Kuphatikiza kusintha ndi khalidwe la chikhalidwe. Popeza poyamba masiku ovuta kwa msungwana wamng'ono ali opweteka, mwachibadwa ndi mantha omwe amadziwonetsera mukumangika ndi kukwiya. Koma patatha nthawi inayake, kwa mtsikana aliyense wake, masiku amenewo amakhala chinthu chozoloŵera cha moyo wawo.
Ngakhale patapita nthawi, kusamba ndi kukhala wamba, koma kwa mkazi aliyense panthawiyi, pali kusintha kwa khalidwe. Pamene pali masiku ofunikira, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zowawa ndipo tsiku lililonse limayenda mosiyana.
Wina ali ndi phindu laling'ono, kupweteka m'mimba pamimba, kuchepa kwa mammary glands ndipo n'zosadabwitsa kuti aliyense wa ife sangasangalale ndi chikhalidwe chathu. Ndipo ngati pangakhale nthendayi pamaso, kunyada kwa maso ndi miyendo, kusowa tulo, ngakhale ngakhale kutatsala kwa tchuthi, ndiye kuti palibe zosangalatsa zokhazokha. Popeza panthawi imeneyi chiberekero chikuwonjezeka, pali kuwonjezeka kwa kukodza, komwe kumabweretsa maulendo ambiri kupita ku chipinda, kutisokoneza.
Makhalidwe a mkazi m'masiku ovuta samamvetsetsedwa nthawi zonse ndi anthu oyandikana nawo, motero ali ndi malangizo amodzi: kukhala wofatsa, wachifundo, wodzichepetsa m'masiku osautsa ngati amenewa kwa munthu wokondedwa kwa iwe.
Mayi ayenera kudziyang'anira yekha: yesani kuvala zovala zolimba zomwe zimayambitsa mimba ndi chifuwa chanu; Yesetsani kuchepetsa kuchuluka kwa madzi amene mumamwa, kudziperekera mchere, ngati mukutupa, pewani kulemera kwambiri, kugona kwambiri, tengani madzi osamba. Mu zakudya zanu muyenera kukhala ndi masamba ndi zipatso zatsopano. Pewani mavuto anu: werengani bukhu, yang'anani kanema yomwe mumakonda kapena masewera omwe mumakonda, mverani nyimbo zabwino. Ndipo kachilombo kena kamodzi kamagwiritsira ntchito machiritso, amakhala ndi zotsatira zowonongeka ndikuthandizira kuchotsa kukhumudwa, komanso chifukwa cha kugona m'malo mogona mapiritsi kumwa zakumwa za mkaka wowonjezera.
Makhalidwe a amayi masiku oterewa ndi osiyana. Aliyense amakumana ndi nthawi imeneyi pamwezi mwawo. Kuphika sikugwira ntchito, ndiye supu yamchere, mbatata inatenthedwa, mbatata inatenthedwa, kuyeretsa sikunapite bwino, panalibe chovala chilichonse, kapena mwamunayo anati, mwanayo anachita chinachake, sakonda chirichonse, nthawi zonse amatha, ngakhale chigamulo chachisokonezo chingakhalepo, kulira kwa tinthu , akufuula chifukwa cha zamkhutu ndi onse mu mzimu uwu. Kwa mkazi aliyense, ndizodabwitsa kukhala wongokayikira, koma pamene masiku ovuta amabwera, whims ake alibe malire. Ndipo patatha masiku angapo chirichonse chidzagwa.
Makhalidwe a amayi panthawi yovuta, kusokonezeka, kukwiya, kuchepetsa maganizo, thanzi labwino komanso mavuto a chilakolako angapezeke.
Mkazi wina atakalamba, madzulo a masiku otsiriza, akuvulazidwa kwambiri. Ntchito yake imachepa, kutopa kumawonjezeka, ndipo nthawi zina kupweteka kumayamba. Zochitika za mkati zimayambira zomwe zimagwirizana ndi kutha kwa masiku ovuta, mwachitsanzo, ndi kuyamba kwa ukalamba.
Mankhwala abwino kwambiri kwa mkazi aliyense, mosasamala za msinkhu, ndi chikondi ndi chithandizo cha wokondedwa, kumverera kuti ndi kofunikira ndi kofunika.
Akazi okondedwa, khalani payekha, yesetsani kusokoneza maganizo anu okondedwa pa okondedwa anu. Kumbukirani kuti mahomoni ndi mahomoni, ndipo ubwino wanu komanso achibale anu zimadalira mokondwera.
Masiku ovuta kwa amayi ena ndi abwinobwino popanda vuto lililonse, ululu, zomwe sungathe koma kusangalatsa anthu omwe ali pafupi naye.