Osati chifukwa ndilibe zambiri - mosiyana. Chochuluka kwambiri, kuti mwanjira ina chimatanthauzidwa: ngati mutayankhulana ndi amalume anu onse, amalume, amalume, abale anayi ndi alongo - moyo sikokwanira. Chifukwa chake, ndinali ndi mwayi wochuluka wopindula ndi kuchuluka kwa abwenzi awiri kapena atatu omwe amawakonda kwambiri ndi azibale awo, amalume awo ndi aakazi. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, ine ndiri nawo ufulu wosankha - chinachake chomwe, molingana ndi lamulo losalembedweratu No. 1, iwe umatayika, kukhala ndi udindo wachibale. Koma momwe mungakhalire ndi achibale m'nyumba imodzi?
Mayi anga aang'ono atabwera kudzacheza ndi mnzanga. Kwa ola limodzi mlendo adanyoza chirichonse chimene chinamugwira maso ake. Kudzudzula kunaperekedwa mwachidule ndi uphungu wabwino, ndi zokoma: "Ndikufuna zabwino." Mwachitsanzo, iye analangiza mwamphamvu mwana wake kuti apangenso malo ena abwino. Popeza kuti mtsikanayo atangomaliza kukonza, malangizowa ankangokhala ngati akunyoza, kapena kuti ndi uthenga woipa kwambiri: "Zonse zomwe munachita si zabwino". Panthawiyi, mayiyo adanena za magazi kuti anali atazinga makomawo ndi zithunzi zolakwika, anagula mbale yolakwika, zopukutira zolakwika, ndipo adaziyika patebulo. Sindikudziwa chomwe chinachititsa mkazi kuchita izi - kulera kosauka kapena chikhumbo chodziyesa yekha? Koma pamene khomo linamenyedwa pambuyo pake, ndinadziwa bwino momwe bwenzi langa anamverera, ngati kuti anali atadulidwa kuchokera kumutu mpaka kumapazi, kundikakamiza kuti ndimwetulire mokoma. "Sindidzamuitaniranso!" Adatero mwamphamvu. Ndithandizira kwathunthu ...
Komabe, theka la chaka pambuyo pake, lamulo mwadzidzidzi linapeza zotsatira. Nkhani ya mayi ake aang'ono adakambirana kwambiri. "Ndiko, bwanji, iwe sungamuitane iye? - wodziwika anakhudzidwa ndi kutha. "Ndiyo aakazi anu omwe." "Koma azakhali anga ankachita zoipa kwambiri," ndinauza mnzanga. - "Ndipo chiyani? - Sindinamvetsetse mfundo yodziwika bwino. "Ndiwo azakhali." Amayi anga aakazi akafika panyumba, amachitira zinthu zoipa kwambiri. Koma kodi ndingatani - mayi, mayi wa mwamuna wake. Anamuphunzitsa iye popanda bambo ake, kupatula iye, alibe wina. Tiyenera kupirira. "
Kenaka ndinapanga lamulo lachiwiri losavomerezeka, limene linalongosola momwe tingakhalire ndi achibale m'nyumba imodzi. Achibale ali ndi ufulu wokhumudwitsa ife chifukwa ndi achibale athu. Azimayi ali ndi ufulu wowononga miyoyo yathu, chifukwa ndi amayi athu. Ndipo malamulo awa amawoneka osagwedezeka kwa ambiri kuti ngakhale kuyesera kuyika funso chizindikiro pamapeto kumakhala kuwopsya mmalo mwa mfundo. Ndipo ndibwino kuyesera ... Kodi udindo wapamwamba wa mayi umamupatsa ufulu woti asokoneze moyo wa mwana wake? Kodi udindo wa wachibale umalepheretsa munthu kukhala ndi ntchito yolondola ndi yaulemu? Ndipo, potsiriza, kodi mgwirizano wa banja umapatsa anthu ufulu ngakhale kuti asakukondeni inu poyera?
Kusinthanitsa zaka makumi anai (!), Bwenzi langa anatenga chisankho cholimba ndikusiya kulankhulana ndi bambo ake. Iye sali mwa iye, "adatero. "Mkazi wake wachitatu." Nthaŵi zonse amandidana mopanda kundikonda. Inde, iye sanaitanidwe, sanamenyetse ... Mwatsoka. Ndiye ndimangochokapo. " Mtsikana wokwana zaka makumi asanu ndi awiri (20) adayenera kukhala naye pa holide patebulo limodzi ndikumvetsera kuti: "O, ndimakonda bwanji. Kodi ndi wotani? Kodi munagula izo ku bazaar? Zosauka ... Kodi mwamuna wanu amapeza ndalama zochepa kwambiri? Sili mwayi, simuli ndi mwayi ndi iye ... "kapena" Simunali ku Vienna? Zimakhala zomvetsa chisoni bwanji. Ndi momwe moyo udzakhalire, ndipo simudzawona chilichonse. Ndipotu, simunali mtsikana, muli ndi makwinya pamaso panu. " "Iwe ukudziwa, ine sindiri kwenikweni msungwana," anatero mzanga. - Ndatopa kupita kukawachezera ndikumvetsera momwe akundichitira manyazi chifukwa cha chinyengo chachikulu cha banja labwino. Ngati bambo anga akufuna kundiwona, tidzakumananso kumadera ena. "
Pamene ndinali ndi amayi anga, wachibale anabwera kudzatichezera (osati mmodzi mwa okondedwa kwambiri). Pambuyo pa masiku angapo, tinazindikira kuti zinthu zinali zitatha m'nyumba. Osati mtengo wapatali komanso wamtengo wapatali - magazini yomwe ndinaika pafupi ndi malo olandira mipando, ndikufuna kuwerenga masana, lipenga la nsapato ... Mlendoyo sanaba - adawatenga popanda kufunsa, anawatenga nawo ndipo sanawabwezere nthawi zonse. Magaziniyi inayiwalika mu basi yamoto, lipenga likutayika ... Mayi wokonda mtendere adayesa kundikakamiza kuti nditseke maso anga. Ndagwidwa pamapu a Kiev - njira yomwe mungathe kugula pa kiosk kwa hryvnia zingapo, koma mtengo wanga kwa ine, chifukwa panthawi ya kafukufuku akuyendera kuzungulira mzindawo, misewu yambiri inayendetsedwa. Ndinalifunika kwambiri. Ndipo nditatha kuzindikira chotaikacho, ndinauza mlendo zonse. Anapepesa. Zomwezo zatha.
Tsiku lina ndikuwerenga anecdote . "Wophunzira sukulu akulemba nkhani. "Tsoka ilo, amayi, abambo ndi achibale ena amabwera kwa ife pa msinkhu umenewo ndizosatheka kuthetsa zizoloŵezi zawo zoipa." Kusuta, adagwirizana naye. Koma osati mpaka mapeto. Nthawi zina sitiyesa kuchita zimenezo. Timangokhala chete ndikulekerera, kumvera lamulo mwachimvekere: "Chabwino, mungachite chiyani? Zomwezo (amayi, apongozi, msuweni, amalume)." Koma ngati ndinkakhala chete pamapu, wachibale wanga wochokera ku mutuwo "osachokera kwa okondedwa kwambiri" angasunthire "kwa omwe sayenera kuyankhulana nawo." Titapereka chidziwitso ndi iye, tinasiyanitsa mwachizolowezi, ndipo pambuyo pake nthawi zambiri ankatiyendera. Inde, iye anachita mopanda malire. Ine, malingaliro a amayi anga, nawonso. "Kodi mungachite chiyani? Simunaleredwe m'masamba, koma ndili ku Institute of Noble Maidens," tinagwirizana. Koma kusadzikonda kwathu kunatithandiza kukhalabe mabwenzi.
Ndipo ndimakana kuvomereza lamulo losavomerezeka nambala 3. Kuli bwino mwaulemu kudana ndi achibale kusiyana ndi kusayankhula mwatsatanetsatane, kulankhula nawo moona mtima ndi kukhazikitsa chiyanjano. Chifukwa ndikudziwa kuchokera pazochitikira - ndizotheka! Ndipo ndi amayi, ndi azakhali, ngakhale agogo a zaka makumi asanu ndi atatu omwe mungathe kuvomereza - nthawi zina mumangoyankhula nawo ndi mawu omwewo omwe mungamuuze mnzanuyo.
Kodi ndizoyenera kukhala ololera kulekerera kusasamala kwenikweni? Makamaka ngati mkhalidwewo ungakonzedwe? Ngati timang'ambika mano, kodi ifeyo timachita ndi ophedwa omwe ali ovomerezeka? "Mwinamwake," bwenziyo adanenanso kuti, "ngati ndikanapandukira nthawi yomweyo, ndili ndi zaka makumi awiri, ndikukana kupita kunyumba kwa bambo anga, akanamvetsa: chinachake chalakwika. Tsopano sanamvetse chifukwa chake ndinangopanduka mwadzidzidzi. "
Sindidzanama kwa inu - nthawi zina poyesera kulankhula zakukhosi ndi mtima, palibe chomwe chimachitika. Muyenera kukweza vutolo mwaulemu ndikunena kuti: "Simungathe" - mnzanu wapafupi amabisala kumbuyo, ngati khoma, malamulo osadziwika omwe timamanga. "Achibale ali ndi ufulu wokhumudwitsa ife chifukwa ndi achibale athu." Zomwe zikuwoneka motere: kwa achibale mulibe ufulu wokhumudwitsidwa (mwina, kwa nthawi yaitali). Komanso, sizimveka, chifukwa, molingana ndi ulamuliro nambala 1, kusankha - kulankhula nawo kapena ayi -bebebe. Ndipo nthawi zambiri banja limakana kuvomereza zolakwitsa zawo, kuyanjana, kapena ngakhale kulemetsa nokha pokhapokha ngati iwo akukhulupirira kuti sizinayende bwino. Akamakhulupirira kuti muli ndi ufulu wosankha, zinthu zimasintha bwanji. Mnzanga sankalankhulana ndi azakhali anga pafupifupi chaka chimodzi. Kenako adasonkhananso pamodzi. Palibe amene anauza aliyense kalikonse, koma ngati kuti mwa matsenga, azakhali anga anasandulika kukhala mkazi wokondweretsa, wamba. Mwinamwake iye sanafune kuti ataya mwana wake wamkazi. Kapena mwinamwake chiyanjano cha magazi chidalipobe ndipo osayimilira amakhalanso ndi ife. Ndikufuna kukhulupirira izi ...
Pakuti pali china chododometsa. M'nthawi yathu ino, pamene mabanja achibadwidwe akhalabe kale, malamulo atatu a ubale ndi achibale akufotokozedwanso ndikuti ife tinayiwala zabwino zabwino zakale ndi achibale! Ndi chinthu chimodzi pamene banja liri mayi wosakwatiwa ndi mwana wake wamwamuna wamkulu, yemwe adawafotokozera kuti: "Ndakuperekerani zonse, ndipo, popanda inu, ndilibe wina." Ndipo palinso zina, pamene ali pafupi ndi makumi asanu ndi amodzi - mbadwa, msuwani, msuwani, koma akudzimva kuti ndi achibale! Ndipo mukhoza kusankha kwa iwo omwe ali oyenera mzimu ndi chizindikiro cha zodiac. Ndipo ngati mukusowa thandizo, ndipo mwamuna ali wotanganidwa - mumangotchula amalume kapena m'bale wanu. Ndipo amayi opeza ovulaza ndi zovuta zazing'ono, ngati si zitatu, koma amalongo aakazi, aakazi, azibale awo, ndi azibale awo amakhala pansi pa phwando patebulo. Iwe umangokhala kumapeto ena a tebulo ndi omwe ali okondedwa kwa iwe. Ndipo ngakhale tsiku lina simungathe kubwera, palibe yemwe adzakuimbani mlandu wotsutsa miyambo ya banja ... Mu ichi kagal sichidzazindikiridwa!