Kotero, nthawi yafika pamene inu munayamba kuzindikira kuti mnyamata wanu alibe chidwi ndi chirichonse. "Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani?" - Mukuganiza, kupukusa mutu wanu mwachinyengo kuti muwothetse vutoli. Choyamba, sankhani: chifukwa chiyani mnyamata wanu angavutike? Mwina mwangoima kwinakwake kuti mubwere, munaiwala kuti mukhoza kumusangalatsa ndi zodabwitsa zina? Kapena, mwinamwake, inu nokha mwakhala osasangalatsa, mutapita mofulumira mu moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Zonsezi zingachititse kuti munthu wanu asakhale chinthu chosangalatsa, adalowa muzinthu zosayanjanitsa ndi zabodza tsiku lonse kutsogolo kwa TV, osafuna kuchita chirichonse.
Ngati mfundo yonseyi ndi yakuti mwasiya kusonkhana ndi zosangalatsa, ndiye kuti palibe chovuta kubweretsa munthu kumbuyo. Muyenera kupita kumabwalo a usiku nthawi zambiri ngati amawakonda. Ngati sakonda makanema, ndiye kuti mukhoza kusonkhana ndi kampani yosangalala komanso kupita ku ayezi. Iyi ndi malo abwino pomwe mukhoza kuseka mwamtima podzipweteketsa nokha, kulandira maukwati angapo, kupeza malipiro abwino a adrenaline ndikuiwala mavuto onse. Ngati mukuganiza kuti izi sizingakwanire, mukhoza kupita ndikumwa nthawi yabwino ndi chodyera chokoma m'bwalo pafupi. Kukambirana kwachisoni ndi nthabwala zapadera zimamulepheretsa munthu kuchoka ku maganizo okhumudwitsa ndipo adzapereka kwa iye ndi inu, kumasuka kodikira kwa nthawi yaitali ndi kumverera kuti tsikulo silinali chabe. Pamapeto pake, siwe wokalamba - muyenera kusangalala!
Njira ina - m'chilimwe mungathe kusonkhanitsa abwenzi anu onse abwino ndi kuwononga zachilengedwe. Pa udzu wambiri wa chilimwe kuti mutulutse katundu wawo, tulutsani miyendo yowopa, mumsewu. Sewerani badminton, pamene abambowo adzakhala akukonzekera bwino kwambiri shish kebab ya kuphika kwa manja (yomwe nthawi zambiri imapangitsa nyama kukhala priori ngakhale tastier). Kuyika nyimbo zauzimu, kuimba nyimbo zachikondi pansi pa gitala pamoto wotentha. Kulandira, kuyang'ana malasha otsiriza akupita, akuyamikira nyenyezi zazikulu zoyera ...
Ngati msewu uli wozizira, nthawi yachisanu kapena kumayambiriro kwa masika, komanso kukwera mu chilengedwe sikungatheke chifukwa cha nyengo, ndipo simukufuna kupita kwina kulikonse - mukhoza kukhala ndi phwando kunyumba. Ndipo kuti izi zikhale zosangalatsa komanso zosangalatsa - kupanga madzulo madzulo, mwachitsanzo, chovala chovala. Mudzawona, ndi alendo, ndipo inu nokha mudzakhala okondwa, chifukwa nthawi yochuluka inu mupita kukonzekera kukonzekera chochitika chochititsa chidwi ichi!
Ngati zonsezi sizimayambitsa chibwenzi chanu pa zosangalatsa - ndiye ganizirani zomwe amakonda. Ngati iye ali wovuta nsomba - mukhoza kupita kumtsinje pamodzi. Mudzapempha kuti aphunzitse nzeru zonse za usodzi ndikulonjeza kukhala chete. Pofuna kulimbikitsa zotsatira ndi kukondweretsa wokondedwa wanu, mukufunika kukhala osangalala ndi kusangalala ndi ana pa nsomba iliyonse yowonongeka, kuyamikira luso ndi luso la mnyamata ndipo kunena kuti nyama yake ndi yaikulu!
Wopikisana ndi mpira angapereke matikiti pa masewera okondweretsa, mumulole apite ndi abwenzi, mafani, poboleet kwa timu imene mumakonda. Adzasangalala kwambiri ndi zodabwitsa zotere, monga momwe anthu amaganiza kuti msungwana sangathe kumvetsetsa zokonda zawo za mpira kapena masewera ena.
Ngati mwamuna wanu ali wokonda kwambiri mumtima mwake, konzekerani ulendo wopita ku mafilimu a mzere wotsiriza, kusungani mtima wachikondi komanso kumuzunza mwachikondi panthawi yonseyi. Pambuyo pa filimuyi, mukhoza kupita ku dera la usiku lopanda kanthu, idyani magawo awiri a ayisikilimu ndikuyenda mu misewu yopanda kanthu, mutagwira manja.
Chabwino, potsiriza, chinachake chimene palibe munthu angakane, ziribe kanthu zomwe amangochita nazo zokondweretsa. Izi - chakudya chamakono kunyumba, ndi makandulo, kukhala ndi malingaliro abwino ndi zinthu za exotics. Konzekerani zodabwitsa zotere pasadakhale. Pamene ali kutali (mwachitsanzo, kuntchito), muyenera kukhala ndi nthawi yopangira zakudya zokometsera zokometsetsa, kuyika botolo la vinyo amene mumawakonda, kugula ndi makandulo onunkhira. Pezani nyimbo zosangalatsa zomwe mumazikonda kwambiri - mulole nyimbo zabwinozi zikuperekani nanu madzulo. Ndiye script imadalira inu. Inu mukhoza kukhala olimba mtima kwambiri ndi omveka.
Mwinamwake mumadziwa kuvina bwino - ndiye pangani madyerero madzulo. Zikuwoneka bwino mu kuyang'ana kwa kuvina kwa mimba kummawa kwa mimba - kuchokera kwa chibwenzi chako ichi ndithudi ndizozunguza, osati kuchokera ku hop. Chabwino, ndipo ngati muli ndi luso la masewera apulasitiki - konzani zomwe mumazikonda kwambiri. Tili otsimikiza kuti adzasangalala komanso adzitamandira kwa abwenzi ake kuti ndinu munthu wanzeru kwambiri!
Chabwino, kuvina kumafuna kuthetsa ndi kugonana kokondana kwambiri. Mukhoza kusewera masewera ochita masewero kapena kumangokhalira kumangodzipha - mutatha kukonzekera ngati mimba kapena mimba mukuvina mnyamata wanu adzakhala wopanda mphamvu komanso wokonda kwambiri.
Chikondi choterechi (mungathe kunena, kukonda) madzulo chidzapereka kwa inu ndi chibwenzi chanu maganizo a sabata. Mudzawuluka pa mapiko a chikondi ndi chikondi, mutseguka wina ndi mzake zida zatsopano za moyo - zomwe nthawi zonse zimakhala bwino pa chiyanjano chilichonse. Choncho, chikondi chanu chidzakula, ndipo mutha kukondanso kwambiri, zomwe ziri ndi udindo woperekera pambuyo pa ubale weniweni.
Chabwino, ndipo mwadzidzidzi mwazindikira kuti vuto liri mwa inu nokha - ndiye muyenera kudzikonza nokha. Ganizilani: ndi mbali ziti za khalidwe lanu zomwe zachotsedwa nthawi, ngakhale kuti zinkakonda kwambiri mnyamata wanu poyamba? Mwinamwake munasiya kuseka kwambiri ndipo munayamba kung'ung'udza ndikumugwedeza chinachake? Iyi ndi mwayi wokumbukira pang'ono khalidwe lanu. Ngakhale, ngakhale, pali zochitika zotere zomwe amuna omwe amachititsa khalidwe "lodzudandaula" la mtsikanayo. Koma ndinu wanzeru, muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti izi ndizozungulira, ndipo ndiwe nokha omwe mungathe kuziphwanya. Kungokhala zomwe iye amakonda - ndi mkwiyo wake wonse ngati dzanja lidzachotsa.
Zimapezeka kuti munthu akufuna chinachake chatsopano mu moyo: yesani kuyamba ndi nokha. Sinthani tsitsi lanu ku makina a makina, kusintha mawonekedwe a zovala, ndi kuwonekera patsogolo pa "gawo" latsopano. Adzayamikira kusintha kumeneku, makamaka ngati mwapanga chithunzi chogwirizana ndi chokongola.
Chinthu chachikulu ndikuzindikira nthawi yomwe moyo wanu umayamba kukhumudwa ndikukhala ndi zinthu zakale. Ngati mwamvetsetsa chomwe chili cholakwika, mudzatha kukonza chilichonse ndikupatsanso mpweya wanu watsopano!