Amapanga zolinga, amafuna kugawana nawo chimwemwe ndi zovuta za moyo wa banja.
Koma, chaka chotsatira, pali kukangana koyambirira, kupikisana kupusa, kulimbikitsana kotani, komabe chimodzimodzi. Onse awiri amakwiya kwambiri! Chifukwa? Inde, iwo sangakumbukire tsopano! Mwina chifukwa cha kamba kapena galu, ngati panthawiyi banjali silinakhale ndi ana. Zimakhala zovuta komanso zowonjezereka kwambiri. Ndiye, ora lidutsa, ndipo akupempha chikhululukiro ... kapena wokondedwa wake amakhululukira, kapena amatenga galu / kampu, masewera okondedwa ndi kuthamanga molunjika ku ofesi yolembera kuti apereke chisudzulo. Pang'ono panthawiyi, anazindikira kuti sakufunanso kukhala mkaidi wa ubale umenewu ndikukumana ndi mavuto a moyo wa banja, omwe akuwoneka kuti adamumatira kuyambira pomwe sitimayo inaonekera pasipoti.
Nthawi imapita. Ndipo zikuwoneka kuti machitidwe onse a khoti adakonzedwa kale ndipo sangadandaule ndi chisankhocho, koma kumvetsetsa kuti ali tsopano, ngakhale pang'ono, koma amakhala wosungulumwa, mumtima mwake, akumuzunzabe. Amayamba kuganiziranso zomwe zinachitika, kubwerera kumbuyo ndikuyesa kupeza zifukwa zothetsera banja, kudzudzula yekha ndi ena. Padzafika nthawi yolindira. Iye akuwopa kusintha chirichonse mu moyo, akuyembekeza kuti mwina adzabweranso tsiku lina ndipo zonse zidzakhala monga kale. Zimaphatikizapo kukwiya, mkwiyo, mantha, ndiye zonsezi zimakhala ngati kusungulumwa kwautali.
Zitsanzo zimenezi ndi mazana, zikwi, mamiliyoni! Ndiponso zifukwa za izi. Palibe amene sangathetse banja. Nthawi zina sizingatheke kupulumutsa ukwati, koma kuthana ndi vutoli ndi kuthamangitsidwa mwamsanga m'maganizo kuli mmanja mwanu.
Osati kupotoza, ndi kusudzulana ndi kugwa kwa ziyembekezo ndi kudalira poyenderana ndi munthu wapafupi kwambiri. Ndicho chifukwa chake, maganizo oipa onsewa muyenera kuchotsa pamutu panu. Kusudzulana ndi mayesero aakulu kwambiri, komabe si mapeto a moyo, ndikumapeto kwa gawo limodzi, lomwe linakupweteketsani, linakupatsani mphamvu ndi nzeru. Ndiye ganizirani momwe mungapangire gawo lotsatira la moyo wanu kukhala wopambana. Yesetsani kutaya mtima! Kusudzulana si chifukwa chosiya kusamalira nokha ndikulira. Misozi mu malo awa ndizochitika mwachizolowezi kwa zomwe zikuchitika, simusowa kudziletsa, maganizo osadziwika amatha ndipo amachepetsa nthawi yothetsera maganizo pambuyo pa chisudzulo. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kusaleka! Choyamba, mutulutse maganizo anu mzanu wapamtima ndi zonse zomwe zikugwirizana ndi inu. Yesani kusintha fano, zamkati, mukhoza kutayira zinthu zina zomwe zikukukumbutsani zammbuyo kapena ngakhale kusamukira mumzinda wina ngati simukugwirizana ndi ana kapena maudindo ena. Kusintha kwa malo okhala kudzatsegula maubwenzi atsopano, chiyembekezo, mwayi ndi kukupulumutsani kumisonkhano yomwe mungakumane nayo ndi mwamuna wakale kapena kutsutsa maganizo a anzanu. Ngati mumvetsetsa kuti kulankhulana kosangalatsa sikungapewe, yesetsani kuyankha mafunso onse ndikukhazikitsa mayankho okwanira. Popeza mutatha kusudzulana mumasamala, ngakhale anthu omwe sanafune chidwi ndi moyo wanu kale. Mwachidule, mwakhala mutu waukulu wokambirana, koma musadandaule, posachedwa mwatcheru kwambiri mutha kugonjetsa ndipo mukhoza kupuma. Musamaope kudzipangitsa nokha, kupita kutchuthi kapena kugwiritsa ntchito maloto anu okondedwa, zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuchepetsa nkhawa. Kupita ku mafilimu, masewero, mapikiski, makalasi muzochita zamasewero zomwe mumazikonda alandiridwa.
Chotsatira ndicho kuzindikira zolinga ndi zolinga zatsopano. Dzilonjezeni nokha kuti muthane ndi mavuto onse ndikukhalitsa tsogolo losangalatsa. Lembani mndandanda wa kusintha komwe muyenera kuchita pamoyo wanu. Musaiwale kuti muphatikizepo ndondomekoyi mwayi umene umasulidwa kwaufulu. Ndikhulupirire, padzakhala zambiri zotero! Kutulutsidwa pambuyo pa kusudzulana kuli ndi mbali zabwino! Ndipotu sizingakhale zopanda pake kuti ambiri omwe kale anali okwatirana samadzimangiriza kwambiri ndi chiyanjano chawo, koma amapanga ufulu.
Kusungunuka kwa maganizo pakatha chisudzulo ndi nthawi yaitali, zomwe zingatenge pafupifupi chaka. Inde, nthawi imachiza chirichonse, koma ngati mutatha nthawiyi maganizo anu sakukula kapena mukuona kuti simungathe kupirira nokha, muyenera kufufuza thandizo kwa katswiri wa maganizo. Chifukwa chosaganizira mofulumira za kusakhazikika kwa thanzi laumphawi zingayambitse matenda aakulu kwambiri.