Tiyeni tiyang'ane kumverera uku kuchokera kumbali inayo. Ngati kulibe mantha, sipadzakhalanso lingaliro lodzipulumutsa. Tikhoza kuyenda mwakachetechete kudutsa msewu popanda kuyang'ana pozungulira. Mantha ndi chimodzi mwa madalaivala athu a khalidwe lathu. Ngati tikuopa zaka, ndiye kuti tiyenera kuyamba kudziyang'anira tokha. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kupeza malo anu mwamantha, ndipo musamupatse mpata woti achoke. Ndipo zimakuthandizani pakufufuza izi ndi zochita zanu. Maganizo amenewa amadziwikanso ndi zamoyo zonse, koma m'nkhaniyi ndikufuna kuika maganizo anga pa mantha a amayi. Pambuyo pa zonse, ndife odzikonda kwambiri komanso amalingaliro, izi zidzatsimikiziridwa ndi katswiri aliyense wa zamaganizo. Ndipo kumverera kwa nkhawa okha, kwa achibale awo ndi abwenzi, nthawizonse amatidetsa nkhaŵa ife. Chirichonse chomwe ife tinali osiyana, koma zifukwa za mantha zomwe ife tiri nazo mofanana ndi zomwezo.
Kuopa kukhala ndekha
Kawirikawiri, kuopa kusungulumwa kumatipangitsa kuchita zinthu zopusa komanso zosasangalatsa. Iye amachoka chifukwa chosadziwa zam'tsogolo. Tili pamodzi ndi anthu omwe sali okondweretsa, timalekerera munthu amene sakonda, osati kukhala yekha. Inde, palibe munthu padziko lapansi amene angakhale yekha kwa nthawi yayitali. Ngati zizindikiro zoterezi ndizo, ndiye kuti izi ndizo matenda. N'zachidziwikire chifukwa chake zimachitika chifukwa cha amayi. Koma musamupatse chifuniro. Ngati mwamuna watachedwa kuntchito, musadzipangire nokha chithunzi chomwe ali nacho ndi mkazi wina. Wokondedwa sakudalirani pang'ono, sizikutanthauza kuti kumverera kuli kozizira ndipo akhoza kukuponya. Ndipo ngakhale simunakumane ndi mnzako, musaike mtanda wanu msanga.
Dzikondeni nokha, chikondi basi. Musakhale madzulo ndipo musadzizunze nokha ndi kukayika. Ndi bwino kulemba kuvina kapena masewera olimbitsa thupi, kupita ndi abwenzi ku zisudzo. Mukhoza kukhulupirira, simungathe, koma tonsefe tazunguliridwa ndi magetsi osaoneka. Maganizo abwino kwambiri ochokera kwa ife, ndi osangalatsa kwambiri kukhala pafupi nafe. Ngakhale simungasonyeze kusakhulupirika kwanu, mkwiyo, anthu anu apamtima adzamva. Iwo sangokhala omasuka ndi inu. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amatsimikizira kuti moyo sutha pamene ukugawanika. Mukuyenerera bwino ndipo ndithudi kudza. Ndipo mantha amenewo samawopsyeza chimwemwe chomwe muli nacho, pezani ndi okondedwa anu zosangalatsa ndi ntchito. Koma musaiwale kuwalola kuti apite "mfulu", kukomana ndi anzanu, kusangalala ndi timu imene mumaikonda.
Kuopa kukhala osakondweretsa
Palibe amayi oipa, samakonzekera bwino. Pachifukwa ichi, katswiri wina wa zamaganizo adzatsimikizira kuti muyenera kudzikonda nokha ndikudziyang'anira bwino. Inde, sizikutanthauza kuti ndikofunikira kutsatira miyezo yolandiridwa ya 90-60-90, kapena kutsanzira zitsanzo kuchokera m'magazini osangalatsa. Mayi aliyense ali ndi kukongola kwake, muyenera kuyesetsa kukuululira.
Amuna amakhulupirira kuti amakonda maso, komabe amakopeka kwambiri ndi chikhalidwe cha chikazi. Ndipo izo zimadziwonetsera mu khalidwe lathu, kuyang'ana, kutsanzira ndi manja. Pambuyo pa zonse, dziwani inu, amayi ambiri omwe ali kutali kwambiri ndi maonekedwe abwino amasamala kuchokera kwa amuna ndipo apeza zambiri pamoyo wawo. Ngati mukuzunzidwa ndi mantha a kusadzikonda kwanu, ndiye kuti mukudzipiritsa nokha ndi zakudya zopatsa thanzi, musaiwale kuti mutembenukire ku moyo wanu wapadera.
Kuopa kubereka
Kawirikawiri kuopa kubereka kumabwera chifukwa chosadziwa za momwemo. Kuchokera pa milomo ya anzanu, kulongosola za kubadwa kwa mwana, chirichonse chimveka chowopsya ndi choopsya. Ndipo ngati muwonera mafilimu ndikumveka ndi kufuula, chithunzi chomwe chimakhumudwitsa kwambiri. Koma yang'anani pozungulira, mamiliyoni a amayi amabereka mwana woyamba, ndipo amayamba yachiwiri, chachitatu. Azimayi okonzedwa mwachilengedwe, kuti zowawa za kubadwa zimayiwalika mu maola angapo. Ndipo bwenzi lanu limamuuza maganizo ake momwe adayendetsera osati mmalo mwake chifukwa sanakonzedwe, koma kuti akuthandizeni kwambiri.
Posachedwapa, madokotala akunyansidwa kwambiri kuti amayi mwanjira iliyonse amapewa kubadwa kwachibadwidwe, ndipo amatsogoleredwa ndi mantha, akuchita zonse kuti akwaniritse chilolezo cha gawo lachisokonezo. Mukamapanga chisankho chotero, musaiwale kuganizira kuti pakapita nthawi simudzapweteka. Koma njira yobwezeretsera itatha ntchitoyi idzakhala yotalika kwambiri.
Kuopa kutaya ntchito yanu
Zamantha ndizosiyana. Koma kuopa kutaya ntchito ndi chinthu chofala kwambiri. Izi zikutsimikizirani kwa katswiri aliyense wamaganizo. Choncho, kuopa kutaya ntchito ndi kutitengera ku gulu la anthu omwe amatchedwa workaholics. Ndi chinthu chimodzi kuchita ntchito zawo moyenera. Chinthu china ndikutanthauzira kuyang'ana kwaukali kwa bwana, kugwira ntchito madzulo, kugwira ntchito zonse motsatira. Kodi mumamvetsa kusiyana kwake? Musati muzitsimikizira nthawi zonse utsogoleri kuti ndinu abwino komanso woyenera malo anu. Kuwonjezera pa kuyesayesa kwanu kungachititse kuti mutha kutopa ndikugona usiku.
Mungathe kuchotsa mantha oti mutaya ntchito yanu m'njira ziwiri. Dzifunseni nokha zosankha zobwezera, kapena kukhala akatswiri m'munda mwanu. Ndiye mudzadziwa kuti popanda ntchito simudzakhalabe. Inde, ndipo ngati mutakhala wotere, ndiye kuti palibe amene angakuletseni malo ano. Chinthu chachikulu sichimaima pamenepo. Nthawi zonse yonjezerani chitukuko chanu: kuphunzira zinenero, kupita ku maphunziro osiyanasiyana ndi maphunziro. Chidziwitso chowonjezera chimapereka chidaliro.
Musawope kuti mukhale ndi nthawi
Mayi ayenera kuchita zinthu zambiri patsiku. Dyetsa banja, kugula chakudya, malaya achitsulo, kupita kuntchito, kunyamula ana kusukulu. Ndipo ichi ndi chiyambi chabe cha mndandanda. Ndipo kutsegula maso anu m'mawa, kukumbukira zigawo zake, muli ndi mphindi mukumva kwanu. M'malo mwake, mantha ndi nkhawa zimabwera: Kodi mungachite bwanji nthawi zonse?
Komabe, pamene tsiku likuyambira, momwemo mudzaligwiritsira ntchito. Choncho phunzirani kulamulira maganizo anu. Ndipotu, adzatenga kuchokera kwa inu mphamvu zomwe zingagwiritsidwe ntchito panyumba komanso zina. Mukawona kuti mwasokonezedwa, konzekerani ndondomeko ya zochita zanu madzulo. Ndipo, pamapeto pake, nthawi zonse muyenera kukhala othandizira pakati pa mamembala anu.
Kodi ena amalingalira za ine?
Kawirikawiri, mantha amakhala chifukwa cha kudzichepetsa. Pamene anthu akukuyang'anirani ndikuyendetsa, yesetsani kudziwa momwe mumamvera. Ndikuganiza kuti nthawi zambiri lingaliro lidzatha: "Kodi pali chinachake cholakwika mwa ine?". Ndikofunikira kwa ife kuti tili ndi chidwi chokha. Choncho, tikuyesera kukondweretsa aliyense. Koma izi sizingatheke. Inde, ndipo, makamaka, anthu oyandikana nawo akhoza kukhala alibe kanthu kaya muli ndi chikhalidwe chotani, kaya tsitsi lanu ndi lokongola, kaya kavalidwe kameneka likukwanira. Sizitsutsana ndi "I" wanu. Khalani nokha, ndipo padzakhala pali anthu omwe amayamikira izo.
Kuopa ukalamba
Achinyamata sali osatha. Kotero, ambiri a ife, malinga ndi akatswiri a maganizo, posakhalitsa timayamba kuopa kukalamba. Mumtima, palibe mmodzi wa ife amene akufuna kupirira udindo umenewu. Tsiku lililonse timadziyang'ana tokha pagalasi ndikuyang'ana makwinya atsopano komanso zochitika zakale. Koma kodi ndi bwino kudandaula, chifukwa nthawi ino sichibwerera. Musataye nthawi pa kupuma kopanda kanthu, koma m'malo moyamba kudzisamalira nokha. Ovala tsitsi, salons okongola, masewera, okondwa, chikondi, tawonani - mwa makumi anai inu mumapatsidwa makumi awiri ndi asanu. Kufika pa msinkhu monga chuma chomwe chimabweretsa nzeru ndi kudziyamikira nokha. Ndipo musaganize kuti ukalamba udzakhala wosungulumwa komanso wopanda thandizo. Ndi akazi angati omwe amaletsa zidzukulu, kuphunzira zilankhulo zakunja, kuyenda, ndikukonzekera miyoyo yawo. Kumbukirani kuti pa msinkhu uliwonse, chimwemwe chiri mmanja mwanu.
Kawirikawiri mantha amazitenga kukhala athu, monga amayi ali bungwe lachinsinsi chachinsinsi cha psychic. Kawirikawiri, mantha amadza chifukwa cha kusadziwa, zidzatsimikiziridwa ndi katswiri aliyense wamaganizo. Choncho, ndikofunika kumvetsetsa nthawi yomwe ikuwonekera, komanso kuti musapatse mwayi wakukudziwani. Chotsani izo mwakumvetsa kokha, koma osamenyana konse.