Chikondi molingana ndi dongosolo

Kawirikawiri amakhulupirira kuti chikondi ndi chinachake mwadzidzidzi komanso chosakonzekera. Chimene sichingakhoze kuwonedweratu ndi zomwe tapatsidwa mwa chiwonongeko. Mwatsoka, zochitika zamakono zimatiuza zosiyana. Ndipo ngati mudikira "mana a kumwamba", ndiye kuti chikhumbo chokhumba sichingapezeke. Kuwonjezera apo, izi ndizochitika ponena za ife kuti "ndipo hatchi idzaima phokoso, ndikulowa m'nyumba yotentha", choncho tiyenera kumanga ndondomeko kuti tipeze chikondi ndikuyiyika.


Ikani cholinga

Cholinga chilichonse chabwino, monga lamulo, chimayamba ndi ndondomeko yabwino. Sikofunika kukhazikitsira zolinga zakumwamba, zovuta kuzifikira, pakukwaniritsa mwayi wapadera wokha womwe ungathandize. Chikhumbo chokumana ndi kalonga wolowa manja ndi dorogaschimavtomobile ndi nyumba ya dziko imene zovala zonsezi zimakhala ndi chovala cha Chanel si cholinga, koma limodzi la maloto osayembekezeka omwe nthawi zina amawazunza atsikanawo asanalowe. Cholinga chake, mwachitsanzo, chikhumbo chokwatirana ndi mutu wa olimba omwe ali ndi maphunziro oterowo. Kukula pa masentimita 180, kumakonda kulumpha.

Mukamvetsetsa mtundu wa munthu yemwe mumamufuna, mvetserani chisa. Maonekedwe anu ndi makhalidwe apamtima ayenera kufanana ndi amuna osankhidwa. Pokhapokha mumakhala ndi chidwi ndi munthu woteroyo. Pachifukwa ichi, muyenera kukhala okongola komanso kukhala ndi nzeru zambiri. Koma musapitirire. Aliyense adzachita mantha ndi mfundo zowonjezereka za mawu osangalatsa. Ngati nonse ndinu okongola komanso anzeru, cholinga chanu chidzakhala kwa inu, ngati sichipezeka mosavuta, ndiye kuti zambiri siziyenera "kuvutika" nazo. Ngati izo zitero, izo zidzakhala zofunikira kuti idzagulitse ndalama zina poyang'ana mawonekedwe ake akunja. Pa gawo loyambalo, yongolerani chovala chanu. Poyamba, yonjezerani zovala zina zochititsa chidwi. Gulani zodzoladzola zabwino. Lolani kukhala pang'ono, koma lidzakhala lapamwamba kwambiri. Ngati ndi kotheka, yesani kugwira ntchito yanu.

Pambuyo pa ntchito yomwe mukufunayo ndiyomwe mungakwanitse, dziwani nthawi yomwe cholingacho chidzakwaniritsidwe. Kwa mwezi umodzi, theka la chaka kapena chaka?

Pambuyo pake, ndondomekoyi iyenera kugawidwa m'magulu angapo: ndalama, malonda ndi kukhazikitsa.

Malonda

Choyamba, yang'anani msika, ndiko kuti, kupeza yankho la funso lakuti "Kodi ndingakumane ndi munthu wotani amene mukufuna kumuwona pa udindo wa wosankhidwa wanu." Mwachitsanzo, m'madera ena, malesitilanti kapena maofesi ena, omwe mukuganiza nawo, angamuthandize.

Dalelezduet apeze zomwe chikhalidwe ichi chili nacho ndikuzilembera mndandanda wa zofuna zawo. Simukusowa kuti muphunzire mwatsatanetsatane mbali iliyonse. Zokwanira kusonyeza chidwi ndikudziwa zina. Phunzirani deta ina, mwachitsanzo, pa bizinesi kapena ma njinga, malingana ndi zomwe iye akufuna. Kotero mukhoza kumusangalatsidwa ndikuthandizira kukambirana. Kuphatikizanso, amuna ambiri ngati mkazi samvetsa kanthu ndikumuuza kuti afotokoze chirichonse kwa iye.

Ndalama

Zomwe zimaphatikizapo sizingapewe. Popeza ndondomekoyi imapereka ndondomeko yowonjezera ya zovalazo ndi zovala zokongola, zokongola, kugula zonunkhira ndi zodzoladzola zabwino, muyenera kuonetsetsa kuti muli ndi ndalama zokwanira. Mukhoza kusunga ndalama mubokosi lanu, kuti musayese chilichonse pa zinthu zomwe mungathe kuchita. Kuti mupitirize kukhala wokhazikika, simukusowa kupita kuchipatala katatu pa sabata. Ndipo zimakhala zovuta kupanga pulogalamu yanu kuti mutha kupeza nthawi ya chirichonse: ntchito, kugula maulendo ndi kupita kukachita masewera olimbitsa thupi nthawi zonse. Zomalizazi zikhoza kusinthidwa ndikukhala ndi ndalama zambiri nthawi ndi njira. Lembetsani kugwiritsa ntchito mafuta ndi mafuta. Chitani nokha panyumba. Ngati muli ndi ndalama zowonjezera, mukhoza kutulutsa ndi natrenazher. Kupatula pang'ono kudya, yoga yambiri komanso zopanda zina mu dongosolo lino, simukusowa.

Ngati simusamala kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama zowonjezera kapena ayi, mukhoza kupita ulendo. Mu salon ya kalasi yoyamba ndizotheka kudziwana ndi munthu wamalonda wolemera.

Kudziwa bwino ndikulowa mu bwalo lakulankhulirana lomwe mukulifuna mwanjira yamalonda, popanda kukondana. Dzipatule pafupi ndi phazi lofanana, ndiko, kumusonyeza kuti mumaganiza kuti ndi wochenjera. Funsani thandizo kapena uphungu pazinthu zina.

Mayi wa bizinesi wamakono ndi imodzi mwa ntchito zovuta kwambiri kuti azidzikumbutsa okha kuti simungathe kusonyeza kudziwa kwanu nthawi yomweyo, kuvumbulutsa kuzindikira kwanu m'maganizo osiyanasiyana. Yesetsani kupereka zochepa pang'onopang'ono, musamapweteke munthu amene angakonzekeze mwamuna wake sraksprosami za moyo wake. Kuyankhulana kuyenera kukhala kosavuta ngati kotheka.

Zochita Zina

Analimbikitsidwa pokonza njira. Ndi bwino kuganizira njira ziwiri zomwe zingakwaniritsire zochitika ndi momwe mungayankhire. Njira yayikuluyi imapereka chitukuko cha zochitika malinga ndi dongosolo. Njira ina idzapulumutsira ngati zonse sizili momwemo. Ndikofunika kuganizira nthawi zonse zomwe mtumikiyo angagwidwe. Kuyambira pano, malingalirowa akadakali ndondomeko ya bizinesi, sizimangokhalira kuyandikira njira yothetsera vutoli, monga momwe amai ambiri amachitira, koma mwachangu. Choncho, ngati simukulephera kukonza dongosolo A, mutha kugwiritsa ntchito ndondomeko B, musamawope ndi mantha.

Tsopano, podziwa zochitika ndi malamulo kuti mukwanitse zolinga zomwe mwakhazikitsira, mungathe kupanga chokhumba ndi kuyamba kuchigwiritsa ntchito. Mukagwedezeka kunja ngati mukuganiza kuti mwa kungoganiza chabe chikhumbo ndi kukhala mukuyembekezera chozizwitsa, mudzakwaniritsa chinachake. Chokhumba kokha, changu ndi kudzigwira nokha kudzakuthandizani kukwaniritsa zomwe mwakonza.