Kodi mungaphunzire bwanji kukonda ndi kukhululukira?

Owerenga okondedwa anga ndi owerenga mu nkhaniyi, tidzakambirana nanu za momwe mungaphunzirire kukonda ndi kukhululukira. Kodi aliyense wa ife mwina anamva kuti alibe chikondi? Ndipo aliyense ankalota za izo? Ndipo nthawi zambiri, mwinamwake, inu munaganiza, koma chifukwa chomwe ine sindimachipeza icho. Aliyense wa inu ananena mawu ngati amenewa, monga, chabwino, chifukwa chiyani ndiyenera kukhululukira? Si choncho? Ndi bwino kulingalira. Tsopano mu nkhani ino tidzakayankha mafunso onsewa.

Ndikufuna kuyamba ndi zomwe zalembedwa m'buku limodzi lopatulika: - Chimene munthu afesa, ndiye amakolola. M'mawu awa pali mayankho ambiri ku mafunso anu ambiri, owerenga okondedwa anga. Taganizirani izi, mwina simungakonde, chifukwa simunakonde munthu aliyense, ndipo ngati mumaganiza kuti mumakonda, ndiye chikondi cha egoist. Mwina simungakondedwa, chifukwa mulibe khalidwe labwino (mwa njira yomwe mumabzala mumoyo wanu).

Kodi munayamba mwazindikira kuti iwo amene amatikonda sakonda ife? Kodi mukudziwa chifukwa chake izi zili choncho? Chifukwa ndife anthu odzikonda. Chimene tikusowa ndicho chimene tikusowa. Mukudziwa, zambiri zimatanthawuza, kupanga malingaliro olimba, kupanga chisankho chokonda, ndipo pomwepo, inunso mukondedwa. Pangani chisankho chokhululukira, ndiye inu mudzakhululukidwa. Mkwiyo ndi mizu yowawa, yomwe imakupha komanso kukuponderezani, osati wolakwira. Ndipotu, nthawi zambiri wolakwirayo saganiza kuti iye, wakukhumudwitsani. Ndipo zimakhalanso kuti wolakwirayo ali ndi mtima wovuta.

Ganizirani mwachidule, kodi simunakhumudwitse pamene palibe? Ife sitiri angwiro, ndipo ndicho chifukwa chake tiyenera kuphunzira kukhululukira. Nthawi zambiri timatembenukira kwa Ambuye kuti atithandize ndikupempha chikhululuko. Ndikufuna ndikufunseni funso: - Kodi mumamuwona bwanji Mulungu? Pakuti ndithudi Mulungu mwakumvetsa kuchokera kwa inu, monga ine, onse okhululukira. Koma ngati sitingakhululukire, kodi tingathe, tikuyembekeza kuti Mulungu atikhululukira. Kotero, sindikufuna kusiya owerenga ndi owerenga mosadziwa. Khululukirani ndi kukhululukidwa. Dziwani kuti Mulungu ali ndi mphatso yayikulu kwa inu kwamuyaya.

Ambiri adzati, ndi zophweka kusiya, ndikudziwa kuti sizovuta. Koma mukudziwa kuti ndizosavuta kuti muziyang'ana nthawi zonse nokha komanso ngati kuti mulibe wina woti muzithukuta, ndipo ochimwawo samangomvetsera. Ayankhulani nawo pamene iwo alibe ngakhale nthawi yakukhumudwitsani inu. Ndipo nthawizonse muzikamba za chikondi, musazengereze kuuza munthu za chikondi. Ine sindikuyankhula za chikondi cha mwamuna kwa mkazi, koma za chikondi cha anthu onse. Ndikukuuzani nokha, ndapeza, chikondi cha Mulungu ndi chikhululuko, choncho, monga nthawi zina sikungakhale zovuta kukhululukira, ndimafuna, nthawi zonse ndimakhululukira ndipo ngati ndikukhumudwitsani ndikupempha chikhululukiro popanda kunyada.

Kodi zikutanthawuza chiyani, kunyada kwathu, ndipo ndi ndani omwe tiyenera kunyada chifukwa sitiri chomwe sitingachotse dziko lino kupatulapo mzimu wathu. Ndipo kuposa momwe ife timadyera izo? Chikondi ndi chikhululukiro, kapena mkwiyo ndi zoipa. Kuchokera pa zomwe mzimu wanu wadzala ndipo zidzatanthauza ngati mudzapeza mpumulo pambuyo pa imfa ya thupi. Ndipo moyo pambuyo pa imfa ukupitirira, koma ndikofunikira pamene udzakhala ndi iwe.

Tiyeni tikhale okonzeka mwachikondi ndi kukhululukirana ndikukhala ndi cholinga chokonda ndi kukhululukira nthawi zonse. Pambuyo pake, ngati tipanga chisankho, zidzatibweretsera ufulu. Yesetsani kukhala moyo wopanda chinyengo ndi mkwiyo, wopanda zoipa ndi nsanje, wopanda kunyada, ndi zotsutsa za mnzako. Ndipo mudzawona kuti mudzakhala osangalaladi. Ndipo kwa anthu amene akhulupirira kuti ndidzauza chipulumutso cha Ambuye: inde, ndi momwe ine ndimayesera pa Yesu, zomwe ndikukhumba nonse.

Ndikukuthokozani chifukwa cha chidwi chanu ndikuwerenga nkhaniyi ndipo ndikuyembekeza kuti zidzakupindulitsani pamoyo wanu. Ndipo mukuwoneka kuti ndizovuta kwa inu, nthawi zonse mumasankha kukonda ndi kukhululukira. Ndipo inu mudzawona kuti ndi zophweka bwanji kuti aliyense asakhale ndi mlandu pa izo. Ngati ife sitiwona kuti aliyense ali ndi ngongole yathu, ndiye ife sitidzaimba mlandu. Tiyeni tiyambe kusintha dziko kuchokera kwa ife eni, ndipo ngati mutasintha, zidzakhala chimwemwe chachikulu. Chifukwa, mwa kusintha kwanu, mudzasintha zambiri, ndipo chikondi chanu ndi chikhululukiro chanu chidzasintha dziko kuti likhale labwino. Nchifukwa chiyani dziko siliri langwiro? Chifukwa anthu adayiwala momwe angakondere ndi kukhululukira, koma momwe egoists amafunira okha, koma iwo samatero. Ndi chikondi kwa inu ndi wolemba wanu.