Chikondi. Palibe mawu pa dziko lapansi omwe amachititsa chidwi chotero mu moyo. Wokongola kapena wosasangalala, wosaganiziridwa kapena "kumanda," ndi iye yemwe angakhoze kukankhira anthu ku zosayembekezereka ndi zosadzikonda potsutsana ndi chiwonongeko. Ndipo panthawi yomweyi, zimakhala zopweteka zambiri, zolakwitsa zambiri ndi misala zakhala zikuchitidwa m'dzina la chikondi chomwecho. Mukhoza kukana, kupewa, kuvomereza kapena mantha, koma palibe munthu wotero amene angakhale wopanda chidwi ndi chikondi chachinsinsi komanso chosadziwika.
Kusangalala maganizo a maubwenzi
Odziwika otchuka a miyoyo ya anthu - akatswiri a maganizo amagwiritsa ntchito kuyesa kumasula chinsinsi cha chikondi. Atatha kuwona, adaganiza kuti mwamuna ndi mkazi ali ndi mwayi wokondana wina ndi mzake ngati atakumana ndi mavuto aakulu kuposa momwe amachitira pa msonkhano. Koma panthawi imodzimodziyo, okonda omwe alembetsa chikondi pa rafting kwambiri pa kayaks pa mitsinje yamapiri amakhumudwitsidwa, chifukwa chakuti chikondi chimene chachitika muzochitika zachilendo kumafuna kukhala ndi adrenaline nthawi zonse ndipo imangowonjezereka m'moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Ayi, kufufuza kwa satana wodalirika moyo kumafuna chidwi kwambiri. Palibe zodabwitsa kuti anthu amati: "Nthawi zisanu ndi ziwiri, ndipo kamodzi kudula." Inde, izi zimagwirizananso ndi chikondi. Pambuyo pofufuza ndondomeko, asayansi adapeza kuti munthu, asanakumane ndi imodzi kapena imodzi yokha, amapanga chikondi kasanu ndi kawiri. Koma ngakhale apa akatswiri a maganizo opeza maganizo akupeza zovuta: zimachitika kuti abambo ndi amai nthawi zambiri amayamba kukondana ndi abwenzi awo, kukumbukira akunja atate kapena amayi omwe nthawiyina anali osathetsa mavuto. Anthu amayesetsa kuthetsa mavuto a ana akakula.
Kuchokera pakuwona sayansi
M'nthaŵi ya kupita patsogolo kwa sayansi, asayansi achimuna akuyesera nthawi zonse, mothandizidwa ndi nzeru zawo zomveka, kuti awulule izi ndi chinsinsi chobisika cha moyo waumunthu - chikondi. Mwachitsanzo, aliyense amadziwa kuti kugwa m'chikondi, timakonda kukondana naye. Panali kutanthauzira kwathunthu kwasayansi pa izi, chifukwa mwa mwamuna wokonda ziphuphu za ubongo, zomwe zimayambitsa zolakwika ndi kupanga zosankha zomveka bwino, ziri mu tulo ta tulo. Chikondi chimenechi chimakhala chaka chimodzi mpaka zaka zitatu, kotero kuti awiriwa ali ndi nthawi yokwanira yopanga banja, kukhala ndi mwana komanso kusamalira mwanayo panthawi imene amafunikira chitetezo. Izi, zikhoza kunenedwa, ndi njira yodzitetezera isanachitike yomwe inapereka moyo kwa anthu. Mwinamwake ndichifukwa chake pali vuto la chaka chachinayi cha moyo wothandizira, pomwe anthu amatha kusudzulana.
Kawirikawiri, monga momwe mumadziwira kale, chikondi chimadalira mwachindunji mankhwala omwe amachititsa ubongo wa munthu. Mwamuna wachikondi amakhudzidwa ndi dopamine - chinthu chomwe chimayambitsa chisangalalo, ndicho chimayambitsa iwo omwe ali ndi "dongosolo la mphotho" m'munda wa ubongo waumunthu. Ndizodziwikiratu kuti zotsatira zofanana pamadera amenewa zimapangidwa ndi cocaine. Choncho, mwachidziwikire, chikondi chikhoza kufanana ndi kudalira mankhwala, kumene asayansi apeza mankhwala otchedwa serotonin. Amathetsa kumverera kwa chikondi, koma chikoka chogonana chimakhala chofanana. Mlingo wa serotonin ukhoza kuwonjezeka mothandizidwa ndi odwala matenda opatsirana.
Zakale za mbiriyakale
Eya, chikondi ndi chinthu chovuta kwambiri, ndipo ngati asayansi akuyesa kuti adziwe zomwe zimayambitsa kumverera, ndiye kuti kufufuza, monga akunenera, kumaso. Mbiri ndi zamakono zili ndi zochitika zochititsa chidwi, zomwe zinakhala chikondi. Kuchokera kuzinyoza mpaka zopanda pake, iwo sangakhoze kunyalanyaza aliyense.
Tangoganizirani, pamene m'zaka za m'ma 1200 Conrad III adagonjetsa mzinda wa Weinsberg, adalola akaziwo kuchoka mumzindawu ndikupita nawo okha zomwe angathe kunyamula. Akaziwo anaikidwa pamapewa a amuna awo ndipo iwo anachoka mumzindawo. Kotero chikondi chinapulumutsa mazana a miyoyo.
Ndizovuta kwambiri kunena kuti mwadzidzidzi pamene Pushkin akupereka ndakatulo yakuti "Ndimakumbukira zozizwitsa ..." kwa Anna Kern, ndipo zaka khumi ndi zisanu Glinka akuika mzerewu nyimbo, ndikupereka mwana wake wamkazi Anna - Catherine.
Chikondi chimakhala champhamvu kwambiri kuti moyo wonse padziko lapansi ukhale pansi pake: anthu, nyama, ndi mbalame. Mu 2006, mtsikana wakuda wakuda Peter, yemwe ankakhala m'mphepete mwa madzi m'madzi ku Germany, adakondana ndi munthu wamba wamtundu wotchedwa swan. Petra nthawi zonse ankadumphira dzuwa likamalowa, pamene adayendayenda ndikuwonetseratu nkhanza ku makiyi omwe amayandikira sitima yopanda kanthu. Pa nthawi yomweyo adakana kukwatirana ndi amuna a mitundu yake. Kwa anthu achilendo awa omwe akhala akuyang'ana kwa zaka zingapo.
Anthu amasiku ano amakonda kuonekera paliponse, ngakhale m'chikondi. Mwinamwake, ndiye iye amene adakakamiza awiri a ku Britain kuti asweke zolemba zonse za kupsompsona. Kupsompsona kumeneku kunatenga maola oposa makumi atatu ndi limodzi. Kawirikawiri, kupsyopsyona, monga momwemo, ndi chinthu chothandiza kwambiri, chifukwa amuna omwe amapsompsona akazi awo m'mawa, amakhalitsa zaka zoposa zisanu. Pa nthawi yomweyi, 65% mwa anthu omwe ampsompsona amatembenuza mitu yawo kumanja. Panthaŵi imodzimodziyo pa nthawi ya Rus ', a ku France anapsyopsyona a Chitata ndipo mpingo unatsutsa mwamphamvu.
M'dzina la lamulo
Chikondi chimalamulira dziko lapansi, koma dziko lapansi, monga likukhalira, nthawi zonse amayesa kulinyalanyaza ufulu wawo, ngakhale mwalamulo komanso palamulo. Kupambana kwakukulu kudera lino kwapangidwa ndi Achimereka, malamulo ena omwe ali ngati anecdote. Dziweruzireni nokha. Kumzinda waukulu wa makina a American, Detroit akuletsedwa kuti azikondana m'galimoto, koma ngati galimoto imayimilira m'gawo la mwiniwake, ndiye kuti lamulo likutha. Mtawuni ya Konorsville nkovuta kuwombera panthawi yomwe mkazi wake akuwombera mfuti. Malamulo a Iowa amaletsa kupanga mowa wopitirira atatu ngati mukugonana ndi mkazi wanu kapena mukunyamula m'manja mwanu. Koma amene samenyana ndi a Britons kwa nthawi yaitali akupsompsona, kotero awa ndi okonda Maryland, chifukwa sangathe kupsopsonana kwa mphindi imodzi. Ku Minnesota, kuletsa kugonana ndi ndiwo zamasamba. Koma pazolembera kwa alendo omwe anasonkhana ku South Dakota, musapange chikondi m'mahotela pakati pa mabedi, ngati simukufuna kuphwanya lamulo. Mu umodzi wa midzi ya boma la Virginia, mumachotsa kuunika panthawi yogonana, kuti musakhale pa doko. Eya, ndizowopsya kulingalira momwe angayang'anire kukhazikitsidwa kwa malamulowa.