Patsogolo ndi chikondi chokongola kapena chiyanjano chosagwirizana. Kukhumudwa ndi mavuto, chisangalalo ndi chisoni, mphamvu yosagwirizana ya mgwirizano pa ntchito ndi zotsatira zake (pambuyo pake, sitili makina osasamala!).
Zonsezi "zipatso" za malingaliro osiyana kapena maubwenzi ndi anthu osakhala ochepa pambuyo pa miyezi ingapo (a maximum-zaka) zidzakumbukiridwa nthawi zambiri. Ndipo pafupifupi nthawi zonse ngati chokhumudwitsa chokhumudwitsa.
Zimatheka bwanji kuti tili ndi ubale wapamtima kuntchito?
Ulesi. Chidwi. Nthawi yosasinthasintha. Chidwi "koma chomwe chiri." Chifundo. Chikhumbo cha chikondi ndi kumvetsa ...
Ziribe kanthu momwe amayi ndi nyuzipepala zonyezimira ndi apepala azimayi amauzidwa molimbika kuti sayenera kugonana kumalo antchito - amayi amakhulupirirabe nthawiyi. Ndipo panthawi inayake, wouziridwa ndi chikondi komanso chikhumbo chokhala pafupi kwambiri ndi amene mumakonda - salinso antchito, koma munthu! - chiopsezo ndikukonzekera mgwirizano wawo wapamtima kuntchito.
Kuntchito, timakhala nthawi yochuluka, ndipo ndizotheka kuti tidzakumane ndi tsogolo lathu, chikondi, okondedwa athu pa bizinesi yamtsogolo ... Izi sizomwe zimapezeka nthawi zambiri. Kumva pa sitima ya basi kapena mu hypermarket modzidzimutsa bwino "Msungwana, tiyeni tidziwe!", Ife timayesetsa kuchotsa chevalier obisala.
Ndipo kuntchito zonse zimakhala zosavuta komanso zomveka, kwa nthawi. Anzanu-amuna akuyang'anitsitsa (chabwino, osati powonjezera "ntchito" ikupita!), Ndipo ife - timayesanso kuvala bwino, timayambanso kupangira zovala zatsopano kapena kusankha nsapato - zitsulo.
Ndipo tsopano, kuntchito pali "kusungulumwa" koyenera, kokongola. Ndipo ngakhale atayambitsa chikondi, ndiye amayamba kugwirizana kwambiri kuntchito ...
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Ine sindinali wotchuka kwambiri, koma mwa njira yanga yomwe ndinkagwira ntchito yokongola kwambiri. Koma tsiku lina mkulu wodandaula adati: "Ndidzakubweretsani mlimi!". Ndipo anadza - wokongola tsitsi, wabuluu wa tsitsi lakuda buluu ... Maloto a anyamata onse ... Iye anali okoma ngati ofanana ndi woimba mafilimu, ndipo sindinathe kudziletsa ndekha ...
Choyamba, zinali zodabwitsa komanso zosokoneza. Ndinachedwa ndi ntchito imodzi, anabwera ku ofesi yanga ndipo anayamba kundizunza. Ndipo kumverera kosakanikirana - mbali imodzi, ndine wokonzeka kunena "inde", koma kumbali inanso imandichititsa kuti malo antchito ndikutsatira. Desiki yanga, kompyuta, pulogalamu yotseguka, chivundikiro chosatha ...
Kuzindikira kwakukulu kosalephera ndi kupusa. Wina angasamalire poyamba, atakumana madzulo ndi maluwa, ndimadzuka m'mawa pamodzi ndi iye. Koma uyu sanamuitane, ngati kuti ndikulepheretsa kuntchito. Kwa iye - ndine wokondedwa wokondana naye. Ndipo ndinasangalala kwambiri atasamutsira ku ofesi ina mlungu wotsatira!
Kenako, akudikirira filimu yowonongeka, kusewera komaseka kapena yaitali, yokhumudwitsa kwambiri ndi kusokoneza kwake. Wina akufuna kukwatiwa (kapena kukwatiwa) - wachiwiri sakusamala. Mmodzi anayambitsa "chilakolako" chatsopano - chachiwiri, kuganizira zolaula, akusowa pogonana, chikondi ndi zonse zomwe zinali.
Ndipo ali kuti okonda chisoni omwe ali okondwa kuti akakomane nawo? Ngati ubale wapamtima kuntchito ukuchitika nthawi zonse, ndiye kuti, mwinamwake, amakakamizidwa kuti atseke m'chipindamo, atatha ntchito ya tsiku, atagona pabedi m'chipinda chodikirira ...
Apo ayi - amachoka palimodzi pamodzi, amapita ku bizinesi kapena kukakomana mu chipinda cha msonkhano ...
Chiyanjano choterocho n'chofanana ndi chakudya chamadzulo chodyera chodyera. Mwina kumverera kwa njala kwakhutira, ndipo ngakhale ndi chidwi, zosangalatsa. Koma kawirikawiri pambuyo pa izi pamakhala nthawi yachisoni.
Pambuyo pake, ngati zilakolako zili zenizeni - ndiye amafuna zina zoposa 5-10 mphindi zomwe ziri. Ndipo ngati "zopanga" - pakapita nthawi mmodzi wa amzake adzatopa ndi "zinthu" izi.
Zoona, poyamba, kugwirizana kwaufulu kuntchito ndi kokongola komanso kosazolowereka. Koma chiwombankhangacho chidalipobe:
- mgwirizano wovuta ndi mnzanu (kapena, Mulungu aletse, bwana)
- mantha amene aliyense adzadziwe (ndipo izi zidzatsatiridwa ndi kuzunzidwa, kunyozedwa, kusagwirizana)
- kumverera kwa kusakhazikika (ogwirizana nawo ufulu wotere akuchotsedwa onse, ndipo mafumu, atapitirira, atha kuchotsa ogonjera)
- kuwonetsa chidwi kwa wokondedwa ndi gulu lonse (iwo sakudziwa ngati lidzaperekedwe).
Tikuonjezerapo apa kuti kukongola kwa mwamuna kapena mzake kapena msilikali ndiwongopeka mofanana ndi momwe sitingakwanitse, ndipo timaganizira kuti nthawi zonse chidwi chimayambitsa mkwiyo.
Choncho, ngati simungathe kuyang'ana munthu mu diso, funsani kutsata ntchito za maudindo ndikulankhulana momasuka, ngati inu okonda simukutsutsana ndi kusakondana - musayambe ubale wapamtima kuntchito.