Mu moyo wa munthu aliyense muli zaka zambiri. Timaphunzira, kugwa m'chikondi, kumanga maubwenzi ndi kuthandizira "banja" lathu - maubwenzi amtundu wa mibadwo yambiri. Koma chitsanzo choyambirira cha moyo "unyamata - unyamata - mwa anthu - banja - ukalamba" ndi woyenera kwa amuna okha. Mkaziyo ali ndi zaka zake zamaganizo, ndi gawo lililonse mu moyo wake wangwiro, njira ya chitukuko imadalira zifukwa zambiri.
Kupititsa patsogolo kwa amayi komanso kudutsa miyendo yosiyanasiyana ya moyo, zochitika, zimangogwirizana ndi moyo wake, ndipo maganizo ake a msinkhu akuwonetsa chiyembekezo chake ndi zolinga zake. Mzimayi ali ndi nthawi yapadera "yapaderadera", yomwe yawonetsera malire.
Pali zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri, zosavuta kusintha moyo wa moyo wa munthu, kuwuza zambiri za msinkhu wa mkazi. "Kulemba" kwake kumachitika ndi zikhalidwe zosiyanasiyana. Koma chinthu chimodzi ndi chimodzimodzi - kuti "matsenga" nambala 7 ikuwonetsera malire a zaka bwino.
- Kwa zaka 7 ndi mwana ,
- Kufikira 14 - mtsikana ,
- Mpaka 21 - mtsikana ,
- Mpaka 28 - wankhondo ,
- Kufikira 35 - amayi ,
- Mpakana 42 - mkazi ,
- Kufikira 49 - mkazi ,
- Kufikira 56 ndi kupitirira ndi nzeru .
Komanso, ena amanena kuti zochitikazo zimabwerezedwa, pamene ena amanena kuti ali ndi zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri mkazi amatha kuphunzira mu Insight nzeru ndipo akhoza kukhala "mkazi wakale wa mtundu", ndi mawu a Nature mwini kapena ayi. Ndipo tsopano tiyeni tiyankhule za maganizo a zaka za akazi ndi moyo wathunthu wa chitukuko cha umunthu pang'ono.
Kuyambira ali ndi zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri zokha , mwamuna wamng'ono "amakhala wopanda mtsikana" amakhala msungwana, amamva kuti ndi wokondedwa wake, ngakhale kuti zizindikiro zoyamba za "zina" zimayikidwa zaka zisanu. Ndipo ndi 14 - lingaliro la zofuna zawo za uzimu, ndi nthawi yokhala m'chikondi ndi kutuluka kwa maganizo amphamvu.
Kuyambira ali ndi zaka 21 wayamba nthawi yatsopano. Msungwana yemwe poyamba adayamba kumverera ndi kuphunzira dziko la mkati amayamba chidwi ndi dziko lakunja. Mng'ombe-Diane, wankhondo, kuyesa dzanja lake mudziko lenileni ndikukhudzidwa ndi chirichonse - uyu ndi mtsikana wosakwanitsa zaka 28. Kupambana koyamba kumalimbikitsa, mabala oyambirira amakupangitsani kuganiza.
Ndipo tsopano, kwa zaka 28 msungwanayo amabwera ndi katundu wolimba. Ndipo ngakhale atakwatirana ndi zaka 20, ndiye kuti ali ndi zaka makumi awiri ndi zisanu ndi ziwiri zokha, mtsikanayo akufika ku msinkhu wa ubale wathanzi komanso ubale - uwu ndiwo moyo wa munthu. Ndipo mwa ichi pali chinachake choyenera - kungokhala ndi chidziwitso chokha, n'zotheka kupereka chofunikira kwa mbadwo wotsatira.
Kufikira 35 mkazi amasangalala ndi umayi komanso kumanga "malo", ulesi, njira ya moyo ndi "selo yake". Koma pofika pafupi ndi chochitika chotsatira, adapeza kuti palinso zofuna zina. Ndipo onse omwe analipo kale - banja, nyumba, khola komanso ntchito yabwino - inali chipolopolo chotetezera, chomwe chinali chotheka kubisala ku mavuto ndi kuchita zachibadwa kwa mkazi - kubadwa ndi kulera ana.
Ndili ndi zaka 35-42 zomwe amai amawongolera malo awo, kusintha malo awo antchito komanso ngakhale mabanja awo - kwambiri pa nthawi ino ndikumverera kuti zonse ziyenera kuchitidwa mwatsopano. Ndipo makamaka - njira yabwino, chifukwa simudzakhala ndi nthawi yosintha ...
Pakati pa zaka 42-47, mkazi amalephera kukhala wosungulumwa komanso udindo wa "kusudzulana," kapena ali ndi chikhulupiriro m'banja lake. Ndi kwa nthawi ino kuti lingaliro lakuti "mkazi" limagwiritsidwa ntchito kwambiri - zedi za yemwe iye ali, zomwe iye angathe komanso muzinthu zina zambiri. Zabwino zimakhala zowonjezereka, mphamvu zamaganizo ndi mwayi - nayenso, koma kutha kwa thupi sikumamvekanso kwambiri. Pakutha pa nthawiyi, mkaziyo akudzifunsanso funso la sacrament "Ndine ndani," "Chifukwa chiyani ndiri pano," "Kuchokera pati" ...
Ndipo tsopano awa si mafunso enieni omwe anyamata kapena atsikana amkhondo omwe agonjetsa dziko akudzifunsa okha - uwu ndi ulendo wowona mwa iweeni. Iye potsiriza amawoneka kuphompho omwe amatsegula pamaso pa aliyense. Kuyankhulana uku ndi kwamuyaya kumalonjeza kubwereranso ku zofuna zawo ndikukhala moyo wa ana, zidzukulu, zidzukulu ... kapena nzeru yeniyeni, yomwe imatha zaka 56 .
Maganizo onse a msinkhu, chikhalidwe chokwanira cha moyo wa munthu kuchokera pachiyambi mpaka kuuzimu mopanda malire, ndi, ndithudi, chokhazikika. Ali ndi malo komanso kusiyana pakati pa zaka 2-3, ndi zolakwika zenizeni - pamene uyu kapena munthuyo "atakanikizika" pa siteji imodzi kapena mwadzidzidzi akubwerera kumbuyo kozungulira. Koma "chisokonezo" chiri chonse ngakhale cha dongosolo la moyo lokhazikika likuwonekabe chachilendo.
Mtsikana "wokongola kwambiri" mu zaka 45 mpaka 50, akuponya maso ngati mtsikana wamng'ono, wodziwa bwino mtsikana wadziko lonse, kapena wosakwatiwa, mayi wamng'ono akuponya manja, kupereka uphungu, wopanda nzeru zokwanira - ndizovuta kumvetsa. Ndipo mulole mosamvetsetsa, osamvetsetsa chifukwa, koma ena akudodometsa - zingatheke motani? Chifukwa chake musadzithamangire nokha, kukula pamene mukufuna moyo. Ndipotu palibe amene angakhale ndi moyo chifukwa cha inu - ngakhale achibale kapena abwenzi, kapena "anthu".