Chilengedwe sichikhoza kukhala anthu aluso okha ojambula: oimba, osewera kapena ojambula, komanso oimira ntchito zonse. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, kuganiza moyenera ndi kofunikira pazochitika zosiyanasiyana za moyo. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri cha chilengedwe ndi malingaliro. Chimodzi mwa luso la kulenga ndi losawerengeka, koma gawo lalikulu lazikonzedweratu ndi ntchito ndi chidziwitso. Mphamvu za kulenga zimapindula nthawi zonse ngati munthu amaphunzitsa deta yake yapadera.
Kulingalira ndi mtundu wa kuyesa kwa munthu aliyense pogwiritsa ntchito malingaliro abwino ndi zamalingaliro. Pa ntchito yolenga, njira zingapo zovuta kuganiza zimapezeka, koma munthu sazindikira izi, chifukwa ubongo wake ukhoza kuzindikira ndi kuzindikira lingaliro lokha komanso lingaliro lokha.
Pali njira zambiri zomwe zimalimbikitsa chidziwitso. Kawirikawiri munthu samaganiza kuti ali ndi luso lanji. Kaŵirikaŵiri, pakuzindikira kwawo kungathandize chithandizo, zochitika zachilendo kapena zimatengera moyo wonse. Choncho, sizowonongeka pachabe, kuyambira msinkhu wochepa, kulimbikitsa mwana kutenga nawo mbali m'magulu osiyanasiyana, mpikisano, zochitika zomwe zimapangitsa kuzindikira matalente.
Munthu wogwira ntchito ndi wokonzanso nthawi zambiri amamvetsa kuti ndi kosavuta kuti apereke, amapereka chisangalalo chochuluka ndipo amayamba chidwi nacho. Mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya luso ndi luso lingaphunzire nthawi yawo yopanda malire m'magulu, magulu. Komabe, mungayesetse kuphunzira momwe mungapangire miphika ku dothi, kujambula, kujambula, kuyimba ndi kusewera, kukonzekera, ntchito zapakhomo, kapena kuphunzira chinenero china.
Mabungwe oyendera maulendo akupereka mwayi wopuma maulendo. Uwu ndiwo njira yowonjezera yopangidwira. Pankhaniyi, ulendo wapadera ndi maphunziro ndi bungwe limodzi. Othandizira mpumulo wogwira ntchito ndi wothandiza adzapindula ndi ubwino wotero. Munthu wolenga, atapeza zotsatira zodabwitsa mu gawo limodzi la moyo, amakhulupirira kuti chochitika ichi chingakhale chothandiza m'madera ena. Osokonezeka mu ntchitoyi, amazisintha ku chilengedwe chatsopano ndikuzindikira. Maganizo ndi zochita zomwe zingakuthandizeni kupanga maubwenzi ena m'moyo, kuchotsa mavuto otsala pantchito, m'banja, kulimbikitsa ntchito yatsopano.
Ngati palibe chilimbikitso ndipo palibe chomwe chimapangitsa kukula kwa luso, ndiye patapita nthawi talente imamwalira. Pankhaniyi, moyo wauzimu ndi umphaŵi, kusakhutira kumawoneka, kusinthana kwa mkati kumasweka, kukhumudwa kwa thupi kapena maganizo, kapena kukhumudwitsidwa kwathunthu ndi moyo umachitika. Chilengedwe ndi chiwonetsero cha umunthu wa munthu, samangokhalira kukondwera, koma amaperekanso kwa ena. Iye amamva kulira kwa mphamvu. Munthu yemwe ali ndi luso amatha kufotokoza bwino "I" ndikumverera, kumverera kwake kumakhala kugwirizana kwa thupi ndi moyo.
Choncho, kuyesetsa kuchita bwino ndikofunika nthawizonse, komanso nkoyenera "kuika" maluso anu mobisa. Ndiponsotu, iwo amathabe kugwira bwino.