Tsiku lokoma, malinga ndi akazi

Kodi ndi tsiku liti labwino kwambiri, malingaliro a amayi? Kodi ndi nthawi iti yomwe idzakhala yawo yosakumbukika, yowala, yachikondi komanso, chofunika kwambiri, choyambirira? Malingaliro a chibwenzi kwa amayi, makamaka, angakhale ambiri ndipo mkazi aliyense amafunikira njira yoyenera pakusankha bwino chibwenzi. Mkazi aliyense amaimira tsiku limeneli mwa njira yake.

Amuna ayenera kudziwa chinthu chofunika kwambiri - chomwe chidzachititsa chidwi ndikukumbukiridwa kwa nthawi yaitali ndi mkazi wokondedwa. Kodi mungagwiritse ntchito liti tsiku lapamwamba kwambiri, ndi momwe mungakonzekere? Monga lamulo, akazi ambiri amakonda chikondi. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri pa tsiku lachikondi ndi chakuti sichiyenera kukhala chimodzimodzi. Kukondana ndi zochita ndizofunika. Zikuwoneka kuti ngati muli ndi wokondedwa ndipo mwakonzeka kupita kuntchito, muli ndi mzimu wa ulendo, ndiye muli ndi nthawi yosangalatsa komanso yosakumbukika. Ziribe kanthu bwanji. Koma pokhudzana ndi zochita zowonongeka, ndiko kusankha malo a msonkhano ndi zolemba zake, zonsezi zimathera mu zosankha za banal, monga cafe, filimu, paki kapena disco.

Monga lamulo, misonkhano yoteroyo imakhala yosauka ndikukhala yamba, koma ngati mutayandikira tsikulo ndi malingaliro, ndiye ndithudi, chinthu chosangalatsa chingatheke. Cafe, momwe mumayendera mosalekeza, ngati zosankha sizikugwirizana. Kuchita zachikondi, malinga ndi mkaziyo, kuyenera kuchitika mu malo odyera okongola ndi chakudya chabwino, komwe kumakhala nyimbo yokoma ndi yamtendere. Masiku ano pali malo odyera osiyana siyana omwe ali ndi zakudya zosiyanasiyana padziko lapansi. Malo odyera okhala ndi Italy kapena French adzakhala malo abwino kwa tsiku labwino, malinga ndi akazi. Kusankha malo odyera abwino mumzindawu, mukhoza kulawa mbale zomwe zingakonzekereni mbuye wake. Tsiku loti akazi sangakumbukire. Koma msonkhano, malinga ndi amayi, ukhoza kukondana komanso kukhala wokonzeka kunyumba.

Mukhoza kukulunga ndi wokondedwa wanu mu bulangeti lofunda, khalani pansi pabedi ndi chikho cha chinachake chotentha kapena ndi galasi la vinyo ndikulankhula zakukhosi. Mwanjira iyi mukhoza kugawana zinsinsi ndi maloto obisika, ndikukhala nthawi zosangalatsa kwambiri pamoyo wanu. Mungathe kupitanso tsiku linalake la tiyi, komwe malo odzisangalatsa amakufikitsani pafupi, ndipo mudzakhala ndi mtendere wa mumtima ndi mtendere. Ngakhale kuyenda mu paki kungakhale kosangalatsa komanso kosazolowereka. Ngati mukufuna kutaya nthawi kunja, ndipo mwakhala mukulakalaka kuphunzira kukwera kavalo, kukwera pa akavalo ndi wokondedwa wanu kudzakhala tsiku lokongola.

Pa tsiku lomwelo, mudzaiwala za nkhawa za tsiku ndi tsiku ndikumangika mukulumikizana ndi chilengedwe. Mukhale omasuka ndi okondwa, mbalame ikukwera mmitambo. Kwa amayi omwe amakonda mpumulo wogwira ntchito ndi nthawi zonse za magulu a usiku, ulendo wina ku kampu ukhoza kukumbukira. Poyamba, mutha kusewera bowling kapena mabilididi, ndiyeno mukakwera mu chic limousine kuzungulira mzindawo, muli ndi magetsi usiku. Tangoganizani, muli ndi magalasi a champagne, mukuyendetsa mumzinda wogona. Tsiku lapadera limeneli silidzangokulimbikitsani, koma lidzakhalabe malo owala kwambiri.

Ndipotu, mkazi aliyense si wofunika kwambiri, komwe angagwiritse ntchito tsiku. Padzakhala malo awa kapena malo odyera okwera mtengo, kapena kanyumba kakang'ono kozungulira pang'onopang'ono, kupita ku cinema kwa filimu yomwe mwawona kangapo, koma zomwe mumakonda, kapena pita kunja kwawindo. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti pali munthu pafupi naye yemwe adzamuzungulira iye mwachikondi ndi mwachifundo ndipo pomwepo msonkhano uliwonse ndi munthu wotere udzakumbukira kwa nthawi yaitali.