Choyamba, tiyeni tiyesere kuzindikira momwe aliri ndi momwe tingamenyere. Kotero, manyazi ndikumverera mopanda nzeru, kudzikayikira, zomwe munthu amakumana nazo pamaso pa anthu ena. Mwachitsanzo, kodi muli ndizovuta kuti mupemphe ndalama pa basi? Kapena kupempha thandizo kuchokera ku malamulo, kuti athandize kuthetsa nkhani yovuta? Ndipo pa disco, kumbuyo kumamangirira ku khoma ndipo ndizosatheka kupita patsogolo ndikupita kuvina? Ngati zikuchitika, musadandaule, chifukwa anthu ambiri amavutika ndi manyazi, zomwe zingawonekere poyamba. Ndipo bwenzi lanu lapamtima lingathe kumverera momwemo. Ndiyo yekha amene savomereza izi kapena, monga momwe zilili nthawi zambiri, amadzibisa yekha chifukwa cha umunthu wake wamunthu komanso wamwano.
Nthawi zambiri anthu amanyazi amavutika ndi anthu osatetezeka omwe amadziyerekezera ndi ena. Nzosadabwitsa kuti nthawi zambiri amatha kutengera fanizoli, ngati kuti amalingalira, nthawi zonse amadziyika okha pa sitepe ili m'munsimu. Izi ndi zoona makamaka kwa atsikana omwe ali achinyamata. Amalingalira mofanana ndi izi: "Ivanova amapereka mosavuta algebra, chifukwa bambo ake ndi katswiri wa masamu" kapena "Ndikanakhala wamtali ngati Petrova, ndimasewera nawo volleyball". Ndipo ngati zonsezi zakwiya chifukwa cha kusakhutira kwa makolo, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta kuphunzira momwe mungadzidwire nokha ngati dona. Komabe, sikuti aphunzitsi a sukulu amangokhala osasamala. Kumverera uku sikungopita ndi msinkhu. Atsikana amatha kusokoneza onse kusukulu ya sekondale, ndi ntchito yotchuka. Ndipo ngakhale atapuma pantchito, amayi ambiri samachotsa kukayikira.
Mwa njira, munthu sayenera kusokoneza kumverera kwa chitetezo ndi kudzichepetsa. Monga umodzi wa ma greats anati, kudzichepetsa kumakometsera munthu. Mwachitsanzo, Mfumukazi ya Great Britain Elizabeth II ndi mkazi wodzichepetsa komanso wokongola. Koma simungatchule dzinali mosatsimikizika! Zoonadi, sitiri mfumukazi, koma ifenso tifunika chinthu china! Zokwanira kufuna, ndipo kudzidalira kudzaonekera. Kumverera uku kungalimbikitsidwe mwa iweeni. Pamene akunena, ndizovuta - sizikutanthauza zosatheka. Mukungoyenera: a) kumvetsa kuti vuto liripo, b) mukufuna kukonza, c) musataye mtima, musataye mtima, pamene chinachake sichigwira ntchito, ndipo chitamandeni nokha kupambana. Choncho, tiyeni tiyesetse kupanga zochepa zomwe zingatithandize kuti tidzidalira.
Gawo loyamba
Lekani kudziyerekeza nokha kwa ena! Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri kuti mkazi aliyense akhale ndi chidaliro. Musakokomeze zofooka zanu, khalani pa iwo. Ndipo, mosiyana, ganizirani mobwerezabwereza ubwino. Ndipo inu muli nazo izo, inu simungakhoze kukhala mosiyana. Choyamba, tenga pepala, pagawani zigawo ziwiri ndikulemba mndandanda wa makhalidwe anu. Mu chimodzi lembani zonse zomwe simukuzikonda nokha, ndi zina zomwe zingathe kuzilingalira. Mwachitsanzo, "Ndine wodzichepetsa kwambiri, koma sindiri kumbuyo. Sindinayanjane naye, koma sindine wovuta. " Kuzindikira ulemu wanu, zidzakhala zosavuta kuti mupeze chithandizo pazovuta. Kaŵirikaŵiri kumbukirani malingaliro anu za ubwino wotchulidwa. Ndipo pitirizani kulemba mndandanda wa zofooka monga vuto lomwe simunasankhepo, koma mudzachitadi. Chimodzi mwa zinthu zosiyana kwambiri ndi anthu amanyazi - si oyamba kukambirana. Kotero tiyeni titenge sitepe yotsatira.
Khwerero 2
Khwerero 2 - zokambirana zosadziwika. Pambuyo pake, kuvomereza, ndi kosavuta kulankhula pamene simukuwona interlocutor, ngakhale izi poyamba zimaperekedwa movutikira. Mungayesere kuganiza kuti si inu amene mumanena, koma mnzanu wodalirika kapena ... Cameron Diaz, mwachitsanzo. Kodi kukongola koteroko kungakhale kochititsa manyazi bwanji ndi kukambirana kwa pa telefoni! Mwachitsanzo, funsani katsamba kouma ndipo muphunzire mwatsatanetsatane momwe amagwira ntchito, momwe angafikire komanso momwe angagwiritsire ntchito malaya angapo panthawi. Pitani kwinakwake mpaka mutamva kuti mumakambirana mosavuta komanso mwachibadwa, ngakhale pamene mulibe. Ndipo mukakwaniritsa digirii yoyenera, ndi nthawi yoti mutulukemo "pansi".
Khwerero 3
Gawo lotsatira ndi kukambirana kokondweretsa. Mwina izi ndizovuta kwambiri pakugonjetsa manyazi. Chabwino, ndani anati izo zidzakhala zophweka? Pano pali vuto lalikulu. Phulani mapewa anu, kumwetulira, kutenga mpweya wakuya ndi ... nthawi 10 funsani odutsa, ndi nthawi yanji. Osapondaponda pa malo amodzi - yowonjezerani kayendedwe kake, khalani mumsewu umodzi kupita kumalo ena. Ndiyeno inu mukhoza kuzoloŵera, ndipo anthu amalingalira-ndi mtsikana wokoma bwanji, ndipo akuvutika ndi matenda oyambirira. Mwachitsanzo, mnzanga wina wa chibwenzi wanga ankachita masitolo. Ndinapita koyamba ndikuyamba kukambirana ndi wogulitsayo: "Ndiuzeni chonde, kodi soya ili mu sausages? Ndipo mwa iwo? Ndipo kodi moyo wawo wa alumali ndi chiyani? Ndipo kodi iwe udzachita chiyani? "Funso lomalizira ndilo, ndithudi, molimba mtima, chifukwa wogulitsa akhoza kugwidwa popanda kusangalala. Koma ziribe kanthu, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti muli nacho. Pano inu mwatsala pang'ono kupambana! Ndipo ngakhale wina atakhala mwanjira yonyansa, kumbukirani, chinthu chachikulu ndi maganizo abwino, ziribe kanthu.
Khwerero Chachinayi
Khwerero 4 ndi "mawonekedwe abwino". Ngakhale kupambana kochepa ndikofunikira kudziyamika nokha, ndi kukonza zotsatira. Kuti muchite izi, tsiku lililonse musanagone ndipo mwamsanga mutadzuka, tchulani nokha za mawu olimbikitsa. Mwachitsanzo: "Ndine munthu wabwino. Kwa ine onse adzatha. Ndidzaphunzira kuphunzira kumwetulira, kulankhulana ndikukondweretsa anthu. Chilichonse chidzakhala chabwino kwa ine lero. " Inu mukhoza kubwera ndi lemba lanueni. Mwachitsanzo, heroine wa filimu yotchuka kwambiri adayankha kuti: "Ndine wokongola komanso wokongola kwambiri." Chinthu chachikulu - yesetsani kupewa kupezeka kwachabechabe (mwachitsanzo, "Sindidzakhala chete" m'malo mwawo "Ndidzalankhula"). Bwerezani kangapo.
Zimathandizanso kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Tsekani maso anu ndi kugwira dzanja lanu lamanzere ndi dzanja lanu lamanja. Kumbukirani pamene mudakhala ndi chidaliro pamene mukulankhulana ndikuyesera kukumbukira dziko lino. Khalani monga choncho kwa masekondi angapo. Tsopano tonthola, yendendayenda m'chipindamo ndikudzigwiranso ndi dzanja. Muyenera kukhala otsimikiza! Mungagwiritse ntchito njirayi pamasewero okondweretsa nokha - ndi chiyanjano chatsopano kapena ntchito yodalirika. Phunzirani kumwetulira makamaka pamene mukulankhulana ndi anthu, chifukwa kuyang'ana koopsa, koopsa kungapangitse kukambirana kulikonse. Icho chimawona anthu akuzungulirani ndipo mudzawona kuti yemwe samasunthira nkhopeyo amadzipangira yekha. Tsopano popeza mwapeza luso loyankhulana, ndi nthawi yowonjezera gawo lachithunzi. Tengani sitepe yotsatira.
Gawo lachisanu
Kondwerani! "Ndi zophweka kunena," iwe uganiza, ndipo iwe udzakhala wolondola. Gawo ili ndilovuta kwambiri. Ndipotu, m'pofunika kuti tipange umunthu, kuti tisiyane ndi anthu. Koma ndithudi mwazindikira kuti munthu amene akusewera gitala kapena akuwonetsa zidule amafunidwa mu kampani iliyonse. Ndipo gulu loyankhulana pakati pa anthu awa ndi lalikulu kwambiri. Choncho, popanda kutaya nthawi, thawirani kuti mulembele gulu lamasewero lamakono kapena studio ya zisudzo. Kapena mwinamwake mwakhala mukusungunula zipolopolo za toyuniki kuyambira zaka zisanu, ndipo muli ndi zowonongeka. Gawani chilakolako chanu ndi anzanu ndipo, amene akudziwa, mwinamwake mudzabweretsedwanso kuchokera ku mizinda yosiyana siyana! Mwachidziwikire, chinthu chachikulu - mulole moyo wanu ukhale wosangalatsa kwa inu. Ndiyeno adzakhala ndi chidwi ndi wina! Mudzapeza abwenzi ndikuchotsa mavuto ambiri omwe mutha kuwoneka ngati opanda pake.
Chabwino, ndikuyembekeza tinakukhulupirirani kuti manyazi sali chilango cha moyo. Ndi khalidwe chabe limene mungathe ndipo muyenera kugwira ntchito. Khalani osasinthasintha, ndipo mudzagonjetsa manyazi. Ndipotu, mkazi, wodzidalira yekha, angathe kuchita chilichonse. Adzalowa m'nyumba yopsereza, ndipo adzaimitsa kavalo pa gallop ... Ndipo phunzirani, ndi kumanga ntchito, ndikupeza munthu wabwino padziko lapansi. Ngati mukufuna kukwaniritsa izi, yambani lero, mwamsanga, tsopano!