Mu moyo timasewera maudindo osiyanasiyana: Innovator, The Seeker, Wachikondwerero, Wa Entrepreneur, Mkonzi, Analyst, Wotsutsa, Wothandizira ... Mukhoza kupitiriza kwamuyaya. Panjira yopititsa patsogolo zolinga zathu, tiyenera kuphunzira kutembenuka mwamsanga kuti tipeze maudindo omwe amathandiza kuti tithe kusintha machitidwe omwe amasintha.
Zikakhala kuti kusintha kwa dziko latsopano kumayamba ndi chilakolako chilichonse chokhumba, ndiye kuti gawo lathu panthawi ino liyenera kukhala lolimbikitsa, lolimbikitsa. Ndiye ife timatembenukira ku zochita zonyansa, motero, udindo wa munthu wodabwitsa ndi wolimba umakhala wogwirizana. Malingana ndi ntchito zatsopano zomwe zimayambira kutsogolo kwa ife, tidzatha kuyesetsa kupeza maudindo athu enieni, komanso chofunika kwambiri, kuti tizitha kugwira ntchito ndi mzimu komanso momwe tingagwire ntchitoyi.
Kodi mungasankhe bwanji udindo ndikulowa fano?
Choyamba muyenera kufufuza zomwe mumamva bwino, zomwe zimakhala zovuta. Ndiye ife timayambitsa luso lathu, lomwe, monga momwe linapangidwira, limapangitsa dzenje la chidziwitso chathu ndikutha kupyola muzowona, limatulukira mphamvu zathu, ndipo pamodzi ndi ilo timachoka pa malire a malingaliro a tsiku ndi tsiku.
Yerekezerani nokha ndi magulu atsopano. Chitani mabungwe ndi zinthu, zinyama, zochitika zachilengedwe, anthu ena. Chithunzi chilichonse chatsopano chimapereka chidziwitso cha mphamvu zanu ndi mawonetseredwe. Njira yowonjezera kukhala "I" yoyamba imayamba ndi kuyambitsa chidziwitso, zomwe nthawi zambiri zimasonyeza kumene gwero liri.
Zonsezi zidzakuthandizira kudziyesa nokha kuchokera panja muzosiyana. Pamaso panu mudzawona munthu watsopano.
Pokhala mutagwira ntchito yanu, ndiko kuti, kudzidziwa nokha, zidzakhala zophweka kuti muyambe kuphunzira za ena. Ndizothandiza kwambiri komanso zosangalatsa kudziwa amuna.
Mukugwira ntchito yanji tsopano?
Tonsefe timayesedwa mobwerezabwereza. Tiyeni tiwone zithunzi zambiri zachikazi.
Predator: "Ndili ngati mkango wamphamvu, ndikubisala, ndipo patsogolo panga pali mbuzi, ng'ombe, nkhosa, njoka za kukwawa, kulumpha akalulu ndi makola akubangula. Ndikumva - posachedwa kusaka kudzayamba! ".
Wopweteka: "Ine, wokoma mtima, wokonzeka bwino, wandizunguliridwa ndi slobbering, amuna amphongo, wofunitsitsa kundiwona ine, ndipo amatha kundigwiritsa ntchito pulogalamu yonse, ngakhale ngakhale-kudya."
Kufananitsa sikungakhoze kuchitidwa osati kuchokera ku zinyama zokha. Zinthu zomwe zimatizungulira zimatithandizanso kulingalira ndikukonzekera mapulojekiti athu.
Pano, mwachitsanzo, nkhani ya mtsikana amene amafuna kuchotsa chizolowezi chake cha gigolo. Iye ankaganiza kuti mtima wake unali chikhomo chomwe, mwachindunji, chilakolako ndi chikondi ziyenera kusungidwa. Poyamba, chikwamacho chinali chodzaza, koma tsopano, pamene moyo wa mtsikanayo uli ndi munthu woipa amene amamasula nthawi zonse zowonongeka m'bokosilo, amangokhala "mdima" mopanda pake. Koma pamene mnyamata wabwino amaonekera, mtsikanayo ayenera kubwezeretsa chuma chake kwa nthawi yayitali, kuyeretsa chotupa cha zosayera.
N'zotheka kupanga kufanana kwa kufanana. Tangoganizani kuti thupi lanu ndi chikho chimene chiyenera kukhala chopanda kanthu kuti munthu weniweni akhoza kudzazilemba yekha. Ngati mutasankha kuti mnyamata wanu sakudziwa zomwe mukufuna kuti muwone bwino, tulukani mu kapu yanu yonse yowonongeka, yowonongeka, yowonongeka, yosokoneza, yovulaza, yowononga. Kawirikawiri, chotsani zonse zomwe simukuzikonda. Sulani malo oti muzimwa zakumwa zokoma, ndiko kuti, kwa munthu amene angakondwereni.
Kodi mukufuna kukhala chiyani?
Mutalandira kulongosola kwa udindo wanu wamtunduwu, yankhani nokha ku funso: kodi ndikhutira ndi inu? Ngati sichoncho, lolani kuti mulole pang'ono.
N'zotheka kuti udindo wa wogwidwayo umasintha udindo wa wodwala. Mwinamwake mdaniyo ayenera kukhala wocheperako magazi. Mwinamwake mukutopa chifukwa choledzera nthawi zonse, kudya, kudya, osapereka chilichonse.
Tangoganizirani fano limene inu muli nacho chitsime chosatha, kapena kuvomereza kuti ndizofunikira zokhazokha, zokhutiritsa zosowa zanu komanso zomwe mungathe kuchita.
Kumbukirani nkhani zamakono ndi mafanizo, tipezerani malo. Ndikhulupirire, ichi ndi ntchito yochititsa chidwi kwambiri.
Onetsetsani kuti mukusangalala ndi zithunzi zatsopano, kuti zikulimbikitseni kuti mukwaniritse zolinga zanu.
Ndi nyama yanji?
Podzidzimva nokha, mukhoza kupita kwa amuna.
Ndi zithunzi ziti zamwamuna zomwe zimatsutsana ndi ife?
Sitikufuna chidwi ndi amuna, omwe angafanane ndi chotupa cha khansa, dzimbiri, asidi oyipa, zipatso zovunda, ndi zina zotero. Sitikufuna chidwi ndi amuna omwe amadya ndi kumwa popanda tsatanetsatane. Sitikufuna chidwi ndi owononga ndi opondereza. Sitinakondwere ndi mphepo yamkuntho, mphepo yamkuntho, zivomezi ndi masoka ena achilengedwe. Sitikukhudzidwa ndi nthata ndi ntchentche, udzudzu ndi ntchentche zowopsya, ziphuphu zopusa ndi akalulu oopa.
Kodi tikufunikiradi chiyani? Kodi munthu wathu angawoneke bwanji?
Iye akhoza kukhala wogonjetsa wolemekezeka, mphunzitsi kapena wothamanga yemwe amapambana pazitalizo. Iye akhoza kukhala mkango yemwe nthawizonse amakhala wokonzeka kutipempherera ife. Angathe kukhala njuchi, yomwe, tikadya timadzi timadzi timene timatulutsa, timatipatsa uchi, umene tingadzidye. Tidzayandikira ndi nyerere zolimbika, agologolo wamba ndi hamsters, njovu zamphamvu komanso zamtendere, ngamila zolimba. Munthu akhoza kukhala injini, kuyendayenda, mawilo komanso kuphwanya kumene kumagwira ntchito mofulumira. Ndipo kompyuta yomwe ili ndi pulosesa yamphamvu yomwe ilibe kupweteka kwambiri ndi pragmatism ndi yabwino.
Malingana ndi mfundo ya Freud, chikhalidwe chachimuna chimafotokozedwa mu mawonekedwe a phalli, ndiko kuti, "protuberances", chachikazi mu niches ndi zinthu zokhazikika, ndiko, "bulges". Izi zimathandiza kuti chidziwitso chanu chikhale chonchi.
Pankhaniyi mukadzasankhidwa mtsogolo ngati phiri losayembekezereka, izi zikutanthauza kuti mukuyang'ana munthu yemwe ali ndi chidziwitso chodziwika bwino. Ngati izo zikufanana ndi bedi lofunda bwino, ndiye kuti mukusowa mnyamata wofewa ndi wofewa.
Pambuyo poyesa mafano anu (akazi ndi abambo), onetsetsani kuti mumayambitsa nkhani zamatsenga. Inu mukhoza kutenga mbiri yotchuka. Izi zidzakuthandizani kuwonetsa zochitika zomwe zikuchitika mu chiyanjano, ndikupangitsani mkati mwachindunji, zomwe zingasankhidwe pamasewero omwe simukudziwa bwino.
Ndimasewera osewera, ndikuganiza, ndizomveka. Ponena za zochitikazi ndikufotokoza. Timatchula magawo a chitukuko cha chithunzicho (malo ogonana ndi mfumu) komanso chikhalidwe cha chitukukochi (osati malo onse omwe angakhale mfumu) Ambiri amatha kusokonekera ndikukhala osasintha. Ena angakhalebe kumunda, koma atakumbatirana pangodya ndipo atakanikizika kumalo owonongeka, amakhala zifaniziro zopanda pake.
Sankhani nokha ntchito ndipo kondwerani!