- mantha kuti ubale wanu wam'tsogolo sudzapita, monga momwe mungafunire ndiyeno mudzayambitsa ubale watsopano kuchokera pachiyambi;
- mantha kuti mumakonda kwambiri munthu, ndiyeno mumagawana naye. Pankhaniyi, muyeneranso kutenga njira yodzitetezera;
- mantha kuti iwe sungakhoze kukhala mkazi wapadera, wokondedwa ndi wofunikira kwa iye, ndipo pambuyo pa zonse, zaka zikuwombera;
- mantha mu kukhudzana ndi thupi - makamaka pamene akuuluka;
- Kuopa momwe achibale anu ndi achibale anu angayankhire ngati mwasankha.
Kuti muyambe ubale watsopano muyenera kuiwala za ubale wakale ndi mwamuna wanu wakale. Kuti muchite izi, ponyani zonse zomwe zimakumbukira ubale wanu wakale ndi munthu wakale. Mukamayiwala zonsezi, mutha kuganiza za kupanga moyo wanu bwino. Ndipo amuna amamverera ndi kuwona pamene mkazi ali wokonzekera ubale watsopano ndipo ndiye ndiye akhoza kubwera kwa inu kuti mukakomane. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amalangizani pambuyo pa mgwirizano womaliza kuyesa kusintha pang'ono pa moyo: kusintha tsitsi lanu, kusintha mawonekedwe anu a zovala, kulemba kuvina kapena kupita kuchipatala. Choncho, mwakuyiwala kwambiri mukuiwala chirichonse chogwirizana ndi munthu wanu wakale, posachedwa moyo wanu wam'tsogolo udzasintha.
Pali mantha ambiri ndi mantha, chifukwa chazimayi zomwe zimawopa kupanga chiyanjano chatsopano. Koma mantha onsewa amachokera chifukwa cha chikondi chanu chochuluka. Pambuyo pa zonse, inu, mukukwera pamasewera ogubuduza, musayembekezere kuchokera kwa mtundu uwu wakumverera kwakukulu. Pankhaniyi, mukhoza kugwa ndikudula mawondo anu. Ndipo ngati mukuwopa moyo wanu wonse, ndiye kuti mukhoza kudziletsa nokha zosangalatsa za masewera olimbitsa thupi. Mofananamo, mu ubale: mpaka mutayamba - simukudziwa.
Zowopa zanu ndi mantha zimabwera chifukwa chosowa kumvetsetsa kwa anthu komanso kuchokera ku msinkhu wa mphamvu zanu, koma zonse zimadza ndi zodziwa. Choncho, akatswiri oyenerera amalangiza kuti asapange malingaliro apadera pa zomwe ziyenera kukhala munthu wam'tsogolo komanso momwe ubale wanu uyenera kukhalira. Mayi aliyense ayenera kungoyamba kumene ndi mopanda mantha kuyambitsa chiyanjano chatsopano ndi anyamata - kupeza momwe amalingalira, maloto, chikondi, ntchito, zomwe amaopa, ndi zina zotero. Khalani okhudzidwa kwambiri komanso omvetsera polankhulana, yesetsani kuphunzira zambiri za munthu uyu. Mudzamvetsetsa izi zonse panthawi yolankhulana ndipo simukusowa kumanga mapulani alionse omwe mungakumane nawo.
Phunzirani kuyankhulana ndi amuna, funsani mafunso ambiri ndi kumvetsera, akamakuuzani chinachake - khalani omasuka komanso omasuka. Kulankhulana kumakondweretsa kale, pamene muli nokha, ndipo ndiwothandiza kwambiri kwa munthu.
Musaganize konse kuti nthawi yayitali kwambiri kuti muyambe ubale watsopano, chifukwa aliyense ali ndi chimwemwe m'dziko lino, ndipo amuna ndi abwino. Koma chifukwa cha ichi muyenera kulankhulana nthawi zonse, kupanga anzanu atsopano, ndipo nthawi zambiri kukhala achangu mu moyo.
Akazi ena amadzipachika okha ndi zinthu zosiyana, osangoganizira za ubale wawo wakale ndi munthu wanu wakale komanso za kukhazikitsidwa kwatsopano. Inde, sikuli koyipa kuchita maulendo angapo kamodzi, komabe muyenera kuyika nthawi yanu panthawi yovuta kuti mupange ubale watsopano.
Choncho, kuchokera pa zomwe tatchulazo, mfundo yaikulu ingagwirizane kuti palibe chifukwa choopa mantha atsopano. Kumbukirani za mantha anu ndi mantha anu ndipo kumbukirani kuti ngati simayesa kuyambitsa izo, ndiye kuti mudzadandaula moyo wanu wonse. Khalani okhudzidwa kwambiri, khalani ambuye wa tsogolo lanu ndipo mudzapambana!