Mkazi - mdima
Amuna ndi logic, ndipo akazi ali ndi maganizo. Zonse zomwe amayesa kuziyika mu mndandanda womveka bwino, timazindikira pamlingo wa malingaliro ndi maganizo. Ichi ndi chifukwa chake kusamvetsetsa kumachitika. Ziribe kanthu momwe mnyamatayo anayesera kulowetsa pansi pa malamulo ena ndi kulamulira akazi "Sindikudziwa chifukwa chake, koma ndimamva", iye samachipeza. Ndipo kawirikawiri amuna amayesa kumvetsa chifukwa chake mkazi amachitira zimenezi, ngakhale kuyesa kusintha khalidwe lake. Koma ife, amayi okongola, nthawi zonse timachita mosiyana. Zimadalira maganizo, maganizo athu komanso nthawi ya chaka. Pa nthawi yomweyo, tikhoza kuchita mosiyana. Ndipo kutali ndi nthawizonse atsikana amaganiza kuti n'koyenera kufotokoza khalidwe lawo kwa anyamata. Choncho, nthawi zambiri mwamuna samamvetsa mkazi, koma amayesera kuchita zoyenera pazochitika zosiyanasiyana. Ndipo pamene ali ndi mtsikana pafupi ndi iye, nthawi zambiri mnyamatayo "amalowa". Ndiyeno dona akunena kuti waphunzira kuzimvetsa. Ngakhale, makamaka, adangophunzira kupewa zotsutsana ndi mayesero.
Maganizo
Zomwe amai amaonera sizidzamvetsetsanso, choncho simungathe ngakhale kulira kuti adzakugwetsa misonzi pamodzi ndi inu. Inde, anyamatawo si miyala, ndipo akugwiritsanso zinthu zina. Koma iwo sadzamvetsa konse akazi amene angakhoze kulira pa chirichonse chaching'ono. Sichiyenera kudabwa ndi kukwiya. Mfundo ndi yakuti amuna akhala akuphunzitsidwa mosiyana. Kuyambira ali mwana amauzidwa kuti asamalire misozi, kuti akhale wolimba komanso wolimba mtima. Mwachidziwikire, chifukwa cha kukula kumeneku, munthu aliyense amasiya kukhala ndi maganizo. Komanso, achinyamata alibe chizoloŵezi chapadera chomasulira okha. Izi zikutanthauza kuti ngati akuwonera filimuyo, amangotsatira khamulo, ndipo safunafuna zomwe zimachitika pakati pa iye mwini ndi protagonist, anthu ena komanso malo ake. Chifukwa cha ichi, ndikuyang'ana momwe wokondedwa wake amatsanulira kwenikweni ndi misonzi yotentha pa cinema, mwamuna sadzamumvetsa konse. Amatha kutonthoza kuti amatsenga amasiya ndipo msungwanayo samamuuza kuti ndi wozizira komanso wosasamala, koma sitingathe kumvetsa. Choncho, ngati mukumvetsa kuti mnyamata wanu amamvetsa bwino misozi yanu komanso amafuna kulira mafilimu ndi mabuku, mwinamwake mukulakwitsa. Sizingatheke kuti amuna enieni amvetse izi chifukwa cha chikhalidwe chawo. Koma amatha kusewera zinthu, kuti asakhumudwitse.
Chisamaliro cha Akazi
Chinthu china chimene anthu samvetsa (ngati ali amuna, komanso osakonda ana a amayi awo) ndiko chisamaliro cha amayi. Timayesetsa kusamalira aliyense. Musaiwale kukonza chipewa, kumangiriza zingwe, nthawi zambiri kukukumbutsani kuti muyenera kuvala mchere wofewa, tidzakakamiza kukopa mittens ndi zina zotero. Anyamata samvetsa izi. Amatiyang'anitsitsa ndikudziletsa okha kumayesayesa awo omaliza kuti ayambe kusokoneza. Chowonadi ndi chakuti munthu amalola kuti azisamaliridwa okha ndi omwe ali ofooka. Kawirikawiri, awa ndi ana. Apo ayi mnyamatayo amauza mwana wake wamwamuna kuti amavala mwachikondi ndipo ngati samvera, sadzabwereza, chifukwa amakhulupirira kuti aliyense ayenera kuphunzira kuchokera ku zolakwa zawo. Choncho, iye sadziwa chifukwa chake timagwedezeka ndi anthu akuluakulu komanso umunthu. Mwa njira, munthu sangathe kumvetsetsa mosavuta, angakhumudwitse, chifukwa, malinga ndi malingaliro ake, ngati mkazi akusamalira mwamuna, ndiye kuti amamuona kuti ali wofooka koma osadziimira yekha. Ndipo izi ndizoopsa kwa ulemu wa munthu. Choncho, akazi sangakhale ochepa kuti asonyeze ufulu wa amuna (ngakhale tiwona kuti sizingakhale zosasangalatsa), chifukwa mnyamatayu sadzazindikira izi ndipo adzangokhumudwa.
Womenswear
Izi ndi za anthu ndi chinsinsi chosalephereka chomwe sichimayesa kulimbana nacho. Anyamata samamvetsa bwino. Kakuzhe watchulidwa pamwambapa, ali ndi malingaliro, ndipo malingaliro a amayi sangathe kutchulidwa moyenera. Kuonjezerapo, kwa anyamata sizimveka bwino chifukwa chake matepi azimayi, ngati mungathe kulunjika. Ndiyeno simungathe kufotokozera mwanjira iliyonse yomwe ife tikufunira kuti munthu azitha kumvetsa zinthu zonse ndikumusangalatsa popanda malangizo. Ndipotu, ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito mfundo zomveka bwino, chithunzichi chimakhala chizindikiro. Ndiye kodi tanthawuzo la kutchula, ngati mungathe kunena chirichonse molunjika? Ngati mnyamatayu akufuna chinachake, akulankhula. Ngati akuwona kuti nkofunika kuti akhale chete, iye ali chete. Mwamuna samayesa kukankhira mkazi ku chisankho cholondola mothandizidwa ndi zinyama. Achinyamata nthawi zonse amakhala olingalira kuposa atsikana, choncho amawona kuti palibe chifukwa chokhalira ndi nthawi komanso kupeza njira zowonjezera chilakolako chawo chokhala ndi theka lawo popanda kuwauza zachindunji. Choncho, ngati mukuganiza kuti mwamuna angaphunzire kumvetsetsa Mfundo - osalankhulana. Ali ndi malingaliro osiyana kwambiri, kotero ngati iye sachita chinachake, ndiye malingaliro pano sangawathandize. Nthawi zina anyamata amangozindikira zomwe tikufuna kuchokera kwa iwo, koma ndi mwayi woposa luso. Malingaliro a amayi samapatsidwa konse kwa iwo.
Kumvetsa kumene sitikuzindikira
Koma kwenikweni, sikuti anthu samvetsa momwe namkazhetsya amachitira. Nthawi zambiri amatha kumvetsetsa, koma sangagwirizanane ndikusintha. Ndipo komabe, kumvetsetsa amayi, anyamata amachita zinthu momwe akuganiza kuti ndi zolondola ndipo sakudziwa kuti sitingathe kuzindikira kuzindikira kwawo. Mwachitsanzo, bwenzi lamtendere (m'bale) adakhala nanu tsiku lotsatira tsiku lobadwa. Amadziwa kuti simukukonda kukhala pa nthawi ino nokha ndikusankha kukupatsani kampani, kuti musakhale okwiya. Koma pa nthawi yomweyi ali chete. Pokhala ndi kamphindi kamene mumakonda kalembedwe: "Patsikuli", mnyamatayu amangokhala chete pambali. Pankhaniyi, mayiyo amayamba kumva ndikumaganiza kuti samvetsa bwino mmene akumvera. Ndipo amamvetsa zonse. Amamvetsa kuti sakufuna kukhala yekha - ndipo adakhala naye, ngakhale kuti sikunali kofunikira, koma adakhala naye. Ali pafupi - ndipo izi zikuwonetsa malingaliro ake koposa mau ndi malingaliro onse, pamene adalowa muzochitika zake, ngakhale kuti iye mwiniwake pazochitika choncho palibe cholakwika chilichonse. Ndipo ngati mtsikana mwadzidzidzi akuyamba kukwiya ndi kukwiya, apa ndi pamene mnyamatayo sakudziwa chifukwa chake amachitira. Pambuyo pake, adachitanso chimodzimodzi ngati akadakhala bwino, kupempha ndi kukopa, koma akusowa chimwemwe. Choncho, ngati titaya maganizo athu, malingaliro ndi kusunga, amuna amamvetsetsa amayi, ngakhale kuti sakugawanitsa maganizo awo. Koma amayi okha safuna kuona ndi kumvetsa kuti anyamata amayesera kuchita zinthu kuti tizimva bwino. Choncho, amai amazindikira kuti amuna amatha kumvetsetsa, koma tilibe ufulu kuti tiwafunse kuti aganizire zomwezo.