Koma kawirikawiri pambuyo pake anthu sakuwona konse, kapena sali osowa kwambiri. Komabe, pakali pano, funso liyenera kuchitika: Chifukwa chiyani mkazi ndi mwamuna sakhalabe mabwenzi, ngakhale atero? Yankho, monga lamulo, ndi "ayi", ngakhale kwinakwake pamtima wa munthu aliyense amakhulupirira mosiyana.
Kuchokera pa chikhalidwe chachikazi:
Chifukwa chonse mwa iwo, osati mwa ife: kuyankhulana ndi msungwanayo, sangathe kumuchitira ngati chinthu chogonana ndipo sangathe kuganiza ngati adzamukoka kapena ayi, ndipo ngati atero, ndiye-usiku uno kapena tsiku lotsatira?
Kuchokera pamfundo ya amuna
Chifukwa chonse chiri mwa iwo, osati mwa ife: atsikana sangathe kumvetsa mavuto athu; Onsewa amatha kulankhula zokhazokha za nkhanza ndi miseche, koma safuna kudziwa chilichonse chocheperapo.
Anyamata onse amangoganiza za chinthu chimodzi.
Atsikana ambiri amakhulupirira moona mtima kuti kukwatirana ndi kukonda amuna kumawongolera chinthu chimodzi: posakhalitsa kugona ndi chilakolako china. Kotero, molingana ndi msungwana wamba, pali ziganizo ziwiri: poyamba, anyamata sangakhale okhulupirika ndi amzanga okhulupirika ngati amayamikira kugonana kusiyana ndi ubale weniweni, ndiko kuti, iwo ali okwanira mokwanira ndi chikhalidwe chawo, chifukwa chokhutira ndi zachibadwa zachilengedwe (chakudya , kugonana ndi zina zotero) ndizofunika kwambiri kwa iwo kuposa "chakudya chauzimu". Amuna nthawi zambiri amavutika chifukwa cholephera kulondola komanso kuzindikira mozama zomwe zimawazungulira ndikuzindikira kuti kumwetulira komweko ndikokuitanira kukagona.
Chinthu china:
Mtsikanayo akufuna kupita kwinakwake kukapuma. Inde, nthawi yomweyo amayamba kuyitana anzake onse kuti am'pange naye pamsewu. Komabe, chifukwa choipa, ndi anthu osayenera kwambiri, ndiwo, anyamata, ali omasuka panthawi ino. Ndipo ngati mtsikana atenga munthu wina paulendowu, ndiye kuti adzafotokozera kutalika kuti ngati apita pamodzi, izi sizikutanthauza kuti azitha tsiku lonse kugonana. Ngakhale poyamba anali ndi ubale wachikondi.
Koma sikuti anthu okha ndi osamvetsetseka. Komabe, atsikana nthawi zina amafunanso kuwonetsa kuti kuchita nawo chidwi ndi njira imodzi yokhala ndi chibwenzi komanso kukondana. Vuto la atsikana ndiloti sangathe kuthana ndi munthu amene amamukonda (pambuyo pa zonse, tikuyesera kulankhulana ndi anthu otere - mwa kuyankhula kwina, sizingatheke kuti mutha kukambirana nawo), ngakhale munthu uyu bwenzi lapamtima. Komabe, nthawi zina kugonana kumathera chimodzimodzi monga momwe madona aang'ono amayembekezera. Kumvetsetsa pakati pa mnyamata ndi mtsikana n'kofunika kwambiri.
Kodi msungwana amamvetsetsa mnyamata?
Mosakayikira, atsikana ambiri sali ndi njira zenizeni zogwiritsira ntchito nthawi, monga kumwa mowa (ndi zakumwa zina zoledzeretsa) ndi kuyendera mpira kumacheza pamodzi ndi mabwenzi okhulupirika. Komabe, mungatsimikize kuti izi sizikutanthauza zolephera za amayi konse! Pali atsikana ambiri omwe amayang'ana zonse zofanana pa mpira, komanso samakana kumwa, ngati padzakhala "nthawi yoyenera".
Atsikana omwe ali m'gulu la abambo ndi chodabwitsa, momveka bwino, mwachindunji. Ndipo si zophweka kuti mukhale omasuka mu gulu lomwe liri ndi achinyamata okha. Ayi, sikuti mmodzi wa anyamatawo adzakayikira kukula kwanu kwa nzeru. Zimanenedwa kuti sizingakhale zosavuta nthawi zonse kukhalabe ndi chiyanjano - popeza mutadziyesa kukhala bwenzi, ndiye kuti mudzatengedwa ngati ofanana, ndi anyamata okondweretsa, olemekezeka mu kampani ya amayi, nthawizina saona kuti ndi kofunikira, monga akunena, "Sindinitsani msika." Ndipo ngati mukufuna chiyanjano, ndiye kuti mumayenera kuvomereza kupanda ungwiro kwa anyamata. N'zosatheka kuti mutha kuphunzira mau ambiri atsopano, koma mungadabwe ndi luso limene anyamata amagwiritsira ntchito mawuwa, komanso nthawi yomwe amagwiritsa ntchito.
Kulimbana ndi moyo kapena ubwenzi?
Anyamata amaganiza kuti atsikana nthawi zonse amawomba komanso osakhutira ndi chinachake. Oimira abambo ogonana sakufuna kumva zomwe mtsikanayo amawauza (ndithudi, zabwino zawo ndi "mwana wamasiye wosaona wosamva"!). Iwo safuna kumvetsera "akudandaula", ngati mutha kukhala pansi pamodzi ndi anyamata!
Ndipo olemekezeka kwambiri "akudandaula" ndi chirichonse, ndipo kumbuyo kwa kudzudzula kwawo, amayi akumbukira kuti nthawi zambiri iwowo ndi amene amachititsa zimenezi. Chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe zingatheke kutero ndi mantha a anyamata, kuti asungwana amatsutsa ufulu wawo, ndipo amuna ambiri amaopa kwambiri. Vuto lalikulu lolepheretsa ufulu wokondedwa kwambiri, monga anyamata ambiri amaganiza, amabwera poyamba kuchokera kwa mtsikana. Choncho, anyamata akuwopa kuti kunyenga kwa udindo wa bwenzi kumapanga zomwezo.
Epilogue (kapena maganizo pamapeto)
Kotero, kodi pangakhale ubale pakati pa mnyamata ndi mtsikana? Poyang'ana, zikhoza kuoneka, timakakamiza chinthu chilichonse. Mwinamwake mavuto athu ali chifukwa cha kukula kwa chisankho, osati chifukwa cha kusakhalapo kwake, monga momwe iwo amazolowera kunena? Tinadzifotokozera tokha fano la mnzathu yemwe si mwamuna kapena mkazi mnzathu, adam'dalitsa ndi zinthu zopanda ungwiro ndipo sakufuna kuvomereza kuti izi sizinali zenizeni? Kapena kodi vuto limene timakumana nalo nthawi zonse timayesetsa kufunafuna zinthu zabwino zomwe zimakondana ndi mnzawo? Ndipo musayese kudzivomereza tokha, kodi ife tikuyang'anabe ndani, tikukhulupirira kuti bwenzi lapamtima lidzakhala wokondedwa kwambiri, ndipo mosiyana?