Momwe mungayamikirizere munthu

Pambuyo pake, sindinadziwe kuyamikira mwamuna wokondedwa, zomwe ndingapereke, choti ndinene? Funso limeneli likufunsidwa ndi mkazi aliyense yemwe ali wachikondi kapena amakonda kupenga. Ndi gulu lachiwiri, chirichonse chiri chosavuta. Mayi amamva ndi moyo wake, mtima wake, selo lirilonse la thupi lake. Amadziwa bwino kuti mtima wachikondi udzamuuza njira yoyenera. Kotero ndiyenera kupereka chiyani? Momwe mungayamikirire? Funso limeneli silingayankhidwe kokha ndi iwo omwe sapempha uphungu kwa akunja, ali okhulupirika kwa iwo okha ndi okha. Palibe ambiri mwa iwo. Timakayikira nthawi zonse, timaopa kuchita chinachake cholakwika, kukwiyitsa kapena kukwiyitsa wolakwira, kukukhumudwitsa kapena kungovulaza tchuthi. Mwachabe! Machenjerero oterewa, tonsefe timasokoneza.

Ndikofunika kukhazikitsa cholinga ndikuchikwaniritsa. Kodi mwasankha kuyamikira wokondedwa wanu kuti adzakumbukire izi pa moyo? Mupatseni ndakatulo, ndipo palibe bwino kapena chimodzi, koma bukhu lonse limene mungalembetse moona mtima za momwe mukumvera, momwe simungakhalire popanda iye, ndi zina zotero. Kodi mukuganiza kuti munthu sangakhudze izi?

Taonani njira ina. Mwachitsanzo, kuchokera kusukulu mumakonda kupereka khadi ndi kapepala kapena khadi ndi anyamata achichepere pa February 23, sikofunika kupereka, zimangochitika potsatira uphungu wa aphunzitsi kapena amayi anu omwe amayesera kupereka ndalama zochepa kuti apereke mphatso kwa mnyamata wosadziwika. Inde, ndi mmene zinaliri ndi ambiri, koma si choncho ayi! Chimene chinali kusukulu, muyenera kuiwala! Ponyani kunja kwanga! Sitiperekanso mphatso kwa mnyamata kusukulu, koma kwa wokondedwayo! Ichi ndi kusiyana.

Munthu wokondeka sadzakondwera ndi chidwi, koma ndi chidwi chachikulu ndi chisamaliro, lolani mphatso yanu ikhale yosiyana. Muyenera kumverera zomwe mungapereke. Mwinamwake kudzakhala ndakatulo, nyimbo kapena kuvomereza mwachangu mu chikondi chanu pa iye. Kupititsa patsogolo! Konzani chakudya chokoma, chinachake chimene sanayese, chinachake chomwe chingamudabwe, chonde. Mwamuna ayenera kumverera kuti ndi wapadera, wapadera ndipo alibe zofanana.

Ngati mupatsa positi, yesani, kuti mulibe zolemba zochepa, ndi zina zolembedwa ndi inu. Simukusowa kulembanso malemba pa intaneti kapena mabuku - mumatha kulemba zinthu zonse nokha, bwino kuposa penapake. Ingolumikizanitsa chidziwitso chanu ndi chikondi ndi kuwala, ku zomwe zikuchitika mu moyo wanu! Pano pali chinsinsi chosavuta kuti mupambane polemba makalata. Lolani sipadzakhalanso malemba, pangakhale palibe kulemba kwina kokongola, koma kudzakhala koyambirira ndi imodzi.

Mwamuna wanu adziwa momwe mumamukondera, momwe amakukonderani. Ndikhulupirire, yankho silidzakudikirirani. Mu moyo wake, padzakhala chizindikiro cha chisamaliro chachilendo, za momwe chinachitika chokhudza mtima.

Chofunika cha amuna ndi chakuti ena amabisa maganizo awo komanso ngakhale kumverera. Musati muwopsyeze izi! Yesetsani kukhala omasuka naye, ndipo adzakuululirani. Ingokhala oleza mtima!

Kumbukirani kuti chinsinsi cha kupambana chiri mwa chikondi, kudzipereka, malingaliro ndi chikhumbo. Padzakhala chikondi ndi kuwona mtima - padzakhala malingaliro ndi chikhumbo chochiyika icho kukhala chenicheni.

Kondani amuna anu! Apatseni nokha ndi chikondi chanu! Khalani okondwa!