Mverani nokha!
Ngati intuition yanu ikugona, mukhoza kumudzutsa. Gwiritsani ntchito njira zoyenera ndipo mutha kupeza dziko latsopano kumene mungathe kuyembekezera zochitika ndikuzindikira kufunika kwa anthu.
- Chotsani zolakwika
Maganizo athu ndi ovuta kwambiri. Televizioni, nyuzipepala, wailesi - chirichonse chomwe tikuzungulira chimatipatsa malingaliro athu a chabwino ndi choipa, kupanga chikhalidwe cha anthu, zinthu, zochitika. Koma mvetserani kumverera kwanu! Aliyense wa ife ali ndi belu la mkati. Amapereka zizindikiro zake kuti munthu kapena malo ena ndi oipa. Koma ife timawaphonya iwo mwa makutu, chifukwa iwo sagwirizana ndi zochitika zakale zomwe zimaperekedwa. Osati kuzindikira mauthenga amkati, timayambitsa chidziwitso chathu.
- Yambani mwana wamkati
Ana ali ochepetsetsa kuposa akuluakulu, chifukwa malingaliro awo ponena za dziko panthawiyi ndi pepala loyera. Chifukwa chake amakhala moyo woganizira, osagwiritsa ntchito kuganiza bwino. Mwana wanu wamkati amalankhulana nanu nthawi zonse ndipo amakuuzani pamtundu woyenerera momwe mungapitirire. Pamene simukudziwa choti muchite pazochitika zina, khalani pansi kwa mphindi imodzi, musiye kulingalira ndi kumvetsera zomwe mtima wanu ukunena.
- Yambani kudzidalira nokha
Pambuyo potsatira zizindikiro ndi malingaliro, mudzaphunzira kudzidalira nokha, ndipo chidziwitso chanu "chodzutsidwa" chidzakupangitsani yankho lolondola nthawi zonse. Timapatsidwa chidziwitso kuyambira kubadwa. Ambiri amadalira ana ake ndi akazi ake. Pali mndandanda umene anthu adagawidwa kuti "olemba" ndi "maganizo". Zoyamba ndi zomveka, chifukwa malingaliro awo ndiyeso la zinthu zonse. Otsatirawo amadziwa kufunika kwa maganizo ndi chidziwitso. Zonsezi ndizoopsa. Ndipo popanda lingaliro, ndipo popanda intuition, palibe sayansi kapena luso. Chidziwitso ndichibadwa m'zinthu zonse, ndi zophweka kwa anthu ena zomwe zimapangidwa kuchokera ku chilengedwe. Njira yowonongeka, yomwe idakhazikitsidwa pa zochitika zammbuyomu, sikuti nthawizonse imatsogolera zotsatira zomwe zimafunidwa. Chinanso chikufunika chomwe sichimachitika mwachizolowezi. Intuition ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri la kupambana pa malo okwera kwambiri. Kawirikawiri, zimawonetseredwa momveka bwino mu zovuta, zovuta, pamene njira zonse zamaganizo zimakula ndipo thupi limasokonezedwa ndi cholinga chimodzi: kuchoka pa zochitikazo. Anthu onse mopanda malire ali ndi chidziwitso. Ena adzipanga zambiri, ena ali ndi zochepa. Koma palinso ena oimira mtundu wa anthu, omwe nthawi zambiri amamva kuti "amagona" chifukwa nthawi zonse amachita zinthu mwachidwi, akudalira zokhazokha. Chidziwitso chilipo, ndipo aliyense ali ndi zovuta zomwe munganene kuti: "Ndinadziwa kuti zidzakhala choncho." Ichi ndi chidziwitso. Chovuta kwambiri ndi funso ngati zingatheke. Popeza ichi ndi njira yopanda kudziwa, sitingathe kulunjika mwachindunji chitukuko cha intuition. Koma tikuyenera kuphunzira momwe tingamvetsere mawonetseredwe a chikumbumtima.
Kusintha maganizo
Chidziwitso chimalimbikitsidwa kwambiri ndi amai - izi ndizosiyana. Kaŵirikaŵiri samatchulira chidziwitso chachikazi, koma chidziwitso chachikazi. Ndipo amuna amalankhula za izi, kutanthawuza kuti ambiri mwa akazi alibe malingaliro pa ziweruzo zawo ndi khalidwe lawo. Ndipo izi ndizosawerengeka. Inde, amayi ambiri amakhala okhudzidwa kwambiri ndipo amakhulupirira kukhulupilira kwawo kuposa amuna. Koma kodi iwe ndi ine sitikudziwa omwe akuyimira kugonana kwabwino komwe akhala asayansi apamwamba ndi ochita kafukufuku, ndi amuna - ojambula? Maganizo amenewa alipo, ndipo amachokera pachiyambi, pokhudzana ndi chikhulupiliro chakuti akazi amakhala oposa maganizo kuposa amuna. Wachiwiriwa siwodabwitsa kuti mumvetsere nokha. Amadalira deta yoyenerera komanso yovomerezeka, pomwe amayi amatha kuyang'ana vuto lililonse kudzera mu ndondomeko ya "zotonthoza mtima". Mwa amayi, mosiyana ndi amuna, chidziwitso chimatetezedwa ndi chibadwa cha amayi, chomwe chimayang'anira kuteteza ana. Izi ndi zoona, chifukwa amai amamva zonse mwachinsinsi kuposa amuna. Pali lingaliro loti akazi ali ndi chitukuko champhamvu chakumverera uku. Azimayi amakhala okhumudwa kwambiri, omvera komanso okhulupilira kwambiri kuposa anthu. Choncho lingaliro lakuti kumverera kotereku kwa akazi kulikulirakulira kuposa amuna. Ndipotu, ngati anthu amakhulupirira zizindikiro zosonyeza kuti nthawi zina zimachokera kwa iwo, ndiye kuti chidziwitso chachimuna sichinali chofooka kuposa chikazi.