Chilichonse chimachitika usiku, mumamva mwachizoloŵezi "pakali pano", omwe nthawi ino amatanthauza "kusalakwitsa", koma "kupumula", ndiyeno popanda pake, palibenso maulendo madzulo, palibe mmawa masana asanapite kuntchito, pamakhala chete sichimveka bwino fungo lake, limene silinayambe kuthawa m'nyumba yanu.
Ndipo simukudziwa komwe mungadziike nokha, kuyenda kuzungulira chipinda, kuyang'ana zithunzi ndikubangula, kuyikidwa mumtsamiro kapena kuyang'ana pazenera, aliyense amene mumakonda. Inu munathyola abwenzi. Inde. Koma ngakhale iye, kapena inu, mwinamwake, simukuitana wina aliyense kuti afunse momwe zinthu zilili. Ndipo palibe amene ali ndi mlandu, zimangochitika, zimadutsa chikondi, ndipo mumadziwa kuti sizingapitirizebe ngati izi, ndipo zimakupwetekani chifukwa muli mchilendo.
Pamene chibwenzi chimathera, nthawi zonse zimakhala zomvetsa chisoni komanso zokhumudwitsa, maloto ndi ziyembekezo zomwe mumazikonda kwa nthawi yaitali zikugwa. Koma moyo sumatha pamenepo. Pamapeto pake, patapita kanthawi kalonga watsopano adzabweranso, ndipo simudzakhala ndi nthawi yokha. Choncho, gwiritsani ntchito nthawiyi, musadye nthawi yopanda phindu "kudzimvera chisoni."
Kenaka muyenera kuyankha funso lakuti, "Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani?" Yankho ndilokha kuti ndikhale ndi moyo. Zopanda nzeru zomwe zapangidwa ziyenera kudzazidwa, ndipo ziri kwa inu kusankha momwe mungachitire, kuti padzakhala misonzi, kudandaula, chidani, malingaliro otsika kapena chisangalalo, zodabwitsa, zosayembekezereka zapeza zofuna zatsopano m'moyo, kuthekera kokwanira Ndizothandiza kugwiritsa ntchito mwadzidzidzi nthawi yaulere.
Kawirikawiri, patapita kanthawi kochepa pang'ono mutatha kupatukana, munthu watsopano amawonekera. Monga lamulo, maubwenzi atsopano omwe apangidwa pambuyo pa nthawi yopuma ndi yofatsa, koma ichi si chifukwa chokhalira wokhulupirika kwa munthu amene sali m'moyo wanu.
Mudzayerekeza nthawi zonse "watsopano" ndi wakale, ndipo kufanana kwake nthawi zonse kumakhala kovomerezeka ndi mbadwayo ndi yodziwika bwino, koma kale ndi mnzanu wapamtima. Komabe, simuyenera kuyika khoma pakati pa inu ndi anthu ena, ngakhale kuti khalidweli ndi loyenera, chifukwa simukufuna kumva ululu komanso kukhumudwa. Koma pambuyo pa zonse, pakakhalabe mwayi kuti watsopanoyo azikhala, mwinamwake, tsogolo lanu.
Mukhoza kulowa mu ntchitoyi. Nthawi zina mavuto amakhala opindulitsa ndipo ngati muli munthu wolenga, ndiye kuti mutatha kulemera kwanu mudzapeza kasupe wa malingaliro atsopano omwe angakuthandizeni pa ntchito yanu. Ndipo nthawi zina munthu amatha kusankha kusintha moyo wake. Palibe mgwirizano wovuta, palibe ntchito yosasangalatsa yomwe imakhala yosasangalatsa, pofufuza ntchito yatsopano ndi kuyigwiritsa ntchito idzakuchititsani kukumbukira za zomwe simunaphunzire pazomwe mumakonda.
Pamapeto pake, mungasangalale ndi kupuma kwabwino kwambiri : kukacheza ndi abwenzi, omwe adasiya kwathunthu, kuyesa maonekedwe awo, osaganizira momwe zidzakhalire, monga momwe akadakali aang'ono amagona ndi kukumbatirana (kapena kubala, yemwe, ndi chiyani choti adye), kukwatukumula, osayang'ana mmbuyo pa "theka" lake.
Kukhala nokha sikukutanthauza kuti mukukhala ndikulira misozi usiku wonse , kuti mumayang'ana ndi dyera maso kwa munthu wotsatira mukuyembekeza kuti mutha kuona. Kukhala wodalirika kumatanthauza kuyenda modzikuza pamsewu ndikusangalala ndi dzuwa; musamachite zomwe wina amakonda, koma zomwe mukufuna; musaganize za kukonzekera kwapangidwe, koma podziwa kuti panyumba mukuyembekezera maburashi ndi pepala, ndipo potsiriza mukhoza, popanda manyazi ndi wina aliyense, kuti mutenge madzulo onse popanda mantha kuwonekera zachilendo.
Pambuyo pake, pakalipano mungathe kuchita zomwe nthawi zonse mulibe nthawi yokhala ndi chiyembekezo cha latsopano chimene mukuyembekezera. Kumbukirani kuti tsiku lina chinthu chimodzi chimathera, wina akuyamba ndipo sizitenga nthawi yaitali kuyembekezera.