Ndipo pambuyo pa chisudzulo, kodi inu munaganizapo za izo? Kodi mungapitirire bwanji?
Kusudzulana kumaphatikizika ndi kuvutika maganizo, kukhumudwa ndi kukhumudwa m'moyo.
Koma, nkhani yathu idzakuphunzitsani momwe mungakhalirebe, mutatha chisudzulo.Tikufuna kukuthokozani pa chisudzulo! Funsani, izi zingatheke bwanji? Momwe mungayamikirire za chisudzulo - ngati muli ndi moyo wosweka?
Musadandaule konse . Chimene chachitika sichitha kubwezeretsedwa. Mu moyo, palibe chomwe chimangokhalapo monga choncho. Anthu sali osudzulana pokhapokha, chifukwa kutha kwa ubale wa banja kumafuna zifukwa zabwino. Inu munapulumuka mliriwu! Zikomo, ndinu heroine!
Pansi ndi malingaliro akale. Kudzizunza nokha ndi kukumbukira si chinthu choyamika chimene chingakuvulazeni. Lembani nokha bwino za tsogolo lanu - ndi lokongola komanso losasintha, ndipo likuyembekezera.
Kumbukirani: simuli wozunzidwa . Kodi mumadzimvera chisoni? Khalani achifundo pa chidole chopanda pokhala, ndikukhulupirira ine, iye ndi woipa kwambiri kuposa inu. Komabe palibe amene anamwalira chifukwa cha chisudzulo. Ndiye bwanji ngati mwamuna wanu atachoka mu banja, akukuperekani inu. Koma tsopano ndinu mfulu, Mulungu wakupulumutsani ku maubwenzi osasangalala. Ichi ndi chifukwa china chothokozani inu pa chisudzulo! Ngati muli ndi ana, ichi ndi chipulumutso chanu. Ndikhulupirire, iwo amakwiyitsidwa kwambiri ngati mayi anga nthawi zonse amapoping ndi kugwera mu kuvutika maganizo.
Zowonjezera zina za kusudzulana - mutatha kukhala osakhulupirika ndi kusweka, mwapeza chinthu chamtengo wapatali chomwe moyo ungapereke - chokumana nacho! Wakhala wamphamvu kwambiri!
Kodi mkazi amachita chiyani pambuyo pa chisudzulo?
Iye nthawizonse amafuna kulira, chifukwa iye anasiyidwa, tanthauzo la moyo lapita, iye anapeza msungwana wokongola kwambiri.
Akazi okondedwa, kudzidalira kwambiri. Aliyense wa inu ndi wapadera - kuposa momwe simungakhalire. Chowona kuti iye anapita kwa wina ndi kusankha kwake. Ndipo palibe amene ali ndi chitetezo, kuti patapita kanthawi mwamuna wanu wakale sangadandaule kuti wasiya mkazi wake.
Yang'anani mkhalidwe mosiyana. Zikondwerezeni nokha ndi chisudzulo, chifukwa nthawi yochuluka yomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito pa munthu wolakwika, munthu amene simukuyenera kumuganizira.
Amayi ambiri omwe amasiyidwa amatha kubwezera mwamuna wawo wakale. Chabwino, ndi thanzi! Musangoswa malire a makhalidwe anu.
Kusudzulana ndi vuto, monga tafotokozera pamwambapa, kutayika kwa tanthauzo la moyo. Nthawi zina, mkazi amafunafuna chipulumutso mu galasi. Iye amaganiza kuti ngati amamwa kapu ya vinyo usikuuno, mtima wake umakhala bwino. Koma, uwu ndi lingaliro lolakwika limene lingathe kuwononga moyo wanu wonse.
Bwino kusonkhanitsa abwenzi anu ku klabu ya usiku. Kampani, yosangalatsa ndi yokondweretsa mpweya - idzakulimbikitsani. Mudzamasuka, mwina, kudziwerengera nokha, ndipo mukhoza kukonda amuna. Chisamaliro cha anthu ndi njira yotsimikizika kwambiri komanso yodalirika yodzikweza.
Kuti musasunge pangozi yanu, pezani zosangalatsa zanu. Zitha kukhala zosangalatsa zomwe zingathe kutengera maganizo anu onse. Kuchita chinthu chomwe mumawakonda, inu nokha simudzawona momwe malingaliro onse okhudza chisudzulo adzatha.
Dzipereke kwathunthu kuntchito. Ndizomveka bwino, mopanda kutengeka kwambiri, kuti tisamangoganizira kwambiri. Pomwepo, kuti mubwerere kunyumba, munagona popanda kuganiza, mwachibadwa komanso popanda lingaliro limodzi lokha za mwamuna kapena mkazi woyamba komanso wosungulumwa. Ntchito imakulolani kuti mumve kuti mukufunikira kwa ena.
Ndipo, pomalizira, tidzakayankha funso lanu: momwe mungayamikirire za chisudzulo. Ndi zophweka kwambiri. Tikukuthokozani chifukwa cha chisudzulo! Zikondwerero pamayambiriro a moyo watsopano. Tikuyamikira chifukwa chakuti tsopano ndinu mkazi watsopano, wanzeru komanso wamphamvu!
Chilichonse mu moyo uno muli nacho, chidzapambana ndi chirichonse! Chinthu chachikulu ndicho chipiriro ndi chipiriro!
Inu munasudzulana ndi mwamuna wanu - tsopano ndinu mfulu muzochita zanu. Dziko lonse liri patsogolo panu.