Sungani!
Monga mu nkhani ina iliyonse, lingaliro loyambirira, lingaliro, ndi lofunika apa. Polankhula za fano latsopano, simungaganizire zobvala zatsopano, tsitsi komanso maonekedwe. Tiyenera kuchitira izi monga kulenga chikhalidwe chatsopano, kuganizira kudzera mwazochita, zochita, makhalidwe, khalidwe, khalidwe la moyo. Ntchito yopweteka imeneyi, yomwe siimapangitsa kukangana. Mukhoza kuganiza mpaka makona onse atatha, mpaka chithunzichi chikusiya kufinya ndi kusamba. Mukamamvana bwino ndi umunthu, ntchitoyo ikhoza kuonedwa kuti ndi yangwiro.
Ndikofunika kuti munthu watsopanoyu asakhale wina mask. Ziyenera kukhala zamoyo, umunthu, kusintha, zowonjezera, osati chishango kuchokera kuzinthu ndi mantha.
Kuwonetseratu.
Kugwiritsa ntchito njira yatsopano sikuli kosavuta, ziribe kanthu kukongola kwake. Pamapeto pake - chikhalidwe chakale sichifulumira kusiya maudindo. Choncho ndikofunikira kuti muwone dziko lapansi m'njira yatsopano, kuti muyang'ane nokha ndi maso atsopano.
Dziwone nokha kuchokera kunja kumalo ozungulira. Kodi ndiwe woyenera bwanji ku fano lomwe limakhalapo kale m'maganizo? Ngati chinachake chikuwoneka kuti sichikwanira, ngati mulibe mgwirizano wokwanira, muyenera kuyesa. Yambani kukonzanso danga la munthu watsopano. Khoma laofesi losautsa likhoza kukongoletsedwa ndi chokopa chowala kapena chithunzi cholimba, malingana ndi mtundu wanji wa zokonda za umunthu wanu watsopano.
Ndikofunika komanso panyumba kupanga zinthu zomwe zingakutsatireni 2.0, osasiya kanthu ka munthu wakale. Zomwe timawona tsiku ndi tsiku, danga limene timakhala nthawi zambiri, zimatikhudza. Choncho, ndikofunika kupuma moyo watsopano mkati, ndikuwonetsa zizolowezi zatsopano ndi zokonda.
Kuphatikizanso, zambiri mwa zomwe zikukuzungulira, zidzathandiza ena kuzindikira kusintha kwanu ndikuphunzira kulongosola njira zatsopano.
Osati masewera, koma chenicheni.
Poyamba ntchito yotereyi idzawoneka ngati yopusa. Koma kuti munthu watsopano akhale ndi moyo ndikhale weniweni, sichiyenera kusewera, iwe umayenera kukhala. Zomwe mudakonda kale ndi zokonda zanu zakhala zikukhudza moyo, tsopano ndi nthawi yomasula maganizo atsopano pa chifuniro. Dziwonetseni nokha mwatsopano muzonse, osakhala wamanyazi: kuntchito, kunyumba, pa tchuthi ndi nokha ndiwekha.
Musayese kusintha kwathunthu, ngati zonse mungathe kuchita ndikusintha mawonekedwe ndikukonzekera m'nyumba. Poyesera kukhala munthu wina, muyenera kumakhala iye, komanso kuti musamawonekere, muzochitika zina zonse mukumva kuti ndi zowawa.
Pamene simukuyenera kutsanzira wina, ndi bwino kupanga chifaniziro, kugwiritsira ntchito bwino anthu ndi zilembo zomwe mumaganiza kuti ndizofunikira ulemu.
Anthu nthawi zambiri amaganizira za kuti umunthu weniweniwo umalemetsa kwambiri. Kuthana ndi zodandaula zakale, zolephereka, ntchito zolakwika, njira yoganiza ndi malingaliro, zomwe zimangowonjezera chimwemwe. Ndipo pambuyo pa zonse, ife tiribe wina pafupi kuposa ife, ife tiyenera kukhala othandizira okhulupirika kwambiri kwa ifeeni. Choncho, ndizodabwitsa kwambiri kuti ambiri amakhala, akukumana ndi mavuto, koma osayesa kusintha. Moyo uwu si wabwino mwa inertia. Musawope kusintha, taganizani kuti kusintha nokha ndi manja anu ndi chinthu cholakwika. Koma ndizosangalatsa kwambiri kuposa, monga chitsanzo, kusintha kosapeŵeka potsutsidwa ndi zochitika zamphamvu, zomwe sizikhala zabwino nthaŵi zonse.
Kuwonjezera apo, kusintha kwa umunthu - ichi ndi chifukwa chabwino chochotsera zizoloŵezi zoipa ndi zizoloŵezi, kusintha khalidwe ndi maganizo kwa moyo ndi okondedwa. Zingakhale kuti kuikidwa kotereku kwa chithunzi chatsopano kudzakhala chiyambi cha moyo watsopano wodala. Mulimonsemo, ndibwino kuti pakhale chiopsezo, chifukwa mutha kusintha nthawi zambiri, umunthu wakale utangotayika.