba?
Onetsetsani kuti mutsirize bizinesi yonseyi, ndipo muiwale za iwo kamodzi. Sindifuna kuti_dzipange nokha, kapena kani kupeza zifukwa zabwino zofunira.
Kuti ndimvetse zomwe ndikufuna mothandizidwa ndi ndondomeko yomanga
Nthawi zambiri, timataya mtima chifukwa cha kusatsimikizika kwathu. Mwachitsanzo, mu moyo wa munthu aliyense, pali mndandanda wa milandu yomwe imayikidwa pansi pa zipilala ziwiri, mutu wake ndi "woyenera" ndi "wofuna." Kusakayikira uku kukugwiritsani ntchito, chifukwa simungadziwe zomwe zimayikidwa ndi "chiwerengero", koma chomwe "mukufuna". Mu vutoli, muyenera kulemba ndondomeko yowonjezereka yomwe idzakuthandizani kumvetsetsa ndi kumvetsetsa zomwe mukufuna, ndi zomwe ziyenera kuchitidwa mosalephera. Ingokhala pansi ndikuganiza bwino. Kumbukirani kuti ngati mumvetsetsa zomwe mukufuna, zidzakuthandizani kuti muzitha kuchita zomwe mukufunikira. Ndipotu, nthawi zonse zimatheka kukwaniritsa zofunikirako pokhapokha pozindikira chinthu china chilichonse. Mwachitsanzo, mukufuna chisanu mu nyumba - muyenera kukonzanso. Apa pali, lamulo loyamba la chiyanjano chamkati pakati pa zilakolako zathu ndi zochitika zathu. Musanyalanyaze izi ndi kuzidutsa nokha. Kumbukirani kuti moyo ukhoza kukhala womasuka, pokhapokha ngati mutatha kudziwa nokha ndi zomwe mukuyembekeza nokha komanso moyo wanu wonse. Tikukhumba kuti mudzidziwe nokha ndikugwiritsira ntchito "kufuna" kwanu, popanda "sindingathe"!