Monga momwe wantchito wanga adanena kwa mmodzi wa antchitowo: "Ine sindine mkazi kuntchito, ndine wantchito kuntchito". Zomwezo zikhoza kunenedwa za mtsogoleri wazimayi. Koma ngati, atadutsa pakhomo la ofesi yake, sanachotse "chophimba cha mutu" ndipo sanakumbukire kuti akadali mkazi, ndiye kuti vuto limabuka lokha.
Mkazi ndi zofunikira
Kwa amayi ena, kupititsa patsogolo pamsinkhu wa ntchito kumakhala chinthu chokwanira. Iwo alowetsedwa mu ntchito yawo kuti "lingaliro X" limakhala nawo iwo ngakhale mu loto. Koma, si chinsinsi kwa wina aliyense kuti mkazi aliyense amafunikira chikondi, kumvetsetsa pamodzi ndi anyamata, chitonthozo cha banja, ndipo pamapeto pake, kugonana. Mkazi wa ntchito amayamba kuchitira nsanje akazi ena, omwe pa moyo wawo onse ali asanu ndi owonjezera. Izi ndi momwe "abambo oipa" amabadwira, omwe moyo wawo sunakhazikitsidwe, ndipo amayesa kutaya mkwiyo wawo wonse ndi kusakhutira kwa omwe ali pansi pawo, atsikana aang'ono, omwe ali patsogolo pawo ali bwino kwambiri.
Nthawi zina, nthawi zina, mkazi amalowetsa kuntchito ndi mutu chifukwa chakuti mu moyo wake panali chikondi cholephera. Pamene mwamuna amuponyera mkazi, mwina amayamba kusokonezeka, kapena amafunafuna m'malo mwake, kapena amayesa kutsimikizira, choyamba, kwa iye kuti wataya phwando loyenera. Kotero, iye, mkaziyo, amatsogolera mphamvu zake zonse kuti akwaniritse mapamwamba a ntchito ndipo, monga lamulo, amakwaniritsa zambiri. Nthawi yomweyo kumbukirani filimuyo "Moscow sakhulupirira misonzi" - chitsanzo chosiyana cha mkazi wotsalira, koma wokhutira.
Mutu kuti ugwire ntchito
Ngati mkazi apindula yekha, ndiye kuti nthawi zina nkofunika kugwira ntchito zochuluka, kuti mwa kufotokoza nthawi ya moyo waumwini sikokwanira. Ndiyeno, patapita nthawi, nkhaniyi imabuka: "Dipatimenti yatha, inapanga ntchito, inagula nyumba, ngakhale idzakhala yokwatira. Eya! Ndayiwala kukhala ndi mwana! "
Ndinkakonda kwambiri maganizo a bwana wamkazi, yemwe mwa njira ina ndimakhala nawo mwayi woti ndiyankhule. Iye, choyamba, adadzizindikiritsa yekha ngati mkazi, monga mayi, ndipo pambuyo pake, atatha zaka makumi atatu, anayamba kumanga ntchito yake, ndipo kuti akondwere, adakwanitsa zonse. "Poyamba, banja, iye amapanga mkazi kukhala mkazi, ndiyeno kudzizindikiritsa monga munthu, ntchito, ndi zina zotero. Ngati mkazi sapanga ntchito - ndizoipa, ngati mkazi sabala mwana, ndiye kuti sadzakhala mkazi wa 100%, "Ndikuganiza, mawu a golidi amene ndinamva.
Nthawi zina ntchito imatenga nthawi yochuluka kwambiri moti palibe nthawi yeniyeni ya banja la nthawi ino. Zimakhala kuti ana amakula okha, chifukwa makolo "amapanga ntchito." Zirizonse zomwe zinali, ndizofunikira kupereka ntchito yoyenera, koma musaiwale za ana, pambuyo pake, za mwamuna. Ngati ntchito yanu idzayendetsa moyo wanu wonse, ndiye kuti ndibwino kuwona ngati kuli koyenera, kaya ndikofunika bwanji ...
Kuntchito - mtsogoleri panyumba - wofewa, wofatsa ndi womvera
Bwana wazimayi nthawi zambiri amagwira nawo mbali pa udindo wake kuti ntchito iyi ya bwana imayamba kukwaniritsidwa pakhomo. Koma amuna amakonda okoma mtima, okoma mtima komanso okonda. Kuchitira nkhanza kwambiri ndi utsogoleri kungathe kuganizira molakwika za ubale wawo. Inde, ngati mwamuna wanu sangakwanitse kupanga zosankha zake, ndiye kuti mwangoyenera kusankha nokha, koma panthawi yomweyi, musamayike mwamuna, ndikukhulupirirani, muli ndi chidwi chanu.
Choyamba - ntchito, ndiye - banja kapena mosiyana?
Kotero, ntchito ndi yofunika kwa inu, koma simungaleke kulingalira ngati mtsogoleri wamkazi akhoza kukhala wosangalala m'moyo wake. Choyamba, khalani patsogolo, yesani bwino, zomwe ziri zofunika kwambiri kwa inu: kunyumba ndi banja kapena banja lanu ndi nyumba yanu ndi ntchito. Mukamayankha funso losavuta kumva, mumvetsetsa momwe mungayankhire.
Zomwe mumaika patsogolo ndi zolinga zanu. Ndipo ngati cholinga chanu cha moyo chikusangalala ndi moyo wa banja, ndipo ntchito yanu imafuna kudzipereka kwambiri kuti mukwaniritse ntchito zapamwamba, ndiye ndikuganiza kuti banjali siliyenera kuperekedwa. Pa nthawi yomweyi, ngati muli otanganidwa ndi ntchito yanu ndikufika pamalopo, ndiye kuti molimba mtima mupite ku cholinga chomwe mukufuna, koma musadandaule za kusowa kwachinsinsi.
Njira yotuluka ndiyo
Koma palinso kutanthauza golidi. Sitimayiwala kuti tonse timagwira ntchito, nthawi zina nthawi yaitali komanso movuta, koma panthawi yomweyi, timatha kukhala mayi ndi mkazi wabwino. Kawirikawiri ntchito ya mtsogoleri wazimayi ndi tsiku lachidziwikire la ntchito kwa mkazi wamba, chifukwa chiyani muyenera kusiya "maboma a boma" movomerezeka.
Mwinamwake ndinu mutu wa bizinesi ya banja, ndinu mwini wanu nthawi, kotero mukhoza kukonza izo monga zikugwirizana ndi inu ndi banja lanu. Kodi sizogwirizana?
Kuchokera pa zonsezi, mutha kumaliza mfundo yosavuta: chirichonse chili m'manja mwanu. chisangalalo cha mtsogoleri wazimayi mwachindunji chimadalira pa iye, ndipo ngati akufuna kukhala wachimwemwe, ndiye adzakhala choncho, chifukwa yemwe, osati mwiniwake, ayenera kudziwa momwe angakwaniritsire ndi kukwaniritsa cholinga chake. Kupeza chimwemwe cha banja, komanso kukwaniritsa mapamwamba a ntchito, ndi zolinga za moyo zomwe zidzakwaniritsidwe ndi omwe akuzifunadi.