Ndiye ndi chinsinsi chanji cha kulankhulana molimba mtima ndi kophweka? Chinsinsi chachikulu cha kulankhulana bwino: ngati muli nokha ndi inu nokha, nonse a inu mudzakhala osangalatsa komanso ophweka kulankhulana nanu. Kupeza nkhani zabwino zokambirana sikovuta. Bukhu lotsiriza lomwe mukuwerenga, ndiwotani amawonetseratu, mukuganiza chiyani za ojambula kapena oimba masiku ano? Mafunso osavuta pa mafunso oyambirira akukhala mitu yabwino kwambiri yolankhulirana. Mwachitsanzo, mungathe kukhala ndi blog nthawi zonse - ndizofunika kwambiri kuti muphunzitse bwino. Ngati mumaphunzira kulemba malingaliro anu mofanana ndi ena omwe angawerenge zolemba zanu, ndiye kuti mukulankhula momasuka simuyenera kukhala ndi mavuto apadera, ndipo kulankhulana kumakhala kosavuta komanso kotsimikiza.
Komabe, nsomba yonse ndikuti mumakonda ntchito yovuta kwambiri kwa mtsikana. Kuima pamaso pa galasi, timawoneka kuti tikudziyang'ana kudzera mu galasi lalikulu, ndikuwona gulu lonse la zolakwika, zomwe sizingatheke kubisala, ndipo sitingathe kuzikhala nawo. Kodi mukufuna kuti tikuuzeni chinsinsi chachikulu? Zonsezi "zofooka" zonsezi zimawoneka kwa eni ake okha, komabe iwo omwe amawazungulira sakudziwa kapena samawasamalira. Komabe, kusatsimikizika kumene kumapereka maofesi anu kumamveka bwino, ndipo kuyankhulana kumakhala kosatsimikizika.
Mmene mungachitire zinthu izi molondola? Muyenera kusintha nthawi yomweyo, komanso kuti mukhale bwino. Yesetsani kutsimikiza kuti nthawi yanu nthawi zonse imakhala ngakhale ngakhale mutakwera zidendene zapamwamba komanso muli thumba lalikulu m'manja mwanu. Phokoso liyenera kukhala laufulu momwe lingathere, ndipo liwu - loyera, lomveka ndi losangalatsa. Inu, mwinamwake, mudzadabwa momwe mwamsanga, pakuyang'ana, zovuta zoterezi zidzasintha kwambiri maganizo anu. Vvalani okha zovala zomwe mumakonda, ndipo mumakhala otetezeka komanso okongola. Ndipo musaiwale kuti zoyenera ndizozing'ono, kotero musaiwale za zovala ndi zovala, monga belt, thumba kapena thumba. Kusinkhasinkha? Ndizobwino! Muyeneranso kuonetsetsa kuti zovala zanu nthawi zonse zimakhala zoyera komanso zoyera.
Ndipo tsopano, tili ndi chidaliro chochuluka. Kuti mukwaniritse chinsinsi chachiwiri cholankhulana momasuka, muyenera kuphunzira momwe mungalankhulire nkhani m'njira yokongola komanso yosangalatsa. Ngati mulemba diary, yesetsani kulemba tsopano osati zakumverera kwanu, koma kuchepetsa nkhaniyo ndi nkhani ya zomwe mwawona pamene mukupita kumaso. Komabe pali zochitika zosavuta zambiri. Taganizirani nkhani yakale, mwachitsanzo, nkhani yaying'ono yonena za gulugufe wokongola lomwe limasakanikira maluwa enieni, ndi duwa lovala, ndiyeno likunena kuchokera kwa anthu osiyanasiyana. Ndipo motani? Zinatuluka? Ndipo tsopano, chotsani chochitika ichi: choyamba mumuuzeni kuchokera kwa munthu wachitatu mwachinsinsi, kenaka muzoseketsa kapena mwamwano. Ngati nonse mutasiya, mubwere ndi zochitika zina ndikuzikonzanso nokha.
Pali mitundu iwiri ya olemba nkhani omwe anthu amakonda kumvetsera makamaka. Oyamba ndi omwe angaseke (samangoyenera kunena "nkhani zowopsya" ndi zolemba zamatsenga, bwino kunena chinachake chatsopano, chachilendo ndi chosangalala), wotsiriza - yemwe angapereke uphungu wabwino (chirichonse chimadalira inu pano). Mukhoza kusankha njira yomwe mumakonda kwambiri. Choyamba, khalani pang'ono, ndipo molimba mtima muyambe kukhala ndi anzanu, omwe, ndithudi, adzayamikira khama lanu. Posachedwa mudzawona kuti kuyankhulana kwanu kudzakhala kolimba komanso kosagwirizana.
Ndipo musaiwale kuti palibe amene angamvetsere nkhani yochititsa chidwi komanso yokondweretsa ngati mumuuza kuti mudzakhala chete, osatetezeka, ndipo simungayang'ane, koma kwinakwake, kuyankhulana kukhale kosavuta. Ngati mukufuna kudziwika ngati mulungu wamkazi wa kulankhulana, ndiye kuti maonekedwe anu ayenera kukhala osamveka, ndipo kudzidalira ndizitsulo chabe. Musamamvetsere mavuto ang'onoang'ono, monga kutupa mascara kapena muvi pa pantyhose. Kawirikawiri, dzimikizire nokha kuti iwe ndiwe wokongola ndipo uli wangwiro, ndiyeno anthu ena adzakukhulupirirani, ndipo chiyanjano cholankhulana chidzatha.
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani?
Sungani. Simungathe ngakhale kulingalira momwe chida ichi chilili. Ndipo usakhale waulesi kamodzinso kugwiritsa ntchito njirayi kuti uchepetse chidwi cha abwenzi anu ndi kungopita.
Khalani osamala. Mukachita nthabwala, simukuyenera kukhumudwitsa kapena kuchititsa manyazi aliyense. Ngakhale ngati nthabwala imodzi idzapambana, pali mwayi waukulu kuti mudzipange kukhala adani angapo kapena adani enieni omwe sangaphonye mpata wobwezera.
Khalani omasuka kulankhulana . Iwe siwe mwana wodula, ndipo osati ngakhale Ice Princess. Musaope kunena nkhani zozizwitsa za inu nokha. Kudzinyoza nokha sizochititsa manyazi, koma mosiyana ndi zimenezo, ndizosangalatsa. Popeza munthu wokonda kuseka nthawi zonse amakhala wokondweretsa komanso okondweretsa.
Kodi ndi bwino kusiya nthawi imodzi?
Miseche . Pochita izi, zikutheka kuti mudzapeza anthu omwe ali ndi maganizo omwe angakuthandizeni ndikuthandizani kuti "musambe mafupa" onse mzere. Komabe, izi zimakhala zonyenga kwambiri, chifukwa anthu omwe mumalankhulana nawo sali abwenzi, amangofuna kudziwa zomwe zimakangana.
Chipinda chonyamulira . Kodi mumanena kuti akuyamikila anthu onse mumzere ndi zonse, ndikuyembekeza kuti mukamachita zimenezi mudzawonjezera mwayi woti chinachake chiti chidzanenedwa, chili chonse chokomera? Ndipo apa ndi pachabe! Azimayi enieni samasowa njira zimenezi.
Mitsempha . Kusatetezeka kwanu kungakhale kowerengedweratu bwino - mwa njira yanu yolankhulirana, mkhalidwe, zosuntha, ndi zina zotero. Pezani mpweya wozama ndikuonetsetsa kuti mukuwoneka bwino: zovala zimakhala bwino, manicure sapita pansi ndipo tsitsi silinasokonezeke - ndiye funani ndi kuyankhula. Zomwe mungakumane nazo chifukwa cha zopanda pake, ngati n'zotheka kusangalala ndi moyo wamba.