Zomwe zilibebwino - Nthawi zovuta zimachitika pambali iliyonse. Zikuwoneka kuti mnzako Katya (yemwe akuyesa kale kavalidwe kaukwati) ndithudi sanaganizepo za kupatukana ndi chibwenzi chake. Kapena mnzanu wapamtima yemwe wangoyamba kumene chibwenzi ndi wophunzira wa sekondale sangakhale ndi chifukwa cholira pachiuno chako. Koma maubwenzi abwino kuchokera kwa anthu oipa amasiyana ndi kuti palibe mavuto kale, koma chifukwa cha mavuto onse omwe mumathetsa. Pamodzi. Kuyambira pano, kuyandikana kwenikweni kumayamba.
Khalani mu mtendere ndi bata
Poyambirira mumakonda maitanidwe awa, masewera, mafunso ... Koma apa mwafika nthawi yomwe mumangofuna kukhala nokha, kutseka foni ndikusawuza aliyense pazochita zanu. Ndipo mumasankha: osakonda! Koma palibe cholakwika ndi izi: ndizosatheka, n'zosatheka kukhala ndi munthu makumi awiri ndi anai pa tsiku! Gawo limodzi ndi mnyamata, ngati mulibe chikondi pakati panu, yesetsani kulankhula naye. Fotokozani kuti mumamukonda komanso mukufuna kukhala ndi iye, ndizovuta kuti mupirire kupsinjika koteroko. Iye sali wamtundu uliwonse, iye, kwenikweni, ndi wotopetsa ndipo ali ndi nkhawa. Koma ngati mumamuyamikira kwambiri, amamvetsa komanso amachepetsa kuwonjezereka komwe mukufuna chinachake chatsopano.
Anzanu apamtima amasintha achibwenzi kangapo pamwezi, ndipo mwakumana kale ndi munthu yemweyo chaka chachitatu. Ndipo pansi pake mumakwiyira chikondi chawo ndi mtima wawo usanafike tsiku loyamba ... Ubale sungakhoze kuzizira pa siteji "tangokumana". Moyo nthawi zonse umakula. Ubwino wa zachilendo ndizowoneka mwatsopano. Koma pali zinthu zomwe zimabwera panthawi yokha. Chikhulupiliro chenicheni, kumvetsetsa ndi mawu a theka komanso kukhudzidwa moona mtima. Ndipo kodi mukufunadi kusiya zonsezi kuti mutha kuwathandiza "kufufuza"?
Ife ndife osiyana kwambiri
Chinsinsi cha ubale wabwino sikumatha kupeza munthu woyenera, koma kuthekera kupeza munthu amene zolakwa zake mwakonzekerera. Ganizirani, kodi nkofunika kuti mugwirizane? Ndipo ngati nthawi zina amakhumudwa ndipo sagwirizana naye, kapena sakonda kupita naye kugula limodzi, kapena (kodi ndi zanu) - kodi zimapindula nazo zina zonse zabwino? Koma ngati ziri choncho, ndiye ...
Chizindikiro chofiira : koma ichi ndi chiyambi cha mapeto. Kuitana kwake kumayamba kukukwiyitsani, mumayesetsa kupewa misonkhano mwa njira iliyonse, komanso tsiku limene mumayang'ana nthawi nthawi zonse ... Izi sizikutanthauza kuti simunakondane naye pachiyambi, koma zinachitikadi: tsopano kukhalapo kwake m'moyo wanu sizimakupangitsani inu chisangalalo chiri chonse. Ndiyetu kuvomereza izi ndikusiya kunyenga iye ndi wekha, kulingalira zifukwa ("ndatopa" ndipo "lero ndi tsiku lovuta"). Pachifukwa ichi, mumusiye mnyamatayo ngati mulibe chikondi pakati panu.
Pepani chifukwa cha misonzi
Mudakhala mukuganiza zakutaya nthawi yaitali, komabe simungapange sitepe yoyamba: ndi inu adakhala wophunzira wabwino kwambiri, ndipo popanda inu adzagweranso kuntchito. Kapena amakumana ndi mavuto ndi makolo ake, ndipo mutatha kupuma iye amamva zoipa ... Musaganize kuti popanda inu iye adzatha, m'malo mwake mumadandaula nokha. Ndizomveka kwambiri kumuuza zonse monga momwe zilili. Ndi kupereka mwayi wophunzira kuthetsa mavuto awo popanda inu.
Khwerero
Nkhanza, kusakhulupirika, mabodza ... Iwe umati unakhululukira. Koma mau amkati akunena ayi. Khulupirirani ndipo musati mudzifunse nokha zosatheka: gawo lomalizira la aliyense liri nalo lake. Ubale wopanda chikhulupiriro sungathe nthawi yaitali.
Kusiyanitsa malinga ndi malamulo ndi opanda
Musadzitsutse nokha: kudzipatula sikukutanthauza kuti panalibe chikondi. Nthawi yatha. Inu munaganizira izo zonse ndipo mwazindikira kuti ndibwino kuti muzigawa. Zimakukhumudwitsani ndipo simukungomudziwitsa za chisankho chanu, komanso kuwonetseratu zonse zomwe zophika. Komabe, yesetsani kuchita mwanzeru. Choyamba, kumbukirani lamulo lalikulu: osagawanika ndi foni (SMS, "ICQ" kapena transmitter ya chibwenzi, nayonso, saloledwa). Msonkhano wokha! Chibwenzi chanu, ngakhale chakale, chiri ndi ufulu wolankhula kwenikweni. Khalani bwino mu gawo losalowerera ndale, osati kunyumba: sizikuwoneka kuti aliyense wa inu akufuna kukhala ndi mboni zosadziwika za zokambiranazo anali makolo. Chachiwiri, musayambe kukangana. Inde, lolani akuchititseni kumva zopweteka zambiri, koma tsopano ziribe kanthu. Ndibwino kuti mumuthokoze chifukwa cha zabwino zomwe zinali pakati panu. Kodi n'zovuta kupeza mawu olondola? Kenaka kumbukirani momwe anakusamalirani pa nthawi ya matenda kapena momwe adakufikirani mwadzidzidzi ndi maluwa. Iwe unali ndi ubwino wochuluka, ndipo choyipa chirichonse sichikutuluka. Koma ponena za chisankho chokhalira, lankhulani momveka bwino, kotero kuti mnyamatayu alibe chiyembekezo chonyenga cha kupitiriza. Ndipo, potsiriza, muiwale za "zonyansa". Musamamvetsere ndi abwenzi omwe akukulangizani kuti mupeze bwenzi lanu latsopano ndipo muyambe kuyambana naye pansi pazitsulo pansi pa mawindo a akale. Kodi mudzakwaniritsa chiyani? Ndikhulupirire, anthu sanaganizirepo bwino kuposa kukambirana moona mtima. Ngati mungathe kufotokoza chirichonse popanda kunyoza ndi kunyoza, ndiye kuti mulipo mwayi wochoka mwakachetechete. Ndipo ndiwothandiza.
Pambuyo pake
Musaganize kuti mukhoza kukhala mabwenzi anu apamtima. Anthu sali ma robot, kuti atseke pamsinkhu wochokera ku "chikondi" mawonekedwe kupyolera "kukhumudwa, kuchoka" / "kukhumudwa, kusiya" mawonekedwe "abwenzi amtendere." Musapemphe kwa inu nokha zosatheka: inu nonse mukusowa nthawi. Pakalipano, tenga bokosi lalikulu ndikuyika zonse zomwe zikukukumbutsani izi: kalata yoyamba ndi kuvomereza kokhudza, chimbalangondo chowombera chomwe adakupindulitsani pa paki yosangalatsa, phala la maluwa akutali ... Tengani bokosi ili kutali. Tsetsani nyimbo zanu zonse kuchokera kwa wosewera mpira, bisani zithunzizo, musinthe mawonekedwe a mawonekedwe a kompyuta yanu osankhidwa pamodzi. Muyenera kuchotsa malo omwe akukumbutsako. Musachedwe mwamsanga kukafunafuna chikondi chatsopano. Mukufuna kupuma. Kupatukana ndi vuto lalikulu la maganizo, ndipo mwachibadwa ndikumva chisoni. Palibe chifukwa chokhala ndi kumwetulira ndikudziyerekezera kuti "zonse ziri bwino!": Lolani nokha. Koma musangodzibisa nokha, ndibwino kupanga msonkhano wa abwenzi kapena kulembetsa mu dansi gawo: bizinesi yatsopano idzakupatsani mphamvu ndi chidaliro. Ndipo musadzitsutse nokha. Kulekanitsa kwanu sikukutanthauza kuti palibe chikondi, Chibwenzi china chiyenera kupulumuka zaka makumi atatu, koma mwinamwake masabata makumi atatu. Yesetsani kumukhululukira iyeyo ndi inu nokha chifukwa cholakwitsa. Mikangano yanu yonse, misonkhano, zokambirana - izi ndizofunika kwambiri, zomwe simunayamikire munthu uyu kamodzi: pakuti wina ndi mnzake akhala aphunzitsi abwino.