Nchifukwa chiyani munthu wonga nyengo yoipa?

Kukuzizira, kozizira, kosautsa. Mitambo yamdima imaphimba mlengalenga, mvula siimatha kwa mphindi, ndipo mphepo yamphamvu imakhalabebe. M'nyengo iyi, iwo amati, mwini wabwino sangalole galuyo kutuluka. Koma anthu ena amawakonda. Ndikudabwa chifukwa chiyani?
Choyamba, nyengoyi imakondedwa, kapena m'malo mwake, imalemekezedwa ndi akatswiri a zakuthambo. Iwo akudziwa motsimikiza kuti chirichonse mu dziko chikugonjetsedwa ndi lingaliro la kuyendetsa dziko lonse. Ngati pali nyengo yotereyi, ndiye kuti ndi kofunikira kwa chinachake. Iwo samalekanitsa ngakhale nyengo kukhala yabwino kapena yoipa, iwo amangonena za nyengo yabwino kapena yosasangalatsa kwa munthu. Koma izi, inunso, ndizovomerezeka. Zochitika za moyo tili ndi zosiyana, choncho zofunikira za chilengedwe ndi zosiyana. Tonsefe tikudziwa momwe zimakhalira zovuta kukonzekera mayeso pamene dzuŵa likuwala pamsewu. Sichikupatsani mpata woika maganizo, kufooketsa zolinga (kungokhala ndi mtima wokhazikika popanda chiyembekezo chenicheni). Ndibwino kuti mvula isagwe - musasocheretsedwe ... Ndipo ndi chiyani chinanso chomwe mungakonde nyengo yoipa? Ndipo anthu awa ndani?

Anthu osakanikirana
Nyimbo zonse za momwe wina adaponyera wina, amasiyana ndi wina, momwe chiyembekezocho sichinakwaniritsidwe, chikondi chosagwirizana chimagwirizanitsa chinthu chimodzi. Izi, ndithudi, ndikumva chisoni ndi ... mvula yamvula! Musamachite popanda mvula ikugwa, kumbuyo kwa masamba, masamba amdima ndi mphepo yozizira. Anthu ambiri ali ndi zochitika zofanana za nyengo zomwe zimagwirizana ndi chinachake chosasokonezeka ndi kutayika. Ndi nyengo yamtundu uwu yomwe imakhudza mitima ya a ndakatulo, komanso anthu omwe posachedwa anaphwanyidwa ndi okondedwa awo komanso kungosungunuka. Iyo imvula kunja kwawindo, ifuna kukhala yokha ndi iwo okha, kukumba mwa iwoeni, kuganiza ndi kuvutika pang'ono. Dzuŵa litatuluka mumlengalenga, woimbayo adzapereka ntchito yake yatsopano kwa aliyense, munthu amene wataya wina adzamva kuti ali ndi mphamvu zatsopano kuti azikhala ndi kusangalala. Koma umunthu, womwe umawoneka kuti umasungunuka, sudzakhala wosasangalala. Ndipo kusakhutira uku kumakhudza ubale ndi mnzanuyo. Pakhoza kukhala wokwiya paulendo wofanana, chiwombankhanga chimatha kusokoneza mnzanu, kapena kusokonezeka kwakukulu kungachitike. Chifukwa ndizolakwika - kulira ndi kulira chifukwa cha chikondi chosakwaniritsidwe, pamene chikuchitikira apa, kumbali yako. Ndipo ngati chiyambi cha chibwenzi chikhalidwe choterechi chikhoza kukopa, kukhala chodabwitsa komanso chokopa, ndiye pamene chiyanjanocho chikhale chokhazikika komanso chokhazikika, chimangokwiyitsa. Ndi kumufunsa munthu wotere za zomwe akumva chisoni, adzalandira yankho losatha mu mzimu "wopanda kanthu." Koma izi ndi zoona. Munthu amene ali ndi vuto la kusungunuka, amatha kulira zinthu zomwe sizingatheke. Zomwe sizingatheke, koma osati mwa iye mwini, koma mdziko lonse. Ndipo ngakhale kukumbukira kumvetsa chisoni kumamukhudza iye mwachindunji, izi sizikutanthauza kuti iye sakhutira ndi zamakono. Ndi anthu okha a mtundu umenewu omwe ali ndi chosowa-kukhala achisoni, kulota, kukumbukira.

Mankhwala amafunika kupangidwa kotero kuti chikondi chawo cha nyengo yosasinthika chimasuliridwa bwino ndi achibale ndi abwenzi. Mwachitsanzo, munganene kuti: "Mvula imandimvetsa chisoni, ndimayimirira ndiwindo ndikuyang'ana madontho ndi mitambo yakuda."

Kudziwonetsera nokha
Anthu omwe ali ndi khalidwe la dysthymic (khalidwe lofunika kwa ena, kukhumudwa) iwowa ali ngati nyengo yoipa, ndicho chifukwa amakukonda kwambiri. Ngakhale iwo sakuvomereza izo. Mosiyana ndi zimenezo, iwo amadzudzula pachabe. Ndikumverera, kufanana, kufanizirana. Ngati kuzizira, iwo amanena kuti akuzizira pfupa kapena kuti dzino silikugunda dzino. Komabe, ndi nyengo yoipa yomwe imakhala ndi nkhawa. Amakhala otanganidwa kwambiri, okondwa, ngati kuti ali mu gawo lawo. Ndi choncho. Muzochitika zabwino (zabwino), anthu oterowo amamva bwino, chifukwa sangathe kuchita zomwe akufuna. Izi ndizo, angathe, koma zindikirani kuti kuchokera kunja zikuwoneka zowawa kwambiri. Koma mu nyengo yoipa mungathe kukwiya ndi kulumbirira mwamtendere mwamtendere - pali chifukwa, ndipo ndizofala kwa aliyense. Zinthu zakuthupi ndi zamaganizo zimakula, kudzidalira kumadzuka. Koma izi, ndithudi, zimangokhala za detente. Ndipo ndibwino kuti mutembenuke ndi nyengo yabwino. Komabe anthu ambiri ndi omasuka kwambiri.

Iwo amene amadziwa za kupsa mtima kwawo msanga ndi kukwiya, sikuyenera kuphonya tsiku lirilonse lowala. Pita kunja ukanene kuti: "Ndi mmawa wokongola bwanji!" Ndiye mphepo yamkuntho mumsamba idzakhala yochepa.

Mzimu umatentha
Anthu ena samakonda nyengo yoipa, koma amatha kubisalapo: khalani pansi pa mipando yowongoka, yokutidwa ndi bulangeti, kapena kupiringa pabedi, ndikukakamiza nokha chidole kapena mtolo. Musapite kulikonse, musachite kanthu. Kunama, kusangalatsidwa, kudziyang'anira nokha. Chifukwa pakati pa tsiku alibe chirichonse. Kapena pali, koma pang'ono. Ndizochepa zokhazokha, kutentha, kukhudza, kukwapula. Palibe kuyankhulana kokwanira, kubweretsa chisangalalo. Anthu oterowo mwachizoloŵezi amafunafuna zosangalatsa zamakono pogwiritsa ntchito zovala, zinthu zamkati. Amakonda ubweya, amapanga zithunzithunzi, othamanga. Inde, izi sizili zoyenera nthawi zonse ndipo sizingatheke. Tiyeni tisakumbatire chimbalangondo chogwira ntchito. Mukhoza kudzibisa nokha, pamtunda, koma patsiku la dzuwa lidzakhala losiyana kwambiri - muyenera kuvomereza kuti mukufuna kukwera mu burrow osati chifukwa cha izo, koma chifukwa chachisoni ndi chisoni. Mavuto oipa amachititsa kuti musaganizire za mtundu uliwonse. Ndi zachilendo kuti mwamuna akufuna mkulu wofunda ndi wotentha. Komabe, tsoka, zotheka za rugs ndizochepa. Zimachepetsa mawonetseredwe a kusungulumwa, koma sizichotsa.

Mmalo mokulunga mu bulangeti, ndi bwino kupita kukachezera kapena kuyenda, kapena kuitana winawake kuchokera kwa mnzanuyo ku kapu ya tiyi.

Kudziwa za mgwirizano
Nthawi zina chikondi cha nyengo yoipa ndi chizindikiro cha matenda a maganizo kapena kuvutika maganizo. M'mayiko okhala ndi nyengo yosinthika, monga Russia, madokotala akuwona kuchuluka kwa chiwerengero cha anthu omwe ali ndichisoni, kumayambiriro ndi kumayambiriro kwa chilimwe. Zikuwoneka kuti chirichonse chiyenera kukhala chosiyana. Ngati munthu ali ndi maganizo oipa, nyengo yabwino imayenera kuikonza. Dzuŵa limawala, mbalame zimaimba, ntchentche zimawuluka, maluwa amawoneka okoma, okwera-akumwetulira - kodi izi sizosangalatsa? Inde, anthu ambiri amasangalala nazo. Anthu omwe ali ndi maganizo oipa - pa chifukwa china osati kwa nthawi yaitali. Ngati yafupika kwa nthawi yaitali (kuposa mwezi umodzi), nyengo yabwino imangowonjezera moto. Kusiyanitsa kwakukulu pakati pa dziko lamkati ndi zowona. Izi zimachitika kuti anthu oterewa samachoka kwa masiku angapo ndi kutseka makataniwo mwamphamvu kwambiri, osati kuti awone zosangalatsa. Ndipo nyengo yoipa imakhala yosavuta. Pali mphamvu zogwira ntchito, kuyankhulana, ngakhale kukhala bwino kulikukula. Chikhalidwe ichi sayenera kutayika popanda chidwi. Izo sizingakhoze kupita pokha. Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa momwe zonse zinayambira ndikukonzekera chitukuko cha zochitika, kukopera mapeto a hapli. "Kutayika kwa ntchito, milandu, zibwenzi zolimba ndi achibale, mavuto azachuma - n'zosadabwitsa kuti ndili ndi vutoli tsopano, mwina ndidzakhala woopsa kwambiri kwa miyezi ingapo, koma ndikudziwa kuti zonse zidzabwereranso m'dzinja."

Kutaya kwa nthawi yaitali kwa maganizo sikuyenera kunyalanyazidwa. Ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa, ndi zomwe zonse zayamba komanso makamaka kupanga ndondomeko yabwino ya zochitika.

Nkhaniyi poyerekeza
Anthu okhala m'mizinda ikuluikulu amadwala matenda a maganizo okhudza nyengo, nthawi zambiri kusiyana ndi kumidzi. Ndipo izi zilibe kanthu kuti amakumana ndi nyengo yocheperapo ndipo amakhala otetezedwa ku zochitika zake. Koma izo zikutembenuka, ichi ndi chifukwa. Nzika sizikumva zoipa zokha, komanso zabwino. Pang'ono penyani dzuwa, osayang'ana dzuwa, musamve fungo la zomera. Iwo alibe nthawi yokwanira kupeza zonse zomwe amafunikira pa nyengo yabwino, kuti azibwezeretsanso ndi mphamvu. Choncho, amakhumudwa kwambiri chifukwa cha kuwonongeka kwake. Njira yokhayo yowonekera ndiyo kuyendera chilengedwe mobwerezabwereza ndikudzikonzekera nokha phokoso pazenera.